What you can and can't have

[PyroChamber]

A lot of people like to say "I want what I can't have" especially when it comes to dating, but is there really anything wrong with dating someone you actually can have?

 

[chaseter]

It is always hopeful to have something you know you can't get...but some guys get lucky. I say don't settle for average. But then again I haven't had that many girls in my lifetime and deffinitely no serious relationships.

 

[CConn]

You could make an argument that the girls/guys you can have don't have that "forbidden" factor, and thusly, are, well, less desirable.

However, I'd say the more likely answer is that the people who want what they can have are too busy being in a relationship to do much talking about it.

 

[Sensi]

Coming from a girl, you don't have to settle. You would be surprised how many beautiful girls sit at home alone because guys fear they will be turned down. I admit there are shallow beauties but there are also beauties with hearts and brains .How do you know you CAN't have the one you want until you at least say hello. You would be surprised how important heart and brains are to most women .Looks are not everything and really mean so little in the whole scope of life. Just try saying hello with eye contact and a little smiling, you might find you can have what you want in life and in love.

 

[chaseter]

Coming from a girl, you don't have to settle. You would be surprised how many beautiful girls sit at home alone because guys fear they will be turned down. I admit there are shallow beauties but there are also beauties with hearts and brains .How do you know you CAN't have the one you want until you at least say hello. You would be surprised how important heart and brains are to most women .Looks are not everything and really mean so little in the whole scope of life. Just try saying hello with eye contact and a little smiling, you might find you can have what you want in life and in love.

Hello!?!

 

[Sensi]

Hi there..giggle. See did that hurt?

 

[Decay]

Yes, there are times when you just can't have what you want...you can only dream or hope about that.

 

[Parker]

Well, I'd rather take a shot and get blown out of the sky, rather than letting the opportunity pass me by then later wondering if I actually did have a chance.

 

[terry78]

Irony is that once they get what they can't have, they don't want it anymore because now they can have it. Thrill of the chase.

 

[Decay]

^ that's truth

 

[Parker]

Irony is that once they get what they can't have, they don't want it anymore because now they can have it. Thrill of the chase.

Whoever works like that needs to be slapped with a dirty jockstrap. Man or woman.

 

[Darren Daring]

Coming from a girl, you don't have to settle. You would be surprised how many beautiful girls sit at home alone because guys fear they will be turned down. I admit there are shallow beauties but there are also beauties with hearts and brains .How do you know you CAN't have the one you want until you at least say hello. You would be surprised how important heart and brains are to most women .Looks are not everything and really mean so little in the whole scope of life. Just try saying hello with eye contact and a little smiling, you might find you can have what you want in life and in love.

Pssh, hardly. I have three rules when it comes to girls.

1. Gotta make me smile
2. Gotta say filthy things in bed.
and most importantly

3. No fatties.

 

[Parker]

Pssh, hardly. I have three rules when it comes to girls.

1. Gotta make me smile
2. Gotta say filthy things in bed.
and most importantly

3. No fatties.

Gee...that's not superficial.

 

[Darren Daring]

Gee...that's not superficial.

Check #1.

I'm not ashamed about this. I'm not gonna date someone I don't find attractive.

And I don't find fatties attractive.

Good friends with some, though.

 

[kingman]

Pssh, hardly. I have three rules when it comes to girls.

1. Gotta make me smile
2. Gotta say filthy things in bed.
and most importantly

3. No fatties.

I don't see where that matches the post you quoted, all I see was a girl saying that people shouldn't hold back if they find someone attractive, they should make an attempt and if it doesn't work then you know you can't have and if it does, then it was worth the embarassment


On your behlaf though, paying for those things doesn't count and you probably tried and keep getting knocked down by each and every girl you look at... talking big must mean you have little to offer in other departments... and even if they are fatties... they probably don't want you either

 

[Darren Daring]

I don't see where that matches the post you quoted, all I see was a girl saying that people shouldn't hold back if they find someone attractive, they should make an attempt and if it doesn't work then you know you can't have and if it does, then it was worth the embarassment


On your behlaf though, paying for those things doesn't count and you probably tried and keep getting knocked down by each and every girl you look at... talking big must mean you have little to offer in other departments... and even if they are fatties... they probably don't want you either

Yeha, I had a reason for posting that, but it escapes me now

I'm engaged, horrible geuss, though.

 

[Dorian Gray]

Usually what happened to me when i go for "What I can't Have" is that she turns out being something I really don't want.