goin to a funeral tommorow I need your help..

[chosen1]

I dont know what to wear.

I have out now a 3 piece suit all black with a black tie with a nice design on it.

Is that alright????

I'm lost

 

[Ice-man]

yup sounds alright, just as long as you ware darker colors, is a sign of respect when you mourn for a lost one.

 

[SLVRSR4]

just don't laugh! THat is more important then what you wear!

 

[Ice-man]

^

some fuy farted at my great grandpas funeral, he thought no one head it but ha i did, i laughed soo much it was soo ****in funny, but i felt prety bad, and madd people kept staring at me.

 

[blind_fury]

Crap, I was hoping you were enlisting a team to fight against zombies.

 

[SuperFerret]

^

some fuy farted at my great grandpas funeral, he thought no one head it but ha i did, i laughed soo much it was soo ****in funny, but i felt prety bad, and madd people kept staring at me.

Would your grandfather have laughed? If so, it's alright.

Some people think it's in bad taste to laugh at a funeral, but I really think that they're there to remember the deceased's life, and not mourn their passing.

 

[Showtime]

It depends on the nature of the person and how the funeral progresses, I don't know if its necessarily bad to laugh at a funeral, but it all depends on the situation.

In regards to what you should wear, what you have sounds fine. Black, Navy, or Charcoal work really well.

 

[Movies205]

I dont know what to wear.

I have out now a 3 piece suit all black with a black tie with a nice design on it.

Is that alright????

I'm lost

Depends how close you are to the decease... Wearing nice clothes is more important than the color, to me it always a movie thing, because who the hell has all black clothes... Just remember though, if it's family member, that whatever you do reflects on your family, so if you do something or say something stupid... You'll hear about it for a while... or maybe that's just an Italian thing...

 

[Dark Vigilante]

At my aunts funeral, me and my dad sat together for most of the time. It was a protestant service, my first, (I'm a Catholic) so I wasn't sure how much differently it worked. We sat there forever waiting for the pastor to show up and begin the service, so long that I finally turned to my dad and asked if he thought there was even going to be a service. He turns and looks at me with this half smirk on his face and says "I'm not sure, but there's suppose to be fire works in half an hour". For some reason, me and my father cant escape our sense of humor even in the most morbid circumstances. Needless to say, I got some weird looks.

But anyways, wearing all black to a funeral is fine. As already said, it shows respect for the deceased.

 

[Dark Vigilante]

double post

 

[Harlekin]

Laughing can be a touchy thing and really depends on when it happens. At the funeral of my friend's dad, we laughed our asses before and after the actual service, remembering his life, knowing he would want that. During the service itself, unless the speaker made a joke, no laughing.

 

[amazingdm]

yes
there is no rule that says you have to have a suit
I've gone with just a collared shirt and maybe a tied before (can't afford a suit)

 

[Abaddon]

eh, just wear a dress shirt and pants.

 

[November Rain]

dress smartly and respectful...

or just go naked...

 

[CyberFaust]

i ususally try to avoid funerals because i get caught in a giggly-loop and you know what happenes then

 

[Abaddon]

whose funeral is it for,if you don't mind me asking?

 

[Fried Gold]

I dont know what to wear.

I have out now a 3 piece suit all black with a black tie with a nice design on it.

Is that alright????

I'm lost

I'd wear this...