Friends dilemna

[Carter]

To a certain degree, you seriously don't like other people or think they have much value in your life.

heh

I really think theres a lot of truth here.

 

[reggiebar]

Apparently 10 people want to raid my house tonight to watch a porno movie.
Because it's "The most expensive porno ever made"

Do you guys understand what Im dealing with here?

It is a quality porn film though....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pirates_(Porn_Film)

Isn't it a Pirates life for you?

 

[Carter]

That is indeed the film

 

[Mike059jig]

OMG never knew they when that far for those type of films now....I like knowing alot of people cause it gets you different places in life...but i hate hangin around alot of people cause you get alot of attention which I don't like....just try to tell them no in a cool way....get with them bout 1 or twice a month...thats about it

 

[Ronny Shade]

maybe this will begin the "super-high-budget-porno wave" I've been waiting for since I turned 13

 

[reggiebar]

maybe this will begin the "super-high-budget-porno wave" I've been waiting for since I turned 13

If it happens, this will be the film that started it all.

 

[WorthyStevens]

Apparently 10 people want to raid my house tonight to watch a porno movie.
Because it's "The most expensive porno ever made"

Pirates.

EDIT: Someone already named it...

 

[WorthyStevens]

I've been thinking about this for a while. See, where I live people mostly hang out in large groups. My main core of friends is only about 4 or 5 people, but beyond that we hang out with up to around 13 people.
They love to just hang out at the usual places and not do much of anything.

And I'm the type of guy that like my peace. I'm pretty solitary and despite the fact that I have many people I could just call up and do something with, I'd rather sit home and read, chill in my backyard, etc.

So here in lies my dilemna, some of my group - The 13 or so friends, a few of them think that I might be stuck up, or I don't want to hang out with them because "The only person Carter likes to talk to is Carter".

It's nothing against them, I just don't like being bothered with them all of the time.
So am I being an ass by not wanting to be bothered with my so-called friends?

I'm in the same boat. I hang around about the same amount of people, maybe more, and I'm in the period of hating just about all of them right now.

 

[Kevin]

me and my friends are like a woman and her periods. i see them once a month(sometimes every two months) and when im with them i act like an ass

 

[Hudson]

I've been thinking about this for a while. See, where I live people mostly hang out in large groups. My main core of friends is only about 4 or 5 people, but beyond that we hang out with up to around 13 people.
They love to just hang out at the usual places and not do much of anything.

And I'm the type of guy that like my peace. I'm pretty solitary and despite the fact that I have many people I could just call up and do something with, I'd rather sit home and read, chill in my backyard, etc.

So here in lies my dilemna, some of my group - The 13 or so friends, a few of them think that I might be stuck up, or I don't want to hang out with them because "The only person Carter likes to talk to is Carter".

It's nothing against them, I just don't like being bothered with them all of the time.
So am I being an ass by not wanting to be bothered with my so-called friends?

Nope I'm the same way, most of my friends understand when I want to back off and close myself off.

 

[Arkady Rossovich]

I've been thinking about this for a while. See, where I live people mostly hang out in large groups. My main core of friends is only about 4 or 5 people, but beyond that we hang out with up to around 13 people.
They love to just hang out at the usual places and not do much of anything.

And I'm the type of guy that like my peace. I'm pretty solitary and despite the fact that I have many people I could just call up and do something with, I'd rather sit home and read, chill in my backyard, etc.

So here in lies my dilemna, some of my group - The 13 or so friends, a few of them think that I might be stuck up, or I don't want to hang out with them because "The only person Carter likes to talk to is Carter".

It's nothing against them, I just don't like being bothered with them all of the time.
So am I being an ass by not wanting to be bothered with my so-called friends?

Real friends would respect that sometimes you would like to be alone.Everyone can be like that sometiems.Its just that some people dont understand this,if they cant see that.Then they are not real friends to you.

 

[War Lord]

who?

Your friend that ran away, I remember him.

 

[redmarvel]

Good advice but it would go off better if all your friends showed up and you were naked.

*lol* well, that would be one way to figure out which of them like you for you and which of 'em just want your body.

 

[ico]

It's totally natural to want to have your own space, but again its also totally natural that your friends will miss your company and get a little miffed if you don't turn up a lot.

I would say just explain it to them. You're a pretty solitary person, and you like your own time, and it isn't a reflection on them, because you like them a lot, you just aren't really into hanging with huge groups often.

Also explain to them that the fact that they aren't seeing you often doesn't mean that they're losing you or you're drifting away. Another reason why they may be getting miffed at not seeing you, as well as missing your company, may be that they feel like you'll drift away and eventually disconnect from them.

 

[Leto Atrides]

You're probably coming off as not important to them. They want to do things as a group alot and you feel that you can pick and choose when you'll spend time with them.

It will seem very much like you feel that you feel you can afford not to have them around, and they might feel you think you're superior and just humoring them.


Given, me and my friends like spending time together and are all a bit screwed up and get insulted easily, so my advice might be skewed to that situation.