No, you never said that, Brainiac did. His implications of "my family makes my opinion on music games" was what started all of this, and I, maybe rather harshly, was refuting that.
And you see....that's the problem.
He made the statement that his family helps form his opinion of the music and games he plays and watches. He didn't say that it made his opinion better....just different. But
you personally attacked him for making this statement. He didn't attack you, he didn't call you names, he didn't say his opinion was better, he didn't say your taste in music sucked....he said his family helped formed his opinion, which is different from yours....and also put in there
Oh, and I personally like Taylor Swift, but to each his own.
to which you replied with the attack of
If you're not a teenage girl and you like Taylor Swift, there is something f**king wrong with you.
So again I say...he didn't attack you, he didn't say his opinion was better....but you attacked him. You have a hate for anything Activision related (and before anyone yells bias....I don't play video games so I couldn't care less about one company or the other) and since he didn't share your hatred for evrything Activision related, you feel compelled to attack him for it.
Everyone who's condom ever broke or who's girlfriend lied about being on the pill or was just too damn stupid to use birth control has a god damn kid. Hell, that German guy who kept his daughter locked in an underground torture chamber was married with kids. It doesn't make you special, no matter what the hormones that your body releases to stop you from strangling your own kid tell you. And it sure as hell doesn't make anyones opinions on music or video games more valid than the next persons.
This too tells volumes about you. You can't seem to even fathom the thought that someone might actually want to have children for good reasons. It's a shame you are so bitter with life. Not everyone is this cynical. Just as you can point out some news story of someone doing something terrible to thier kids....I can point out news stories about people doing good things for thier kids. There are all kinds of people out there. Good, bad, inbetween. If you spend all your time only looking for the bad....you will find it.
He was telling me to grow up, while using an incredibly childish and naive argument himself, and it pissed me off, and maybe I could have put it more eloquently. But oh well, it's done now, and I'm not at all sorry.
Yes...he told you to grow up. But he didn't call you or your family demeaning offensive names while doing it....he didn't spend time belittleling you for your choices in music. He said
When you're a grown up, you realize that each person has their own tastes, and that's ok, and that there is no need to judge one another based on those tastes...especially when all this stuff is pure minutae.
and he said
No need. I don't rely on the opinions of others to know what I like. My wife and two kids are the only opinions I take into account.
When Joker has kids, it will mellow him out a bit. It's then that you realize that there are more important things than putting that much hatred into a game or game company.
It may have been presumptious for him to say that having kids
will mellow you out....maybe he should have said
may mellow you out. But those statements in no way merited this
I've heard quite a bit of Taylor Switfs music, and most of it can be boiled down into exactly what I described it as. You finding a wet hole that will let you impregnate and popping out a couple of snot nosed brood doesn't make you any more of a person than I am, either, and it doesn't make your opinions any more valid.
You stepped over the line. You were unnecessarily rude, offensive, and just downright mean. There was no call for it. I'm telling you officially....be more civil in the future.