Worst argument you had with your significant other?

[StrainedEyes]

Careful. I had an English teacher who did that in high school. People might think you're gay.

PLAS is gay?

 

[Ben Urich]

thankfully, my life partner (I refuse to call her girlfriend) and I had been very good friends many years before we started our relationship, so when we started dating and subsequentially moved in together, it was a most natural thing, and since we started, as far as I remember, other than the typical "where's my left shoe?", "damn it, it's late, get up, we gotta get to work", "I told you to pick that up", etc. kind of arguments, which last no more than three minutes, we never fight or anything... we do disagree in some stuff, but it's nothing we can't talk over like civilized human beings

people have told us that type of behaviour is unnatural and might end up affecting our relationship in the long run, because supposedly, there's nothing like make up sex and all that fantasy bull**** people tell themselves whenever they try to justify their stupidity

I feel really lucky and blessed to share my life with someone who thinks and would rather use reason before an argument

I've never understood the whole "arguing is healthy because it means you'll have great sex" mentality. It's possible to have great sex without arguing.

 

[Ronny Shade]

PLAS is gay?

 

[jaguarr]

I was friends with my wife for awhile before we ever started dating, and we've been together as a couple for over four years. In all that time, we've only ever had ONE fight. And it was over something really stupid. She really dislikes facial hair and I was growing a goatee about a year after we got married. She complained about it and gave me a bad time for weeks over it. One night, after we'd already gone to bed, she made some joke that for some reason set off my Irish temper and I got up, went into the bathroom and slammed the door shut, locking it behind me. Once in there, I started up the clippers and proceeded to start shaving. She was banging on the door and PISSED that I was reacting that way to her joke. We stayed mad at each other for the rest of the next day and then made our peace.

Most of the time, though, we just talk through any differences we might have. We're usually on the same wavelength, anyway, and we get along so well that outside the joking and ribbing we might give each other, we don't really have friction in our relationship. And anyone who has to have "makeup sex" to keep their sex life interesting probably doesn't have much of a sex life to speak of to begin with.

And, yes, I stay clean shaven these days.

jag

 

[War Lord]

I was friends with my wife for awhile before we ever started dating, and we've been together as a couple for over four years. In all that time, we've only ever had ONE fight. And it was over something really stupid. She really dislikes facial hair and I was growing a goatee about a year after we got married. She complained about it and gave me a bad time for weeks over it. One night, after we'd already gone to bed, she made some joke that for some reason set off my Irish temper and I got up, went into the bathroom and slammed the door shut, locking it behind me. Once in there, I started up the clippers and proceeded to start shaving. She was banging on the door and PISSED that I was reacting that way to her joke. We stayed mad at each other for the rest of the next day and then made our peace.

Most of the time, though, we just talk through any differences we might have. We're usually on the same wavelength, anyway, and we get along so well that outside the joking and ribbing we might give each other, we don't really have friction in our relationship. And anyone who has to have "makeup sex" to keep their sex life interesting probably doesn't have much of a sex life to speak of to begin with.

And, yes, I stay clean shaven these days.

jag

You should have made your point by shaving your head and body.

 

[Ronny Shade]

I was gonna say that.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

You'd never believe it.
One Valentine's day, my ex-girlfriend wanted to do something different, so she said we each had to put on some entertainment-type show for eachother as a present.

I don't even remember what she did, but I took the easy way out and wrote her a song.
It was blues, so I was going to dress up like an old poor southern Black man, and sing with a crude Negro pronunciation.

So I'm looking through her closet for costume materials, and find an old, ugly jacket that she never wore anymore. It looked right, so I put it on.

There was a bunch of paper folded up in the left pocket, so I reached in to see what it was, and it was a freaking love letter to her ex-boyfriend, who had returned to town shortly after I first got with her.

It said, "I am seeing someone, but "boy or no", I've had to come to terms with my feelings for you."

LOL, I was the "Boy" who was not sufficient to keep her from pining for her ex.

So, Valentine's Day ended with a huge, huge fight because I was insanely jealous of this ex-dude. I was pissed and wondering what other love letters she had around. She pointed out that she hadn't given him the letter for a reason, and it was because she didn't care about him after getting closer to me. But I was such an ******* at the time, I was yelling and raving and I evilly grabbed a box of papers, looking for love letters, and I found a bunch.

I was so insane that I grabbed them, got on my mountain bike, rode to the nearest coffee shop (this was late, it was closed) and sat on the table outside, reading all of her personal love letters to this other dude.
From BEFORE she even knew me.

Let it not be said that people never change, because I would never do that now, and it's one of those things where I look back with incredulity and want to puke when I think of it.


So, bad Valentine's that year.lol

 

[Ronny Shade]

ha ha

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

I was friends with my wife for awhile before we ever started dating, and we've been together as a couple for over four years. In all that time, we've only ever had ONE fight. And it was over something really stupid. She really dislikes facial hair and I was growing a goatee about a year after we got married. She complained about it and gave me a bad time for weeks over it. One night, after we'd already gone to bed, she made some joke that for some reason set off my Irish temper and I got up, went into the bathroom and slammed the door shut, locking it behind me. Once in there, I started up the clippers and proceeded to start shaving. She was banging on the door and PISSED that I was reacting that way to her joke. We stayed mad at each other for the rest of the next day and then made our peace.

