You both have highlighted just how stupid the concept of a babysitter government is. If the government is paying for your well being, then technically they should require responsibility from the people who they are paying for. If you are abusing your own body, it means that you are abusing the government healthcare system. Are you a big fat fatty? You should have eaten less, so why should the people pay for your gastric bypass? Have lung cancer? You shouldn't have been smoking, so why should the people pay for your chemo? Do you have herpies? Did you catch an STD? You could have kept your pants zipped up, so why should the people pay for your ointment?
My attitude is, private insurance is a much better system, because then people can be as irresponsible as they can afford. If you can't afford to be irresponsible, then maybe that will encourage you to take better care of your body than that idiot who's smoking a pack a day and banging every woman he can get the pants off of.