Abusive relationships

[Master Chief]

Uuuuhhh... I'm just curious as to if any of you know people who were in past abusive relationships, and how that turned out. kthx. I know it's kind of random, but. Yep.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Define abusive?

In my case... the most abusive (if you could call it that) was when I went out with a man who thought of me as one of his ho's... turns out he was a double.... wait no, triple playing bastard. He hit me once because I called him a lazy ass... didn't hit me too hard, but it was enough to leave a bruise and enough for me to kick him in the nuts.

We broke up, he got fired from his job cause of a fling with his boss's assistant.

Funny as hell cause I was there fueling the flame.

 

[Master Chief]

Overbearing and paranoid, sometimes physical.

Good to hear yers had a pretty good ending.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

It was beyond awesome.

 

[Master Chief]

Yeah. I wish this one could end that cleanly, but I dunno, it's deeper. Ah well. Just wanted to know if any situations like that ended happily.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Aww... I feel a story coming on!

*jumps up and down like child*

Oh, oh, tell, tell!

 

[britrogue]

I've had a couple, I'm sorry to say.

The first went on for 2.5 years, because I was too terrified to leave, but I eventually met someone who was like a knight in shining armour, and took me away from it all.
Unfortunately, he turned out to be no better in the end, and eventually dumped me for another woman after two years because I failed to have his dinner ready on the table one night.

 

[Dangerous]

My chick sais I am good in bed.

 

[Kyalesyin]

In terms of emotionally abusive I dated a girl who was clingy, paranoid and like playing games. Literally, the kind of 'I'm going to kill myself right now unless...' type games. Had me worked in far enough that I played them for a while. Then I met my wife, ditched her fat ass and she's still single and lonely.

 

[Fried Gold]

playing games.

Like Subbuteo?

 

[Kyalesyin]

Like Subbuteo?

If only. More like 'what can I force you to do today?' or 'whats the most sucessful form of emotional blackmail?'

 

[AndThePickles]

I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship before....thankfully it was only like 3-4 months and I got out of it. But even when I got out of it, the process was so hard for me. I hated it and wanted to leave, but at the same time he'd become very good at making me feel dependent on him.

He cheated on me, turned out to be in love with his ex-gf while dating me, and basically destroyed my self-esteem. He was pretty damn manipulative as well.

I'm ok now though, and in a happy and successful relationship.

 

[Mr Jide]

There was this one stupid girl I used to date, she was paranoid, possesive and quite malicious towards me and my female friends. I don't even know how we hooked up because all we did was fight and argue. Anyway, there was a time when I was in hospital and she came to visit me, brining some food for me. Anyway, as she came to the ward where I was, I was joking around innocently with this really attractive nurse. Anyway, she gives the nurse some dirty look and then dashed the food at me whilst launching every derogatory word under the sun at me. That was the last straw! I struggled to get up and out of the bed, had a crazed look in my eyes, grabbed her by arms and said, sternly, "you're going to get yourself together, shut the f up and clean up the mess you made. You're an embarrasment to me and yourself, in fact just get lost and keep the hell away from me".

I stood there with a furious look with everyone, all the patients and hospital staff staring. She apologised and then whispered in my ear that she feels so horny and that she wants me to give it to her in the hospital toilet.

Needless to say I was surprised and once the mess had been cleaned up and whatnot, I went and tapped that ass. It was quite a disgusting experience but I did feel sexually relieved though, so it wasn't all bad.

 

[Hoedowned]

There was this one stupid girl I used to date, she was paranoid, possesive and quite malicious towards me and my female friends. I don't even know how we hooked up because all we did was fight and argue. Anyway, there was a time when I was in hospital and she came to visit me, brining some food for me. Anyway, as she came to the ward where I was, I was joking around innocently with this really attractive nurse. Anyway, she gives the nurse some dirty look and then dashed the food at me whilst launching every derogatory word under the sun at me. That was the last straw! I struggled to get up and out of the bed, had a crazed look in my eyes, grabbed her by arms and said, sternly, "you're going to get yourself together, shut the f up and clean up the mess you made. You're an embarrasment to me and yourself, in fact just get lost and keep the hell away from me".

