Good thoughts and points. I'll admit I'd like to know myself what happened before he left with their relationship. But I didn't need it to care for them (especially him) or what happened in the film itself. As I said I kind of prefer a "Superman II" type situation but can accept something else. We may never know and you'll accept it or not. I can. And there are worse mysteries. For me it's what happened with Valen especially what happened at the end that made the Minbari have a legend that he may reappear (on the "Babylon 5" series). It may always be a mystery.
I feel something as important to the character's as Superman and Lois's relationship and the story of the conception of their sone should be explained so we understand their motivations. It's the most important aspect of the film and we the audience should know what happens, it matters.
You don't understand Lois choosing Richard when he seems so like Superman?
I don't understand how she could have moved on to Richard so quickly that the paternity is in question. Could she have even had enough time to have realized he was gone for good? If she was really in love with him could she move on so quickly?
Also that she can get single minded sometimes and perhaps it was those things combined plus more that did it. I'll admit speculation. But frankly it's not a priority of mine about the hows and whys of how Richard and Lois came together. They did. Though at least you cared enough to wonder. Of course the mystery was there in part because Jason was the reveal. So his origins and the past relationships were not spelt out because of this.
But it should have been slowly revealed and explained at the end in order to complete the story. It would have greatly improved the filmmaking and script.
Have you looked up slash fiction? Did it make you want to run away from the computer and yell, "My eyes, my eyes,"? Or to find some and read it?
Not yet, but I will.
Does that mean you hate Red and Blue Superman? Red Son Superman? Godfall Superman (I haven't read it myself)? When he returned from the dead in a black outfit? Plus others I can't think of or don't know of? Though in general I agree but believe in exceptions.
SUperman Red and Blue. I wasn't reading the comic at the time, but it is a story line that gives plausible explanations for odd behavior. SR didn't provide enough why to explain behavior.
Red Son is an Elseworlds story and as such is expected to be different than what we are used to, otherwise it wouldn't be considered out of continuity. But, I haven't read that.
Haven't read Godfall.
Black outfit. It's explained why he is wearing the outfit and it is a plausible explanation. Plus he doesn't act any different. It was a storytelling device, plus it was a transitional story that eventually got him back to his regular costume. It is a cosmetic change and didn't affect the way he acted. It was part of the story. He just didn't show up for no reason in a new outfit without an explanation of why or how he got it.
What if it was like "Superman II" including the mind-wipe (or not). And Krypton is found a day or maybe more (not much) later. So he has a Lois that can't remember or maybe she can but he thought he'd hurt her too much that week (as they can't be together). So thought she'd be better off without him. And perhaps have another painful confrontation. If she didn't remember then she wouldn't know how close they were and it may make it complicated as well as more difficult (in more than one way possibly).
LOis does remember in SR though, so it can't be like that. If it was like Superman II, I still think that a caring responsible person would take the time to say goodbye. It is only worse to not say goodbye, and I think it has been established in enough Superman stories that he would know this. He is caring enough for those he loves to make the hard decisions. I think he would want her to know why he had to go. If you love someone you tell them everything, you want to share. With such a life changing possibility, it would make sense for Superman to explain himself. LIke I said before, people do this all the time and real life, it's not that difficult to say goodbye to someone you love. If there are extenuating circumstances they need to be explained to make sense in a story.
Plus if they couldn't be together, why would he have come back to try and woo Lois immediately. Surely, he wouldn't come back thinking after 5 years everything would be hunky dory? If he had left with them being broken up and 'not able to be together' for whatever tragic reason, why would he come back almost expecting to be able to have her back?
Basically as you yourself said he thought she'd be better off without him (their memory together) in the film. So perhaps it's the case here.
Actually, I said that she was in pain and he was trying to relieve her of her pain. I failed to elaborate that in that scene since they know they can't be together so he erased her memory so that she would have a chance of moving on eventually since she would have no memory of a requeited love. It wasn’t about being better off without him, the situation in Superman II was that it was IMPOSSIBLE to be with and he erased her memory so she COULD move on eventually.
Even if she did remember he might have thought he'd hurt her too much and again she'd be better off without him. I'll acknowledge it could be entirely different.
I for one feel that it is essential to understanding why SUperman did what he did. It's possible with good backstory and motivation there would not be the division that there is on this film. I just find it to be lazy and bad writing.
On the essence of character as I said I have to read or see a version to judge it. Though in theory if he acted murderous or uncaring and the like I wouldn't like it. And would probably hate it or dislike it. Unless there was a twist and even then maybe not. That said I did find the "Superman Returns" version of Superman to be him. He made mistakes but it was still him. For me as well as others. But mainly for me. I'm sorry if you couldn't find that.
Well, I think I explained fairly well why I thought the essence was not there in SR for me. To sum up, the essence goes deeper into the character and his motivations than what was presented in SR. He may have made a mistake but SR doesn't give a plausible or believable motivation for why he would do such a thing and have it be in character.
So you won't admit to him being a bastard to Lois in a comic. And that's just one of probably so many.
WIthout actually readin the whole story, no. Just like we wouldn't accept someone's opinion of SR if they came out and said 'No, I didn't see it, I just heard that .... .' Right? In the story you mention was his sole intent to be malicious? Was he just trying to hurt Lois? Was he preventing his own pain and chose to hurt her instead? Or was there a danger to Lois he was trying to prevent? Was he maintaining his secret ID for both the good of the world and Lois? I don't think he dreamed up that scheme just to hurt Lois. Maybe it didn't work out like he intended, but his intentions were good and he thought it would play out differently.
He was young as well as inexperienced and admitted to his mistake. But as I said I prefer him with Batman.
