Heh, even thiough your posts usually argue against mine Shin', their usually pretty good . No different this time bro, your right, Ben died a hero, and thats an excellent way to go, and yeah those scenario's are pretty terrible, and thus most likely the ones Marvel would choose.
However there are ways of doing it right, most people seem to be hung up on the replacing of Peter Parker, fact is, the best thing about Reilly to me, was the sibling dynamic he had with Pete, and the interaction the two of them had together. Ben could eaisly be brought back in an manner that makes sense and keeps consistancy quality wise. Over in the Reilly thread, there was an incredible idea, regarding Ben showing up again and trying to bring Parker back to his street roots. Personally I thought the Scarlet Hood idea would be pay dirt, given the little amount of thought, Peter puts towards the guy who jumped in front of a glider for him. Just tone down the cloning (Osborn basically get Reilly, knowing he had a eventual trump card up his sleeve with), no brainwashing needed, Reilly escapes, and gets pissed of at Peter for ruining his own life, and not killing Osborn, or even caring about Reilly in the slightest.