Is anyone here scared of going into a relationship?

[GoldenAgeHero]

like i am? sometimes i feel like i want a relationship, but a part of me is scared to have one. probably because of the added responsibility, having soemone depend on you for taht emotional support they need. anyone feel this way?

 

[Sloth7d]

I do. Which is why I am currently single.

 

[E-Mack]

If you're in this situation, then perhaps you should look into "Friends With Benefits".

 

[Sofa]

Just dont look for anything period. Be with ppl and when you dont wanna let go of a certain someone, then youll feel ready. Its hard to want attachment when no one interesting is in the picture.

 

[thedeadite]

i'm always afraid to start a new relationship...but more of a fear of being hurt. Though i don't let it get in the way of me actually starting one...

 

[SapphirePrima]

I don't want a relationship. But I do. I don't want to have to depend on someone vice versa. I want someone to be there but I don't want someone to always be harping on me.

 

[Sofa]

I don't want a relationship. But I do. I don't want to have to depend on someone vice versa. I want someone to be there but I don't want someone to always be harping on me.

What a lot of ppl dont get is that once you start caring about someone enough, it does not feel like harping.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

I don't want a relationship. But I do. I don't want to have to depend on someone vice versa. I want someone to be there but I don't want someone to always be harping on me.

yeah i know exactly what your saying.

 

[Lantern Venom]

like i am? sometimes i feel like i want a relationship, but a part of me is scared to have one. probably because of the added responsibility, having soemone depend on you for taht emotional support they need. anyone feel this way?

This sounds like a cliche' but it's the truth: when you meet the right person, this won't be an issue. You won't feel like a crutch or feel trapped. It will feel very natural. You may not be ready yet so just have fun until you do.

 

[Alpha and Omega]

No, I'm not scared of it; I'm very reluctant though.

I want to approach my next one with the right intentions and I clearly don't have them at this point and time. I wouldn't want to waste any other prospective's time or energy either.

 

[Lantern Venom]

No, I'm not scared of it; I'm very reluctant though.

I want to approach my next one with the right intentions and I clearly don't have them at this point and time. I wouldn't want to waste any other prospective's time or energy either.

It sounds like you have a healthy attitude.

 

[SpiderHulkThing]

the hard question for some is if they're scared of getting out of a relationship.

 

[Sloth7d]

the hard question for some is if they're scared of getting out of a relationship.

because it's not you...its me....

 

[cryptic name]

yes. why? because right now im stuck in a relationship with a girl i literally hate. it happens a lot.

 

[Super Flight]

no, but i'd be scared if i live my life longer not in a relationship

 

[Sloth7d]

Have any of you been in a relationship where the girl is fatally attracted.
I have. Its very scary.

 

[Hades]

Yes, I am. Mostly because of the whole, uh opening up to people thing. My friends I've known for years barely even know anything about me.

 

[Sloth7d]

lol.When'd you change your avatar Hades.My sides are killing me right now.

 

[cryptic name]

Have any of you been in a relationship where the girl is fatally attracted.
I have. Its very scary.

have you been with a girl who got your name tattooed on her butt after a one nighter? now that is scary.

 

[Hades]

lol.When'd you change your avatar Hades.My sides are killing me right now.

Why are your sides killing you

Gas? I used to get alot of gas pain when I was a kid.

 

[Sloth7d]

Why are your sides killing you

Gas? I used to get alot of gas pain when I was a kid.

From laughing so hard at your sig.

 

[Hades]

From laughing so hard at your sig.

Oh, I see.

I was thinking about making a live journal and pretending I'm Doug but I don't know if I should bother.

 

[Tsunulia]

Oh, I see.

I was thinking about making a live journal and pretending I'm Doug but I don't know if I should bother.

That'd be awesome


......Come to think of it, I think there's a user around named Quailman

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I didn't know so many people were afraid of opening up to another person or taking on more intimate responibilites. You'll all get to the point where you'll look back on these days and laugh. Not a pity laugh, but a "glad I got over that" laugh.

 

[Hades]

I didn't know so many people were afraid of opening up to another person or taking on more intimate responibilites. You'll all get to the point where you'll look back on these days and laugh. Not a pity laugh, but a "glad I got over that" laugh.

I doubt it. I still beat myself up over the times I have opened up to people in the past.