HOw young was he? According to the DVD extras he would have been 27 when he left, I believe. Is that really young? If he was 17 or 18 I could understand it. But he's almost 30. That's why it seems like the actions of a high schooler and not a mature responsible adult. So, are you saying that at 27, Superman should not behave like a mature responsible adult? Are you saying that Superman would not be responsible when he entered into a sexual relationship with the woman he loves? Remember, Lois is not just a girl, she is the woman in his life. It just doesn’t sit right to think that Superman would enter into a relationship he cannot take seriously or be committed in, or act accordingly if circumstances beyond his control force him to end the relationship. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love Lois anymore, just that they can’t continue to be together as a couple, but it doesn’t mean he no longer loves her. I think his actions would still be consistent with someone who still loves Lois, and would
I've liked them too. It's crap I don't read them more than I have. Although I have heard there's been problems there.
What do you mean by problems?
Perhaps but him being a bastard to her is in his comic history as well as vice versa.
We'd really have to break that down story by story. You have to look at motivation and circumstance of the story to tell if he was really a bastard to her, I don't think you can make a blanket statement about that.
I think if he's a sentient being then he's capable of making mistakes as well as doing something that will hurt someone or be inconsiderate or selfish. I don't think he usually does it. But he's capable of it. He thought it'd be better for him and maybe better for her that he left without telling her. I'll admit we don't know the full story why. But he admitted it was a mistake and apologised as well as applied that lesson later on.
He can make mistakes, but as I've said his mistakes in SR are out of character. For him to act 'uncaring' and 'selfish' in respect to his love for Lois is out of character b/c he is known for his caring and unselfishness.
Which drives you crazy. I've answered this more than once. I think the mystery was there because Jason was the big reveal. As stated above.
But it needed to be explained to complete the story and make everything understandable. IT was bad writing and bad filmmaking. The audience should not be required to make up on their own the part of the story the precipitates all the conflict in the film, it is lazy.
Perhaps he should be stabbed with kryptonite because of it (and she can use pliers on it so it's very painful)?
Huh?
Birth control can and does fail. Also they may not have had planned sex. Also if she was taking the pill and had mixed them with anti-bacterial medication then that can make it ineffective I believe. There's so many possibilities and we don't know and it's ridiculous to damn them for it. But mainly he's an alien it should be the best birth control protection they had. 'Cos it's fiction it wasn't. But there is also another possibility that they'd had sex more than once and it hadn't happened. I know add in another (articulate) rant. It was the mystery so Jason could be a surprise (to some).
I believe that because Superman is a caring person who willingly sacrifices himself for others on a daily basis he would not enter into a sexual relationship lightly or without being fully committed to the woman, especially when it is Lois, the woman he loves and is the love of his life. Because of the content of his character he would not engage in that sexual relationship if he could not be committed to her. If something beyond his control, like Jor-El’s mandate from Superman II made him believe he couldn’t be with her, it should have been explained in SR. Otherwise, there is no context for why their relationship didn’t work out and why he would have entered into a sexual relationship in which he could not remain committed. It doesn’t necessarily mean the use of birth control, but rather being willing and prepared emotionally to be around for any consequence. No Superman movie or comic to my knowledge has ever shown Lois and Superman/ Clark discussing the incompatibility of their DNA. I believe that because of the content of Superman’s character he would have the foresight to investigate the possibility and the restraint to hold back in a moment of passion if he didn’t feel he could be committed. Superman would not put his sex life over the responsibilities of being in a committed monogamous sexual relationship.
He makes mistakes 'cos he's a sentient being. He even acknowleged it and apologised. The future is uncertain but assuming he can't turn back time then he can't change the past. And even if he could according to Jor-El he shouldn't (I doubt he can).
My take on that is that Superman is shown making mistakes that are out of character for him. Simply being capable of making mistakes doesn’t mean you are going to make them in every situation. I don’t think Superman would make a mistake as such that would impact the life of his child, whether he knew about it or not.
OK.
I don't blame Superman for Lex being out of jail even if him not being there helped free him. As it was the human legal system that did it. Because even with Superman it could of happened. Though it might not have.
Then why does the film want us to believe it is Superman’s fault with Jimmy line to Clark about the reason Luthor got out. What’s the purpose of it if that wasn’t the intention of the filmmaker? Isn’t that not believing what the filmmaker wants you to believe? Wouldn’t that be like me saying “Well, I don’t believe Jason is really Superman’s child,” even though that’s what the movie wants us to believe?
I still see this version of Superman as much as you describe above. Largely honest and compassionate and he did do the right thing.
Did what right thing?
But as you said he's not perfect and he made a mistake for whatever reason. It happens.
IMO, though, his intentions for not telling Lois were not the right thing, he made a mistake he knew would hurt Lois. He realized how difficult it would be for him and he chose to hurt Lois instead of facing the challenge directly. That is not Superman to me and it is such a critical event in the story that everything follows from that. It makes it very difficult to overlook, especially in light of the fact that they were not only in a relationship, but in a sexual relationship. Because of his selfishness and fear of facing his own pain he instead has hurt Lois, the woman he loves, and his own son. That just doesn’t work as a mistake that fits with Superman’s character. He’s better than that. He’s not an immature kid. He supposed to be a mature responsible adult. Mature responsible adults don’t do that. B/c if they did they would be neither mature nor responsible.
I could write a mischevious comment to that (on the computer game). But I'll restrain myself for decency sake. Maybe not. I presume it wasn't Mrs. Cleaver's Jive Talking Lessons (see "Flying High" or "Airplane"). I hope you forgive the random silliness 'cos I don't mean to insult here. I just felt silly.
Angeloz
No prob on the silly, we act silly around the house all the time. BTW, it was Arthur’s First Grade computer game. Very innocuous, but not quite as funny as imagining Mrs. Cleaver’s Jive Taking Lessons, ha ha!