It's a shame that you are in the minority there.
No character? No action? Do me a favour. Go watch them again.
The majority of the X-Men don't do anything and have very few lines. Even Wolverine who is shoved in your face isn't accurately portrayed. And how can you expect anyone coming out of X1 or X2 to think "Wow Cyclops is so awsome! he's my favorite".
By the time X3 came along it would have been difficult to convince the main audience that this was a character that deserved a leading role. Someone who was a strong confident leader and was Jean's true Romance interest. I think even on a commentary on one of the first two movie James Marsden says there's a role reversal in his relationship in Jean. He wants a relationship and hes kind of sensitive which makes him kind of like the woman.
It was obvious that Jean was attracted to Logan because he is strong, confident, and rugged. An X3 where Scott should have been the lead, he would have needed to be the things he wasn't in X1 and 2. He needed to be strong and face unfathomable odds to save the woman he loves. He couldn't just transform into these things between X2 and 3. The character had already been greatly distanced from the audience. No one was going to be cheering him on to save his girl.
Ok, so where is the team action in X1? Where's the part where a group of mutants team up to fight earth's most powerful supervillain? The newbie Wolverine fights Mystique and Sabretooth while the vets Cyclops, Storm, and Jean have their hands full with...toad. The convenience of the plot allowed them to get around having an acton sequence with magneto. I mean Wolverine couldn't beat him and they werent going to let anyone else to do it so it worked out.
X2 X-men United. The x-men are never all together until the end of the movie. No group sequences. Of course they go the splitting up covers more ground approach again. Wolverine gets his mansion scene and his big fight against another mute villain. Cyclops get pwned by two women in this movie and then cries in the arm of the man thats been trying to steal his girl.
Popularity doesn't equal quality to me. If that was true then we could agree the Jonas bros. make great music and the Twilight movies are awesome. I hated X1 when it first came out. I liked X2 alot better and I kind warmed up to X1 later. But I still realize the flaws in these movies and wish we had gotten something better. I'm not gonna praise them because everyone else does. And I'm not going to blame Ratner because everyone else does. It was Singer's first two movies that made it hard to make the X3 everyone wishes they had gotten.