I completely agree with you. It's something I dislike in ALL of the movies and a lot of Smallville where it feels like Clark only becomes a hero once Jor-el tells him that's his purpose.
It just takes away from what I love about Superman as an idea - that someone can just be a totally GOOD person because they were raised by two also good people, and because they happen to have powers they are able to channel that good into something with world wide effect.
That's the idea that gives me hope.
The idea that the hero is only good because he's NOT human, just totally destroys that.
In MOS, it's true that his powers have isolated him from a normal life. He doesn't interact much with the other kids and they pick on him. They torment and bully the hell out of him and he states that he wanted to hurt them to Jonathan when they pushed him down.
And for a kid with the powers of a God, who is under the pressure to keep a lid on it, while also under the pressure of containing his feelings, he must have used all his strength to keep his humanity intact, especially juggling with the revelation that he's not human. Yet, he still saved Pete Ross from drowning when he was a dick to him and God knows how long he made Clark a victim for.
This was a question brought up in Smallville when Whitney was killed in the Marines in Season 2. Clark pondered if he would be any more heroic if he had no powers. Basically asking if he had no powers, could he still go up against the dangers and the 50/50 chance of death that other men do in war.
And Jonathan said that there would be no doubt that he would.
But you're still left with the curiosity of how and why is he so heroic and caring in MOS, when his parents have drilled it into him, to be the opposite of the hero, in order to protect his secret. I have no doubt, just because we got a few choice words from Jonathan, that leaves the impression that he told Clark not to help anyone, that the Kent's did raise Clark to always do the right thing. They were believers in God and so was Clark and maybe it was his Christian beliefs that made him a hero?
And the way the film is, I'm starting to believe that was the case.
Superman's policy is very Bibleish and makes sense considering he was brought up in a small town, with many religious factors.
As a Christian man myself, I welcome that. I'm no bible basher or Church goer, but I do often read the bible at times and I see a lot of stuff that could easily make it into Superman and it has
I've definitely not done that. I saw it 4 times at the cinema, and each time was a totally different experience.
But on home viewing, it's just become more and more cemented that I simply don't like it. I simply don't think it's well written or acted, I don't like the ideas presented, I don't like certain elements of the characterization, and I personally dislike the neck snap as it is as far away from the interpretation of Superman I was hoping for as you can get.
But that's all the things I've come to love about it
Well, not entirely
I can't get away with the ending. I know they'll bring it up in BvS, I'm certain of that.
I can't get away with people bringing Lois everywhere for some reason.
And yeah, the film just springs Zod's death completely out of nowhere. Just imagine that we had no clue about it, nobody revealed any spoilers or anything...Because you and I both knew about it.
But if I hadn't of prepared myself for such a thing, I think I would've choked on my popcorn in shock.
And that is what is was meant to do. Goyer and Snyder did not prepare any of us for what was about to happen...and why? Because they both made a last minute change to the script. That is why we have no foreshadowing or any talk or even a hint of Clark's "no kill" policy. Because it was just sprung out of nowhere. If the film had of prepared people, it might have softened the blow and just might have made it a little more accepting.
But I have no problem with it, in the long run. I just wish Snyder and Goyer hadn't of done it for a few reasons.