Effect said:
You know has anyone considered the possiblity that villians wouldn't even bother going these extra steps? Think about it, they've fought Spider-man before and know how strong he is and what he can do. Do you think they'd seriously go the trouble of trying to make his life so hard that it pushes him the bring that he'll very likely kill them after he hunts them down?
One has to look at the other side. Would it really be in a villians best interest to bother with Spider-man's personal life? Would it really matter to them when all they want is money and power? Isn't Norman the only one that's really gotten personal with Spider-man and wants to make him suffer? I'm still trying to figured out why Norman wants to make him suffer anyway. Does anyon else beside him have anything to gain? Would they honestly take the time away from their crime planning, etc to try and make Peter and his families life a problem?
Sure they can do something to stop him from getting in the way but most likely they can pull of their crimes and Spidey not show up and they get caught if he happens to be in the area or he tracks them down. What about the other heroes who's ID become known? Why would they automaticly single Spider-man out, what about other street level foes or not so street level ones?
I'm starting to think what Aunt May said about judges, lawyers, policemen, etc makes sense. They have families and fight criminals but dont' wear mask. Their familes at risk as well, perhaps more so then Aunt May and MJ. Think of all the hate those type of people get from the different gangs or high profile criminals that get arrest or even get off or have contact with their past gang members. Are they not in at risk just as well as Aunt May and MJ?
I don't see what makes May and MJ being at risk so special.
I've been trying to figure out what makes MJ and May being at risk so special to the reader, actually, as it is cited quite a bit. My personal theory is because of another complaint I've seen (and I have) about the lack of the secondary supporting characters that Peter/Spidey was so well known to have. Literally, almost all that's left is MJ and May, as they are the two that are focused on the most, so if they are taken out of the picture, to me it loses the flavor that made Spider-man special. Without the double identity he's spent his time trying to balance, he becomes another guy in tights fighting more men and women in tights.
Quite a few ploys that I remember fondly have to do with the danger of his loved ones, actually. Or at least their risk. From the most cited Gwen's death to Aunt May almost marrying Doc Ock, heck even Marvel Knights had GG dragging MJ back to that bridge. It supposed to feed into the reader's emotions, since Peter cares about them, we are supposed to as well.
With them in the Avenger's Tower, there is no doubt they will have as much protection as (the writers) can be provided, but then they lose their own freedom. MJ can't do any gigs from the tower, though May does have it a bit better, considering Jarvis is there. However, were the Avenger's Tower not an option, I see May's elluding to the everyday hero (police, fire fighters, etc) a bit more in context. I've seen a wife of a police officer worry for the safety of her husband, but still conduct life; she doesn't hide in fear of relatiation, and neither does he. Even with that said, the fine line of real life and fantasy is blurred; I don't like bringing it together to point one out to another, since for me to even begin reading any comic, I have to bend the laws of reality. Plus, there are a million examples of real life that can slice one example in fantasy to shreds.
Norman/GG has been twisted to the point of obsession over Spider-man, and when he found out Peter, it became much more personal for him (though, that depends on the writer). I'm sure villians wouldn't mind terrorizing Peter at the heart of it, ones like Electro who are already publically (legally) known as criminals don't have much else to do in society but cause trouble.
At least, that's my take on it.