Lowering your standards

Is that what I'm doing wrong. I need to get on this.
 
you shouldn't lower your standards. if you meet someone that you lowered your standards for and then meet someone else who meets your standards, you will end up breaking the lower-standard person's heart and it isnt worth it.
 
Hehe - seeing the thread title, I immediately thought of this:

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My standards are pretty darn high. I refuse to lower them only because I'd feel bad just "settling" for a woman so I won't be alone rather than looking for someone I'd genuinely love because she fulfills my requirements.
 
only when i'm drunk, do i lower my standards.
and i've been taken advantage of quite a few times in my alcoholic stupor. by some nasties.
 
I don't have unrealistic standards, so I don't lower them at all. I did in the past due to low self-esteem and ended up with a skinny loser who cheated on me :down

I don't believe anyone should have to lower their standards to date as long as those standards are realistic. Just gotta keep it all in perspective.

Same thing happened here....except it was a girl I work with. She seemed incredibly sweet when we were going out. Then, she was just seeing someone else.

I remember thinking to myself, "WTF just happened? She's not even that hot!"

I still have to see her at work, and I just shake my head now, because I wish I would have said, "You're lucky I even bothered to go out with you. I wasn't being picky AT ALL."

Instead, I just smile and say hello...especially after I go on dates with much better looking girls. And the funny thing is, if she hadn't been so.....hmmmm, 'curious' to see other people, I would have been completely faithful.

Case in point, DON'T LOWER YOUR STANDARDS, people will be people. It's a false sense of security, ...just go out with someone who treats your right. Unless of course, you're just looking to get lucky.
 
only when i'm drunk, do i lower my standards.
and i've been taken advantage of quite a few times in my alcoholic stupor. by some nasties
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Is that your Jorge? :hehe:

(my buddy who ALWAYS does this)

If it's for a piece of ....that's a different ballgame.
 
As long as you are fun, not boring and have a good sense of humor, you meet my standards.

In looks, I dont like really big girls, or really skinny ones, chubby/average is perfect :)
 
So if you guys had lower standards, you'd be swimming in mediocre to average girls? :huh:
 

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