Yes many girls who go out on a Friday night just want a guy to bang their brains out and never call them again but many other women expect more than that from a guy attractive enough to warrant sex.
Not really, or if they do, the venue of Friday Night barscene isn't the place to meet him. There are plenty of abusive guys who enslave women into poor relationships because they can...but then those people aren't held above prostitution, there just aren't laws against them.
Guy's will say anything to get into a girls pants even if she wants a relationship and they don't intend to call her again once they get some tail.
Again, I don't know where you get this idea that guys routinely stalk the innocent virgin fawns of the world.
How can you excuse this behavior while attacking me for having an upfront exchange with a woman who's willing to give me something if I give her something.
No one excuses guys lying to girls about "wanting a relationship for sex", but honestly if you knew anything about the sex scene you'd realize that doesn't happen very often...if at all, in bars and clubs. One night stands are just that, one night stands. If a girl goes out to a bar hitting on those guys for a relationship then that's her problem, because she is totally in the wrong venue. Relationships come from the girls I talk to in the lunch room, I sit next too in class, I meet in a coffee shop...very low pressure places where people aren't concerned with 'getting laid'.
We both understand what the sex is with no illusions of a call back the next day.
I do, you don't. You think that the only time that happens is with prostitutes, or that one-night stands might as well be a prostitute. It's not though. One night stands actually involve me talking, interacting and listening to someone.
Yeah every one night stand involves two people who see eye to eye and don't expect a phone call the following day.
Pretty much yes. Unless it's rape, or alcohol is involved and you have no control over your actions...yes. There are guys who manipulate nice, wholesome girls into sleeping with them yes, but that's not what a one-night stand is...and no one here is defending guys who prey on women, except you, because that's exactly what prostitution is.
What planet are you from?
Earth
Plenty of girls and guys have sat next to the phone waiting for that person to call but it never does.
Not my fault. If you go out to a bar and flirt with a guy, flaunting your sex as a gateway to a relationship then
you have serious problems. Ever seen Scrubs, the character of Elliot on the show is routinely made fun of for sleeping with guys to "start relationships" which all fail, I might add. The point of the joke is that you'd be foolish to do that. Women aren't somehow hypnotized into sleeping with men, they choose to, or are irresponsible enough to booze up and let their inhibitions drop...or they get rapped, which is a crime.
They got played and feel like ****e who never got paid.
Again this notion that guys just "play" innocent women into sex is absurd. You put pu**y on a pedestal. You act like we're all guilty of sexual deviance, and you just haven't stooped so low as to manipulate these innocent fawn women into sleeping with you. Guess what, if you're at a club with the thong hanging out the back of your pants you stopped looking for "a relationship" the moment you walked in the door.
A ****e? Fine, but so is anyone who has one-night stands or enjoys sex with strangers. Go tell them they shouldn't do it and they'll laugh in your silly, self-righteous face.
I never did, nor will. However there is a difference, a distinct difference between picking up a girl with your words and actions and slipping her a twenty and saying blow me. One requires mutual attraction, the other doesn't.
Yeah that's how everyone wants to be treated. To be lied to your face about why your partner really keeps you around.
There's that sexual frustration. Seeing boyfriends, all of them it seems, as liars and scumbags...we'll come back to this.
I don't treat escorts like scum/commodities. I treat them like professionals.
No, you pay for them to f*** you...that's treating them like a commodity. You want to know what they treat you like...a pervvy John, a way to feed their coke addiction...fun.
They know the score going in and going out.
That you're a perv they don't want to sleep with, but if they don't they'll get pimped slapped.
There's no waiting by the phone because one person wanted a relationship more than the other person did.
Again One-Night stands, while they CAN start relationships don't start under the dellusion that a relationship will come of it.
So it really is sexual frustration. You honestly think that's what men really think, the bulk of them...what Jag really thinks of his wife, what I think of my girlfriend, what my roomate thinks of his...wow, you are skewed.
I'm going to let you in on a secret, that's comedy. No guys who are in any successful long term relationships treats or thinks of their partner that way. If they do, then they are looked down upon by society. One night stands, relationships, marriage is reciprocle. I like someone who likes me back, I want to f*** someone who wants to f*** me. Prostitution is never reciprocle. Got it.
You think that's true because that's how you see women, as ******* machines. And you see relationships and interaction between us as just another form of payment...which is wrong. They aren't equal. Building attraction actually takes effort and actually requires for you to have emotions and treat people like human beings.
