Off the top of my head - I felt that Laurie in 'Watchmen' was underdeveloped. Unlike the graphic novel where we could see what her motivations were, she seemed to only be there to react to Jon/Dan/Sally and their expectations of her.
MoS - HISHE makes a joke of this, but why no memory stick for Lara Lor-Van? I know that it's canon that Jor-El sends his memories/hologram off with Kal but in this day and age I expected Lara to have more to do than just launch the ship. And whilst Zod is a very nuanced character with motivation, Faora-Ul (although I enjoyed her character) is very much the stereotypical 'female badass villain'.
This is subjective though, and takes nothing away from my appreciation of your post