What if you-?

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

I've got a question for you guys. It's been bugging me for a while, now. What would happen if you, after one crazy night, sleep with a very good friend of yours, whom you don't want to have a relationship with, but have always looked up to as a very good friend...? Can you ever get back what you had? Or is it impossible to escape the blanket of comfortablenesses that is the result of one night?

Thoughts, please.

 

[The Original Bamfer]

It depends on how strong the existing friendship was. Sex shouldn't be able to change things between people, but it can and often does.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

It depends on how strong the existing friendship was. Sex shouldn't be able to change things between people, but it can and often does.

That's what is most frightening about this scenario.

 

[Jerry!]

So you got gay with one of your friends, **** happens. Probably turns out you were both so smashed you could play it off like it never happened and just never speak of it again. Its not one of those things he would be talking about anyway. That is, if you picked your friends right.

 

[Jack Rabbit]

Well, that happened with a good friend of mine when I after I broke up with a girlfriend. It was awkward for a while, especially since she wanted a relationship and I ended up getting back with the other girl. But we're actually a lot closer now.

I talk to her more than any of my other friends from home. She's one of the best friends I have and I think it's partially due to the fact that we ****ed our brains out for one night. It's no longer an option for us anymore, you know? It's weird. Now that that has happened, that's not an ultimate goal or outcome of our relationship anymore.

It's an odd situation.

 

[Dew k. Mosi]

I slept with a very good friend of mine when I was in college, and we were both mature enough to know that it was just something that happened, and there ya go. We are still very good friends

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

I hope things work out for me.

 

[mrsparkle]

Even if things go over a rough patch try and stick it out and not accept the end of a friendship. Thats what I did and we're rebuilding.

 

[Eggyman]

Hello M.E.H.Z.E.B not seen you lately since the Spidey boards dried up.

I've always stayed away from doing my mates. It nearly happened last year when I broke up with my girlfriend -- a mutual friend of me and my ex came round to keep me company while I was getting over her.

I nearly got over -- and ontop of! -- the wrong girl . I'm glad it didn't happen, I don't think our frindship is strong enough to handle that kinda thing . . . but if you have true friendship with this person then I think you should be fine.

 

[Ice-man]

3 words.

Friends With Benefits.

 

[mrsparkle]

3 words.

Friends With Benefits.

One word.

Virgin.

 

[Ice-man]

One word.

Virgin.

eh **** happens, at least i don't have stds like the many guys and girls in my school have.

its like an epidemic in my school.

 

[Eggyman]

hahahahahahahahahahaha

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

3 words.

Friends With Benefits.

Been there. Done that.

This is different, coz I actually care about her. Don't want to lose her as a friend. She's important to me.

 

[bullets]

i'd say to just let what happened go , try to act like it never happened and in time it will be just something that hapened a long time ago .

 

[tzarinna]

Hope it works out for you.
It's only happen with a not so close friend, did not end well....he was crazy.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

i'd say to just let what happened go , try to act like it never happened and in time it will be just something that hapened a long time ago .

I'll give it a shot.

 

[Eggyman]

I'll give it a shot.

I thought you already had?

 

[Excel]

This happened to me a long time ago; chances are if you did sleep tgether you and her have wanted it for a while; maybe yall should be friends with benefits or something. My girl became psycho ***** when I told her i wasnt interested in a relationship

 

[SouLeSS]

That happened to me once, with this chick that I've known for years, who I always thought was really sweet and innocent. One thing lead to another, and let me tell you, she was a FREAK in bed. Like, (Don't read this if you're offended by graphic text)

Spoiler

"take it out and **** me in the ass!" and "**** it, i need you to *** all over my face

.

Yeah, I could never look at her the same way.

 

[Eggyman]

What's her number?

 

[Ice-man]

What's her number?

ahahaha t:


you dont come along many of those freaks, its the quiet ones that are sick in bed.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

ahahaha t:


you dont come along many of those freaks, its the quiet ones that are sick in bed.

I can soo relate to that!

 

[SouLeSS]

Yeah, but it was weird as ****. Imagine having this chick friend for the better part of a decade, who talks to you about how she plans on keeping it till marriage, and how she doesnt want to do much other than kissing. Then she gets with this one dude who she dated for two years and never really talked about what they would do, but they broke up because he went to the army. Then she ends up at my house one night talking about how shes horny and lonely and really wants to be with someone who she knows she can trust.

****ing weird man, I swear.

 

[OobeDoobBenubi]