Getting to know my fellow hypesters.

COMICBOY said:
Zed, what'd you do to hate yourself? If you don't mind my asking, of course.


Two out of three of my best friends hate me rate now because I try to solve their problems. I'm over impinunated when it comes to their lives (telling them that they should go to collage, don't do drugs/drink). Basically I care WAY to much about them. I treat them like children. And my one friend has only met the other twice.....So its not like he is mad at me along with my other friend. They both hate me separately rate now.

Both are having a hard time rate now.....and I just want them to be happy....but I'm making things worse. I'm losing them both.....and I don't know what to do. I'm the problem. I know I am. But I cant redeme myself. So I'm stuck hating myself.
 
Look, if they can't see that you're doing this because you care so much, stop showing that you care so much. I'm the same way, always telling my friends what they should and shouldn't do. It comes to a point when they don't tell me important things that has happened in their lives because they don't want me to judge them. I hurts, you know, being kept out of the loop. I try to help, and I tell them how much I care about them, and if I didn't, I would be trying to tell them what they should or shouldn't do.

What it comes down to is that people don't like to be told what to do., don't like to be judged. You have one of two choices, 1. Be real. Don't care how it comes out, just tell them what you think they need to hear, or 2. Just keep it to yourself unless they ask you your opinion.
 
COMICBOY said:
Look, if they can't see that you're doing this because you care so much, stop showing that you care so much. I'm the same way, always telling my friends what they should and shouldn't do. It comes to a point when they don't tell me important things that has happened in their lives because they don't want me to judge them. I hurts, you know, being kept out of the loop. I try to help, and I tell them how much I care about them, and if I didn't, I would be trying to tell them what they should or shouldn't do.

What it comes down to is that people don't like to be told what to do., don't like to be judged. You have one of two choices, 1. Be real. Don't care how it comes out, just tell them what you think they need to hear, or 2. Just keep it to yourself unless they ask you your opinion.

Thats it rate there. I know I have to back off. But it doesnt change the fact that they hate me. I dont want them to hate me, and I don't want to be out of the loop. I hate seeing them so angry and sad....I want to help them and make things better for them. Fix their problems. AND I KNOW! THAT THEY DONT WANT ME TOO! BUT NOW I'M STUCK HERE PANICING! WONDERING WHAT THE **** IS WRONG?!....I just want them to be happy and their not. Why cant they just f***ing be happy? It makes me sad to see them sad. And it makes me mad cause I can't do anything to stop it.
I hate myself because they are sad and I can't do anything to help them, and even if I could. They wouldnt want me too.
 
Okay, I Didn't want to make another thread for this so I'll post it here. And since I'm here, I'll make it into a fact.(You guys most have really thought this thread was gonna die... and it will, after I say this last thing.)

Scary/weird/silly/blush factor all rolled into one - I downloaded that damn Drake Bell "I know" song and I can't stop listening to it.:wow:

I'm the type of person that if you listen to a song too many times, it'll get old and you'll never wanna hear it again... But it's not working with this song. In fact, I'm listening to it now as I type. I'm pathetic, really, I know. I mean, Drake ****ing Bell?!?:cmad: I'm not THAT gay.:meow: Well, When he got in that car crash last year I was kinda happy...:huh: I guess fate is biting me in the ass. Looks like I'm doomed to be a loser.:( Oh well, Loser I be. "Baby, give me a sign. Give me a reason, make up your mind...":O *sigh*

Oh, And I kinda put myself in debt, But I really don't feel like talking about that:o
 
Angry Fact - My latess thread was deleted... WTH?:confused:
 
Scary fact/angry fact:
I nearly got mugged yesterday! I was walking with a friend of mine and two guys come beside me (beggars seemingly) and one of them pickpockets my phone. I grab the guy by the collar and hold on to dear life. :) My friend shoves the other guy, who falls over the one holding my phone and the idiot drops it, and the guys run off. And that was the end of that.
We were extremely lucky (well, I would've been luckier if it didn't happen) cause the guys were teenagers. If they were big, menacing looking fellas I would've just given them the phone. "Here, have my wallet too. With my compliments." :)
It's not just that it happened, because I don't exactly live in a law abiding christian town, it's where it happened. It was at subway station, near the place my dad works, and now where I work and I go by that street every day. I have been getting off at that subway station since I was 10. It's so surreal. :rolleyes: Now I have find a new way to get home from work. :)

EDIT: My phone is ok. A little bruised, but still working fine.
 
LadyVader said:
Scary fact/angry fact:
I nearly got mugged yesterday!
you're like totally my hero!!
*swoon*
that was totally hard core.
from now on, if that ever happens again, pleeeease do the Dirty Harry voice on them!
"you don't wanna be messin with me, do ya, punk?"
then smoke a cigar.
glad you're okay!!
 
Oh, I'm not the hero. My friend is. All I had to do was hold tight.
Funny fact: I ripped the guy's jacket off his back. :)

"LadyVader SMASH!!!"
 
LadyVader said:
Oh, I'm not the hero. My friend is. All I had to do was hold tight.
Funny fact: I ripped the guy's jacket off his back. :)

"LadyVader SMASH!!!"
awesome!!
i hoped you yelled "HAHA! I ROBBED YOU!" as he ran away.
now if you see him around again you can totally mother him and say "you'd better put on a jacket, it's cold outside. you'll catch your death".

that WAS quite heroic though.
JUST TAKE THE DANG COMPLIMENT
*shoves it in your mouth*
 
Holy ****, this came out of nowhere.
 
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Two out of three of my best friends hate me rate now because I try to solve their problems. I'm over impinunated when it comes to their lives (telling them that they should go to collage, don't do drugs/drink). Basically I care WAY to much about them. I treat them like children. And my one friend has only met the other twice.....So its not like he is mad at me along with my other friend. They both hate me separately rate now.

Both are having a hard time rate now.....and I just want them to be happy....but I'm making things worse. I'm losing them both.....and I don't know what to do. I'm the problem. I know I am. But I cant redeme myself. So I'm stuck hating myself.

Holy Crap.
I predict the English Language will be dead by 2025. :csad:
 
BRUTAL, snap my neck. Srsly. It'll be awesome. I'll sign a waiver or whatever.
 
my name's peter and i like heavy metal and rock and some rap and hip hop.
 

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