EMO whinge...myspace gal problems. ANOTHER one...

[Mee]

She obv. didnt want to tell em...but I started to pressure her again saying 'I'm your mate (the truth is- i want to date her) you can tell me'.

I'm hoping you're not American.

Otherwise, this could be what set her off.

 

[Sugarculted]

Weren't good that you hassled her so much, after knowing her for so little

 

[arachnid-guy]

I'm a bastard.

 

[JokerNick]

She was pissed bout sometihng, I could tell.

And well I asked her what was wrong. She said it doesn't matter...

Then I started to say stuff like 'you cant keep all your feelings locked up'...'tell me'.

She obv. didnt want to tell em...but I started to pressure her again saying 'I'm your mate (the truth is- i want to date her) you can tell me'.

I then went offline- compski crashed.

Then i started to text her...lada, lada lada.....same crap.

Asked if she wanted to talk...she said 'no'.

Rung her anyways....she rejected call.

Went back on MSN, thereafter. As soon as I came online, she went off.

And here i am. Depressed over nothing probs.

I'll give it til monday.

you should have said

"do you want to talk about it"

she would say "no"

then be like "that's fine, but if you need someone to talk to, let me know"

then just leave it alone....

 

[Helghast]

I'm a bastard.

No, you are a CRAZY NIKKUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[THERETURN]

Bang her best friend, so it seems u not really interested in her! then Whammy! hit her with the flowers, chocolates and dirty magazines! (AW romance) she'll be in your pants in seconds.

 

[THERETURN]

Bang her best friend, so it seems u not really interested in her! then Whammy! hit her with the flowers, chocolates and dirty magazines! (AW romance) she'll be in your pants in seconds.

 

[Ben Urich]

you should have said

"do you want to talk about it"

she would say "no"

then be like "that's fine, but if you need someone to talk to, let me know"

then just leave it alone....

Yeah man.
You can learn from this

 

[THERETURN]

Damn double posts! i like scotch, scotchy, scotchy, scotch!

 

[arachnid-guy]

you should have said

"do you want to talk about it"

she would say "no"

then be like "that's fine, but if you need someone to talk to, let me know"

then just leave it alone....

I normally do that.

I don't know why this time was different.

I was in a mad mood!

 

[arachnid-guy]

I'll apoligise and beg forgiveness.

 

[Ben Urich]

I normally do that.

I don't know why this time was different.

I was in a mad mood!

Does that mean horny?

 

[arachnid-guy]

Does that mean horny?

i'm that all the time.

 

[Sugarculted]

Don't beg for forgiveness, just apologise

 

[arachnid-guy]

Twas a joke.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

"I Must talk to you about stuff!!!!"

"stuff?"

"yeah, stuff...I must press you upon it's importance!!!!"

"wha?"

"STUFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!"

 

[Mr. Thing]

"I Must talk to you about stuff!!!!"

"stuff?"

"yeah, stuff...I must press you upon it's importance!!!!"

"wha?"

"STUFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!"

Hahaha.

 

[kainedamo]

Typical boy meets gal on myspace.

I'll try to condense this...

It started simply enough...added her myspace (won't provide her myspace) and found out that she lived locally (10 mins down the road)...and got to know her basically. Thought she was very attractive and v. cool personality.

Neways, we got talking.....and organised to meet up- swapped phone numbers and all was going well...but she 'had to take the earlier train' (we organised to meet up before her school started..). Neways...started to talk again...and then she told me one time (bout a week ago) that the only reason she came online was to talk to me. (Doesn't mean anything by it? posssibly)...and then she and her friend rang me up this monday went and started to chat to me.

Suffice to say, i've been talkign to her on the phone for a fair bit. But i'm afraid i may have scuppered it.

Tonight, I sort of came across (in hindsight) as leering and pushy. I spoke to her bout stuff....pushed an answer...tried to ring her....then when i came online just now, she went directly off. I'm a bastard. I'll give her some space (won't talk to her for the weekend). Sorry if i'm not explaining myself that well....I'm pissed coz we're not even going out and i'm like this. Get a grip. Pathetic.

What should I do?

You're over thinking this. Don't worry, everyone does it. Just relax and take it easy. I'm sure everything is fine. Everyone does that whole "did I come across as pushy, was I too quiet" thing. Don't think about it too much.

Relax and chill. Then tell her on msn you've always loved her. It works, trust me.

 

[The Shape]

Maybe if you stopped bagging *****es via Myspace and actually went out to meet girls, things wouldn't be as awkward/weird/difficult for you.

 

[arachnid-guy]

The thing is...I sort of 'know' this girl. You see, I've been talking to her for so long I actually know her very well. She has loads of friends who go to my school so they know what she's like, they also know what i'm like too. And so they tell her bout me, and they tell her bout me.

She even asked about me voluntarialy a few days back. Now, that probs doesnt mean anything too significant, but she is great.....good person, body, face...etc. And well shes a good person and I don't want to loose her friendship.

So....the bottom line is, even though i've never met her I know enough of her (through our convos, friends etc). I would like to ask her out sometime....but well, it's complicated. Won't go into it.

 

[7Hells]

Won't go into it.

too late

 

[Mr. Credible]

myspace is awesome... so much drama

 

[Mr. Credible]

Maybe if you stopped bagging *****es via Myspace and actually went out to meet girls, things wouldn't be as awkward/weird/difficult for you.

that's hardly fair, i meet and hook up with girls at bars and stuff all the time, and i still get on myspace and hook up with girls on there, too... it can work both ways.

and, to the creator of the thread, were you asking her how many guys she'd slept with? was that what you were pushing her to tell you?

 

[arachnid-guy]

that's hardly fair, i meet and hook up with girls at bars and stuff all the time, and i still get on myspace and hook up with girls on there, too... it can work both ways.

and, to the creator of the thread, were you asking her how many guys she'd slept with? was that what you were pushing her to tell you?

No way! But it was something similar to that. I was just wanting to talk to her...when she didn't want to talk to anyone. She was feeling glum, so I tried to cheer her up. Obv...she wanted to be left alone but I was pushy in my 'caring.' Is that the right way to say it?

 

[Helghast]

lol.

Psychologist: Soo what's the problem meatsack?
ArachnidGuy: Uh... erm... I tried to... cheer up a chick I met on MySpace.
Psychologist: Go on.
ArachnidGuy: She was feeling down and I wanted to talk to her about it but she wouldn't tell me what was wrong, so I tried to force an answer out of her.
Psychologist: Mmmhmmm....
ArachnidGuy: Was that wrong of me?
Psychologist: Yes, you're an idiot.
ArachnidGuy: I know.