Quick answer: No.
Long answer: No, but...
...like
any comic, you can ask hypothetical questions like:
If they did "x" this way, then why
couldn't they have done "y" instead?
And you can ask questions like that till you're blue in the face. But at the end of the day, every story is done a specific way for a specific reason-- and if you're going to keep throwing one hypothetical question after the other-- "Could you tell a story where Captain America was secretly Daredevil's Great Grampa from the war?" "Could you tell a story where Werewolf by Night was actually a mutant?" "Could you tell a story where Hulk has been super-smart all along and playing us for suckers?" Well,
sure you can. And that's called fanfic.
But when you come down to it, the books are what the books are, and that's what they are. (That's either VERY existential-- or I'm paraphrasing Popeye. Take your pick.)
Personally, I don't think you
could tell the first page of the first issue of BND with a "married Spider-Man".
But wait! If you did, then that scene would have made Spider-Man's wife jealous! And then you-- No. It wouldn't. Why? Because that's
not what happened. What
happened is what happened.
My second arc, The Peter Parker Paparazzi story,
wouldn't have worked at all with a married Spider-Man. *Spoilers* Because then MJ would be cheating on Peter and that would be a *different* story. My third arc, New Ways to Die,
wouldn't have had the same impact if Lily made her move on a married Peter Parker-- then there
wouldn't be the same kind of tension in the Harry/Lily/Peter relationship. And that would be a *different* story.
The dynamic between Vin and Peter
would be different if they were also rooming with Pete's hypothetical wife. The tension between Nora and Peter
would be different in the Hammerhead arc. And the list goes on...
But what if you did this instead of that when you--? And what if Spider-Man still had six arms? What's your point?
That hypothetically the pieces could be moved around to justify things the way any one reader would like it? Well, yeah. That's the nature of the hypothetical situation. If you want to, you can bend, stretch, and squash
any scenario. What if Wanda didn't say "No more mutants"? What if Sue Storm ran off with Namor? What if Odin were still alive and ruling Asgard? Sure. Why not? And, again, that's what fanfics and What If? are for.
Sorry to hear that. But I gotta tell you, as one of the guys working on the book-- a book which, in this age of books that regularly miss shipping-- we are FAR from "lazy". Heck, we've delivered
ALL 36 ISSUES of 2008's thrice-monthly ASM on schedule! And that's along with an annual, ASM EXTRA, ASM FAMILY, and other Spidey material as well! This is one of the hardest working teams in comics! And proud of it!
t:
ttyl
Dan