I want a Superman reboot very badly, but the way some people talk you'd almost think they wished it was a Michael Bay movie (that's not a knock against bay BTW, because I love his movies). I keep hearing "Less plot, less romance, more action, yadayadayada..." The Superman / Clark / Lois love story is too important to be just shoved into the background, but a lot of people seem to want that. I do not think that it should be the movie's primary angle like in Bryan Singer's movie, but it should be one of the main pillars of the story's structure.
I am getting tired of seeing so many people who just want the next Superman movie to be a dumb action flick with no plot. That's not what made The Dark Knight great, so if people want anything close to the Superman equivelent to TDK, they'd better hope that the producers know more about making a good Superman movie than they do.