Should it be comfirmed?

[Lunar_Wolf]

If you've been going out with a girl for a few weeks and you both like each other should there be some sort of confirmentation that your bf+gf. Should the guy ask the girl to be his gf even though your dating and it feels like it but nothing has been said?

I've been going out with this girl for a month now and we are more less a couple but I hear from her friend that I should ask her to be my gf even though it feels like she is already. I'm pretty certain the gal I'm dating asked her friend to hint me this.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

A relationship isn't official until you have a ceremony which includes the feasting of a human child.

 

[SWAT]

Just say: "You're mine B**CH!!" It will melt her heart!

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

yeah like ''your mine B**** get the F*** over it''

 

[Darth Elektra]

Yes, I would.

Especially since she wants you too.

 

[Machx72]

If you've been going out with a girl for a few weeks and you both like each other should there be some sort of confirmentation that your bf+gf. Should the guy ask the girl to be his gf even though your dating and it feels like it but nothing has been said?

I've been going out with this girl for a month now and we are more less a couple but I hear from her friend that I should ask her to be my gf even though it feels like she is already. I'm pretty certain the gal I'm dating asked her friend to hint me this.

I've wondered this myself... In high school, the traditional "asking out" worked, but how does it work beyond HS?

I'm quite stupid when it comes to dating, so I really don't know when it's "official."

 

[mightiest_mortal]

Its easier if you dont have "the talk" because then when your caught cheating on her u can say "oh.. i didnt realise we were exclusive like that.."

Play your cards right and u can even make her feel guilty about it

 

[lordofthenerds]

Slay a hundred bulls in her honor and it's official.

 

[PhotoJones]

You sit her down and ask her politely, "Are you ****ing anyone else?" If she says no, she's yours.

 

[Movies205]

Its easier if you dont have "the talk" because then when your caught cheating on her u can say "oh.. i didnt realise we were exclusive like that.."

Play your cards right and u can even make her feel guilty about it

My new sig....

 

[AndThePickles]

Yes, you need to ask her to be your girlfriend.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

There isn't a ceremony where you declare it "official". It becomes official when the both of you start treating it that way. It's not something you can qualify. Sometimes you may sit down and talk it out, sometimes she just ends up asking you to change your "relationship status" on facebook, sometimes you just date long enough that you stop seeing other people and then you're an item. While it's always good to talk these things out and make sure you're on the same page, it's not good to push it. You have to be observant, make sure to be mindful of what she says, and if you do want to bring it up with her make sure you do it at a time when you'll both be comfortable talking about it.

 

[Erzengel]

If you've been going out with a girl for a few weeks and you both like each other should there be some sort of confirmentation that your bf+gf. Should the guy ask the girl to be his gf even though your dating and it feels like it but nothing has been said?

I've been going out with this girl for a month now and we are more less a couple but I hear from her friend that I should ask her to be my gf even though it feels like she is already. I'm pretty certain the gal I'm dating asked her friend to hint me this.

Did you commit a robbery/murder yet? Then no.

 

[Spider-Who?]

Um, duh. Most girls like the secruity of knowing they are in a commited relationship. On the other hand, other girls enjoy the "uncertianty" and use it to their advantage. So, if you want this relationship to continue and thrive with a happy girlfriend, then yeah, ask her.

 

[Abaddon]

it's confirmed when you get your dowry

 

[gap5ewl]

i didn't know you had to comfirm..well my last gf asked if we should change our relationship status on myspace so i guess thats when you know lol. i guess if you've been going out for more than a week, then you start talking about the relationship and comfirm it to each other i guess.

 

[Immortalfire]

If you can call her your joyful basket of onion rings, and she doesn't hit you with a shovel, she's yours! :heart:

 

[Mee]

Yes, you need to ask her to be your girlfriend.

Pfft I say!


Tell her. Let her know who wears the pants!

 

[Abaddon]

seriously, you could just ask right out and ask her about your status in the relationship, and whether or not you're exclusive.

 

[tzarinna]

Slap her on the ass and ask, "Who's is it?"

 

[Danger Mouse]

If you seek confirmation, impregnate her. Can't get any more confirmed than that.

 

[Immortalfire]

What I wanna know, is why the Hype has turned into the internet hub for relationship advice

lovehype.com

 

[Abaddon]

turned into?

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

i didn't know you had to comfirm..well my last gf asked if we should change our relationship status on myspace so i guess thats when you know lol. i guess if you've been going out for more than a week, then you start talking about the relationship and comfirm it to each other i guess.

I didn't know that either that it had to be comfirmed. Everyone is telling me it should be. So tomorrow I'll buy her a flower, rose or something and ask her. Why does everything have to be so ****ing complicated.

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

What I wanna know, is why the Hype has turned into the internet hub for relationship advice

lovehype.com

Well for me every other site is **** with message boards and IM. So I pretty much cling on to here with the relationship advice...........scary isn't it?