Strange b/f g/f problems my friend has

[Darkfly]

Hey my friend at college has known this girl for a year before they started to realize they liked liked each other but the thing is they have kissed and gone kinda out on one sorta date but she won't seem to be his bf since she won't make her mind up & though she split up with her bf recently he keeps bugging her (on MSN, phone, etc cause he lives somewhere else) though she's not interested anymore. On top of this she doesn't seem to have a reason for not going out with him.


Its kinda similar to when 2 friends get along really well & then realize they were made for each other then go out and become bf/gf but in my friends case he kinda on the edge of bf/gf they should be bf/gf but aren't and its been like this for at least 2 or 3 months, strange world, ey.

And we were talking today & wondering what word you would use to describe his current predicament.

 

[Erzengel]

Uh, friends with benefits?

 

[Episode29]

Your "friend", huh?

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

she won't seem to be his bf since she won't make her mind up

...and also because she doesn't have a penis, I presume.

 

[DorkyFresh]

Your "friend", huh?

hehe...really. Bruce Leroy much?

 

[SuBe]

Tell them to grow up and be in an adult relationship. Stop calling it BF or whatever. Tell them to mature a little. Tell them to talk over a bottle of wine. That'll straighten it up.

 

[Immortalfire]

Ask Ice-man what to do.

 

[Prison Mike]

a woman who can't seem to make her mind up? I've never heard of such a thing!

 

[Eggyman]

Ask Ice-man what to do.

Order a hit on her folks?

 

[Immortalfire]

Either that, or say she's your girlfriend even though you don't know what to say to her. Except on Yahoo messenger, you can be cool and collected then.

 

[Eggyman]

Ice-Man: . . .

Ice-Man's g/f: Hey

Ice-Man: . . .

Ice-Man's g/f: wut u bin up 2?

Ice-Man: . . .

Ice-Man's g/f: Its over

Ice-Man: Got crack

 

[hammy]

Ask Ice-man what to do.

a woman who can't seem to make her mind up? I've never heard of such a thing!

Seriously though, Darkfly, it sounds like she's just not in to him that way. Maybe they thought they could be more than friends, but when they 'sort of' had that date, she might have realized she doesn't feel that way. He needs to quit worrying about it and move on. If she really does like him and sees that he's moving on, she'll come around.

Women, eh?

 

[Jesster32388]

...and also because she doesn't have a penis, I presume.

You would be surprised.

 

[Eggyman]

Seriously though, Darkfly, it sounds like she's just not in to him that way. Maybe they thought they could be more than friends, but when they 'sort of' had that date, she might have realized she doesn't feel that way. He needs to quit worrying about it and move on. If she really does like him and sees that he's moving on, she'll come around.

Women, eh?

Ya, seriously. Desperate isn't sexy