Perhaps because it's not the 5 year absence, it's Superman leaving, out the back door for five years, unannounced that deserves criticism.
Which he did in Superman II, a movie from which SR is a sequel.
And in SII he didn't leave for 5 years, he simply quit forever. And told no one about it.
i regards to the leave of absence, the leaving part was not the real problem, it was the WAY Superman left.
There's nothing wrong with leaving to rediscover your heritage or find your birth parents, especially if you think you are the last of your kind.
HOWEVER, if you knew you were going to be gone for 5+ years with no way to be contacted, and if you had any sense of decency/respect, you'd tell your significant other/girlfriend of your plans, especially if you are already in a ( sexual ) relationship. At the very least, you'd say GOODBYE to her.
Yes, leaving to seek out your birth parents/race would be important to you, but would you do so at the expense of hurting your loved ones and making them worry?
I mean....look at what happens when someone goes missing in the news. Look how much pain and suffering it causes friends and family. Look how much stress and burden it places on society to try to find that person. Would you want to bring all that upon your loved ones ( and society ) because you VOLUNTARILY left but failed to notify anyone?
Also, if you were going to leave for 5+ years, you'd have to consider your present jobs/duties/responsibilities. If you were going to take any type of extended leave of absence for PERSONAL reasons ( not work-related ), you'd have to notify your boss/company/clients, etc. Failure to do so would be seriously irresponsible; you'd be ABANDONING your jobs and responsibilities.
Superman, in particular, has a very unique duty or responsibility in protecting/defending the entire world, not just rescuing people day-to-day, but also protecting the world from larger threats like Zod, Brainiac, etc. In the comics, Superman could have notified other Justice League members and asked them to fill in. In the movies, he could have at least notified the President.
I mean....if you had such a unique role in protecting the world, and then you suddenly left and disappeared for a really long time, you're in essence abandoning the entire world and leaving them defenseless. What if there was a disaster you could have helped prevent? What if some external threat ( like Zod, Darkseid, etc. ) attacked while you were away?
So, again, it's not the fact that Superman left; it was the WAY he left, which made him selfish, irresponsible, and insensitive. By leaving suddenly and without notifying anyone ( except his mom ), Superman hurt his loved ones ( namely Lois ), he abandoned his duties here on earth, and he put his own selfish interests and desires ( even if they are noble ones ) above everything else.
If anyone of us did that in the real world, we'd hurt our loved ones ( and would thus be shunned/rejected by them ); we'd be promptly fired from our jobs and labeled unreliable and irresponsible. In short, we'd be labeled as selfish, irresponsible jerks......not very Supermanly, imo.
Again, the same that happened in SII. Superman quits forever and tells nobody.
And in both SII and SR he did when Earth seemed safe.
Now it is weel explained that if Superman had talked to Lois before leaving he wouldn't have left. That's why he didn't do it. His mission and responsibility to any possible Kryptonian survivor was higher than Lois' (or anybody else's) pain.
Nevertheless Supes told his motehr about it.
Not only that but you'd think Lois and everyone else that has worked with clark would be able to figure out that clark and superman are the same person because I mean cmon... both have been gone for the same amount of time and both return to metropolis at the same friggin time. Lois must really be an idiot.
Oh, like in every comic book for decades she hgasn't been able to see that Clark + glasses = Superman.
Suddenly, the same kind of traditional cluelessness is a problem. But it is well established that for Lois, Clark is almost unexistant. Many people in Metropolis went away one day and came 5 years later. Lois - as usual - never made the connection.
Superman came across as a creepy stalker, Jason murdered a henchman, they kept going on about Superman being Jesus, ect
He was not creepy at all, and if you check the "stalker" definition, Superman in SR doesn't fit.
stalk (FOLLOW) Show phonetics
verb
1 [T] to follow an animal or person as closely as possible without being seen or heard, usually in order to catch or kill them:
The police had been stalking the woman for a week before they arrested her.
Not the case; it wasn't in order to catch or kill Lois.
2 [I or T] to illegally follow and watch someone, usually a woman, over a period of time:
He was arrested for stalking.
Not the case; it wasn't over a period of time, just once.
3 [T] LITERARY If something unpleasant stalks a place, it appears there in a threatening way:
When night falls, danger stalks the streets of the city.
Not the case; he wasn't threatening Lois or anyone inside of Richard's house.
stalker Show phonetics
noun [C]
a person who illegally follows and watches someone, especially a woman, over a period of time:
Several well-known women have been troubled by stalkers recently.
Not the case; it wasn't over a period of time, just once.
What Jason did was to save his motehr's life. Ethicaly you can kill someone if he's threatening your or some innocent person's life.
And about the Jesus parallel, yes, Singer kept what has been a thing associated to Superman since 1939.
Dont forget Lois putting her child's life in danger by putting her story ahead of her motherly duties. Mom of the year. I could just imagine what went thru her head.. " yeah.. lets go see what's in that big yacht so i can follow this story about something that caused major blackouts as well as the space shuttle to go haywire... totally safe.. no potential danger to my kid."
Terrible mum. Typical Lois behaviour.
Well, I'm willing to look over that since it's tradition
Excuse me? That's the excuse?
If she wasn't making connections between Superman and someone who she couldn't care less (namely Clark) for, then it's plothole. But if she has been idiot enough to not to notice a simple pair of glasses then it's okay because it has been like that for too long?
Have you ever thought that Clark has traditionally been absent every time when Superman is there to be seen (sometimes for a long time when Superman has been in outer space) and yet Lois never made the connection? My man; that is "tradition" too.
but Lois putting her own child in a dangerous situation is just bad characterization. Lois might be the hard nosed reporter but I highly doubt she would ever put her news story over her child's safety.
So how many comics/movies have you seen with Lois being a mother so we can draw conclusions about her possible behaviour as a mum?
As far as we know, Lois puts always the news before everything and usually in an impulsive and irresponsible way. As far as she knows, it is an old lady who inhabits that house.
I guess no one in this story is responsible except for Richard who's the real superman of the story. Give him superpowers and he'd most definately be a better superman since this superman is nothing without his.
Superman in SR, as he did in SII and many heroes has done in many good stories, lost his way.
And Richard is precisely who shows him what he used to be; a hero beyond the super-powers. That's the function of Richard, who Superman thought at first would be the classic pedantic son of daddy.