Good guy Greg meme here.
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Me too. I'm talking about his death. The way Clark realizes that he might be super-powered but he cannot defy death. And this is remembered when Lois dies.
How so?
Worst of cases, it leads to conflict.
But then again, Jor-el encourages Clark to use his powers for good in MOS (if I'm not mistaken), and Jor-el discourages him to do the same thing. So you see, their advice is also contradictory.
Once reason and coherence are out, the impact is gone.
But even in the story... what was this "impact"? Did Pa Kent's death stop Clark from using his powers? No. Pa Kent's death had NO impact to be seen.
It was more because when Lois died, Superman felt he couldn't allow it to happen again. It wasn't just Lois dying but the fact that he felt he couldn't defy death, just as it was the case when Pa Kent died.
You wouldn't have had that moment after Lois's death when Superman decides to go against Jor-el's word because he won't let death take another of his beloved people again. Not dramatic enough? Maybe so.
But again, if Pa Kent hadn't died in MOS, would the story change that dramatically? Clark would have gone and save people with his super-powers as he was doing before Pa Kent died. Which was what he did after Pa Kent died. Meaning, it made no difference at all.
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I have asked many times how it works. Nobody has told me exactly why, all they have done is re-telling that's an impact, that's a huge sacrifice. Yes, that's what it's supposed to be. But does it work in the movie? How does it actually change Clark's life?