I stood there with a furious look with everyone, all the patients and hospital staff staring. She apologised and then whispered in my ear that she feels so horny and that she wants me to give it to her in the hospital toilet.

Needless to say I was surprised and once the mess had been cleaned up and whatnot, I went and tapped that ass. It was quite a disgusting experience but I did feel sexually relieved though, so it wasn't all bad.

Now THAT is a cool story. Just complete and utterly badass.

 

[Mr Jide]

Thanks. The way she was going on, it was like she was begging for a slap but I guess some b1tches just need to be put in their place instead of going Ike Turner on their asses.

 

[arachnid-guy]

I have a friend who is going through an abusive relationship.

She's going to leave him.

Or...so she says.

I have a feeling that she won't.

 

[Kevin]

I know some stories.

 

[jaguarr]

My first really intense relationship right out of high school, the summer before I started college, was with a girl who turned out to be fond of head games and such. We lasted through the summer and almost to the end of the first semester. I had had just about enough of it, though, and was gearing up to break up with her and then I found out she'd cheated on me (she claimed she was drunk and therefore shouldn't be held accountable for her actions....think again, b1tch). Made the whole process REAL easy for me. From that point on, any woman showed signs of playing head games and they were GONE. My tolerance for that kind of crap is absolutely zero.

jag

 

[BRUTAL]

I dated a girl who liked me to beat her up when we were... erm... making the secks...

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

My first really intense relationship right out of high school, the summer before I started college, was with a girl who turned out to be fond of head

better

 

[Colossal Spoons]

In terms of emotionally abusive I dated a girl who was clingy, paranoid and like playing games. Literally, the kind of 'I'm going to kill myself right now unless...' type games. Had me worked in far enough that I played them for a while. Then I met my wife, ditched her fat ass and she's still single and lonely.

The fact that she's single and lonely means she's still alive...making her a liar about that whole "killing herself" thing. You should dare her to do it now

 

[jaguarr]

better

She was that, too.

jag

 

[Kyalesyin]

The fact that she's single and lonely means she's still alive...making her a liar about that whole "killing herself" thing. You should dare her to do it now

Thats actually how we broke up. She called me claiming that she was on one of the bridges out her way, and she was gonna jump off unless I talked her out of it, pulling that whole 'I love you but I don't think I cn keep on living' gig.

Instead of trying to talk her down like normal I just said to her 'fine. Do it' and hung up. She called me back pretty damn pissed, and I told her I was ending it. She said she was gonna jump if I ended it. So, I told her to jump.

She was in her room, on her bed at the time.

 

[kainedamo]

There was this one stupid girl I used to date, she was paranoid, possesive and quite malicious towards me and my female friends. I don't even know how we hooked up because all we did was fight and argue. Anyway, there was a time when I was in hospital and she came to visit me, brining some food for me. Anyway, as she came to the ward where I was, I was joking around innocently with this really attractive nurse. Anyway, she gives the nurse some dirty look and then dashed the food at me whilst launching every derogatory word under the sun at me. That was the last straw! I struggled to get up and out of the bed, had a crazed look in my eyes, grabbed her by arms and said, sternly, "you're going to get yourself together, shut the f up and clean up the mess you made. You're an embarrasment to me and yourself, in fact just get lost and keep the hell away from me".

I stood there with a furious look with everyone, all the patients and hospital staff staring. She apologised and then whispered in my ear that she feels so horny and that she wants me to give it to her in the hospital toilet.

Needless to say I was surprised and once the mess had been cleaned up and whatnot, I went and tapped that ass. It was quite a disgusting experience but I did feel sexually relieved though, so it wasn't all bad.

That doesn't sound like a very believable story at all.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

That doesn't sound like a very believable story at all.

The girl was acting irrationally because on her way into the hospital she was bitten by a radioactive lesbian vampire.
I saw it on BBC2