Most of the time, though, we just talk through any differences we might have. We're usually on the same wavelength, anyway, and we get along so well that outside the joking and ribbing we might give each other, we don't really have friction in our relationship. And anyone who has to have "makeup sex" to keep their sex life interesting probably doesn't have much of a sex life to speak of to begin with.

And, yes, I stay clean shaven these days.

jag

should've fully grown it out to spite her. and your whipped.

 

[jaguarr]

To all you "You should have's...", I made the right decision. My wife learned a lesson about harping on me about something from that and she's never done it since.

And Wilh, that's f**ked up, man.

jag

 

[Ronny Shade]

should've fully grown it out to spite her. and your whipped.

at least he can spell

 

[War Lord]

You'd never believe it.
One Valentine's day, my ex-girlfriend wanted to do something different, so she said we each had to put on some entertainment-type show for eachother as a present.

I don't even remember what she did, but I took the easy way out and wrote her a song.
It was blues, so I was going to dress up like an old poor southern Black man, and sing with a crude Negro pronunciation.

So I'm looking through her closet for costume materials, and find an old, ugly jacket that she never wore anymore. It looked right, so I put it on.

There was a bunch of paper folded up in the left pocket, so I reached in to see what it was, and it was a freaking love letter to her ex-boyfriend, who had returned to town shortly after I first got with her.

It said, "I am seeing someone, but "boy or no", I've had to come to terms with my feelings for you."

LOL, I was the "Boy" who was not sufficient to keep her from pining for her ex.

So, Valentine's Day ended with a huge, huge fight because I was insanely jealous of this ex-dude. I was pissed and wondering what other love letters she had around. She pointed out that she hadn't given him the letter for a reason, and it was because she didn't care about him after getting closer to me. But I was such an ******* at the time, I was yelling and raving and I evilly grabbed a box of papers, looking for love letters, and I found a bunch.

I was so insane that I grabbed them, got on my mountain bike, rode to the nearest coffee shop (this was late, it was closed) and sat on the table outside, reading all of her personal love letters to this other dude.
From BEFORE she even knew me.

Let it not be said that people never change, because I would never do that now, and it's one of those things where I look back with incredulity and want to puke when I think of it.


So, bad Valentine's that year.lol

You did the right thing, man.

 

[jaguarr]

I always laugh at guys who say "You're *****-whipped." It invariably comes from someone who's doomed to be single forever or is trapped in a loveless, sh1tty relationship that's going nowhere. Don't be hatin' just because I'm happy and know how to make a relationship with a real live woman work.

jag

 

[Ronny Shade]

You did the right thing, man.

award winning post

 

[Ronny Shade]

I always laugh at guys who say "You're *****-whipped." It invariably comes from someone who's doomed to be single forever or is trapped in a loveless, sh1tty relationship that's going nowhere. Don't be hatin' just because I'm happy and know how to make a relationship with a real live woman work.

jag

I don't say stuff like "you're ***** whipped" I say stuf like "condemn the female species for eternity and pay them no heed for they pay men heed incorrectly"

 

[Erzengel]

My gf wass prone to "freak outs" as I so innocently coined them. She would let her job upset her so much that she would take it out on me.

She was being pushed a lot at work by an unyeilding supervisor and it boiled to a head one day when she shut me out and didn't want to talk to me for a while.

At the time I didn't understand because I was pretty loving and supporting dude. In hindsight I should have attributed to her inexperience with having to be dependent on anyone other than herself.

I told her after I gave her "her time", not to ever shut me out again like that. Now, I'm the first person she runs to when she does have issues.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

And Wilh, that's f**ked up, man.

Quite. Now I'm exactly the opposite.
Now if my girlfriend wanted to go on a month long archeological dig with her ex I'd say, "I'll miss you. Have a blast. Bring me back a trilobite or something."

In fact, it was hilarious, 'cause a couple years ago I was with this chick, super hot, super-smart, a freak, but she had a weird Daddy-Related insecurity thing, and she would strain and strain, bending over backwards to try to manipulate me and make me jealous, and I'd just laugh. It drove her insane. lol

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

at least he can spell

anything prodective to sey?

 

[Ben Urich]

anything prodective to sey?

Please tell me you're joking.

 

[Ronny Shade]

anything prodective to sey?

lots. I just choose not to say it. Nothing I hate more than being productive.

 

[War Lord]

Lots. I just choose not to say it. There is nothing I hate more than being productive.

You're welcome.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

I always laugh at guys who say "You're *****-whipped." It invariably comes from someone who's doomed to be single forever or is trapped in a loveless, sh1tty relationship that's going nowhere. Don't be hatin' just because I'm happy and know how to make a relationship with a real live woman work.

jag

hatin on what? mr. i can't grow out my facial hair cause my woman does'nt like it. you're ***** whipped.


jk.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Ben Urich now has the ultimate avatar.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

Please tell me you're joking.

lmaot:

 

[jaguarr]

hatin on what? mr. i can't grow out my facial hair cause my woman does'nt like it. you're ***** whipped.


jk.

Have you ever been married or in a relationship that's lasted longer than a year?

jag