Best Friend's Girlfriend

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Has any guy here ever had their best friend's new girlfriend hate them at first sight?

Today, I met my friend's new girlfriend and she was acting distant towards me, she wouldn't talk to me or anything like that and I was just trying to be friendly with her. When I told him about it he said "she just doesn't like new people"; she knows everyone of his other friends, I'm the one she hasn't met, so because she's never met me I guess she automatic hates me.

Then I told him, "I thought it might have been because I was black" and he says "no it's not that, although she doesn't agree with interracial relationships". So, that kinda makes me wonder how she'd feel if I told her that I DID agree with it?
 
Err, if she doesn't agree with interracial relationships, yeah, i think that makes her racist...

man, my best friend went out with the biggest ***** ever... it was horrible...
 
She fears the black ....

Edited by Morg, Keep it clean!
 
And she does act like a *****, but the thing is the last couple of girls he's been with have been MAJOR *****es. Maybe that's just the kind of woman he likes; yet none of them ever went all distant on me like she does.
 
That sucks.
It won't last just try to ride it out.
If they marry, kiss the friendship goodbye.
 
Dude, it's like Saving Silverman man... don't worry, I've been there... like I said, best friend + ***** = reason to knock some sense into him...
 
The thing is, I can't really judge on the whole "race" thing because I just met her, but if she is racist and he's likes her; then what does that say about our friendship being that I'm one, if not only, of his black friends.
 
it doesn't mean he's racist, it means he's turning a blind eye to her personality... look, in this scenario, give his girl a good decking, then if he complains about it, deck him too... haha...
 
Maybe she just needs to warmup to you or something?

Or she just could be a *****.
 
it doesn't mean he's racist, it means he's turning a blind eye to her personality... look, in this scenario, give his girl a good decking, then if he complains about it, deck him too... haha...

yeah, i don't care if she's the next hitler, if you hit someone's girlfriend they're pretty much bound by the laws of nature to kick your ass.
 
The thing is, I can't really judge on the whole "race" thing because I just met her, but if she is racist and he's likes her; then what does that say about our friendship being that I'm one, if not only, of his black friends.

It's weird how our hormones cloud our brain.
I'm a black woman who has dated a very redneck N. Carolina boy. That was rough. Like a dumb ass I dated a schizo Texan, that hunted. Crazy. When you get some lovin it's hard to see straight sometimes. Let him get it out of the way and maybe he'll come around.
 
I started humming The Cars when I read the thread's title... :word:

:csad:
 
Youre always dancing down the street
With your suede blue eyes
And every new boy that you meet
He doesnt know the real surprise

(here she comes again)
When shes dancing neath the starry sky
Oo, shell make you flip
(here she comes again)
When shes dancing neath the starry sky
I kinda like the way she dips
Well shes my best friends girl
Shes my best friends girl-irl
But she used to be mine

Youve got your nuclear boots
And your drip dry glove
Oo when you bite your lip
Its some reaction to love, o-ove, o-ove
(here she comes again)
When shes dancing neath the starry sky
Yeah, I think youll flip
(here she comes again)
When shes dancing neath the starry sky
(here she comes again)
I kinda like the way, I like the way she dips
cause shes my best friends girl
Well shes my best friends girl-irl
And she used to be mine
Shes so fine

Youre always dancing down the street
With your suede blue eye-eyes
And every new boy that you meet
Doesnt know the real surprise

(here she comes again)
When shes dancing neath the starry sky
(here she comes again)
Oh, shell make you flip
(here she comes again)
When shes dancing neath the starry sky
(here she comes again)
I kinda like the way, I like the way she dips
cause shes my best friends girl, uh
Shes my best friends girl-irl-u-irl
She used to be mine
She so, fine

(my best friends girlfriend)
Oh
(my best friends girlfriend)
She used to be mine
(my best friends girlfriend)
Yeah yeah
(my best friends girlfriend)
Said she used to be mine
(my best friends girlfriend)
Oh, yeah yeah yeah
(my best friends girlfriend)
She used to be mine
(my best friends girlfriend)
 
It's weird how our hormones cloud our brain.
I'm a black woman who has dated a very redneck N. Carolina boy. That was rough. Like a dumb ass I dated a schizo Texan, that hunted. Crazy. When you get some lovin it's hard to see straight sometimes. Let him get it out of the way and maybe he'll come around.


A black woman at SHH?! Prove it!!! :woot:
 
Has any guy here ever had their best friend's new girlfriend hate them at first sight?

Today, I met my friend's new girlfriend and she was acting distant towards me, she wouldn't talk to me or anything like that and I was just trying to be friendly with her. When I told him about it he said "she just doesn't like new people"; she knows everyone of his other friends, I'm the one she hasn't met, so because she's never met me I guess she automatic hates me.

Then I told him, "I thought it might have been because I was black" and he says "no it's not that, although she doesn't agree with interracial relationships". So, that kinda makes me wonder how she'd feel if I told her that I DID agree with it?

A few things here don't make sense. If you're best friends with this guy why are you the last person to meet his new girlfriend. Second, what does interracial relationships have to do with anything? Are you in one and with your girlfriend tonight?

As for the whole her not liking you thing, maybe she's just distant when she meets someone new. I'm the same way, stay distant at first, usually until I find a common interest then I'm very talkative. Don't label her a b!tc# off one meeting.
 
On a similar note, anyone's girlfriend's friends act like complete you-know-whats around you?
 
How old are you Pyro?

Because all of my best friend's girlfriends have made an effort to get to know me, like me because it was important enough to their boyfriends. :huh:
 
Find a woman for yourself that hates people who hates blacks? Eventually people wil be harnessing hate to power their homes.
 
Lucy in the sky, love your username... i've recently read the whole run of Runaways in like two days... amazing stuff... why don't you have a picture of Karolina instead of whoever that is?
 
Has any guy here ever had their best friend's new girlfriend hate them at first sight?

Today, I met my friend's new girlfriend and she was acting distant towards me, she wouldn't talk to me or anything like that and I was just trying to be friendly with her. When I told him about it he said "she just doesn't like new people"; she knows everyone of his other friends, I'm the one she hasn't met, so because she's never met me I guess she automatic hates me.

Then I told him, "I thought it might have been because I was black" and he says "no it's not that, although she doesn't agree with interracial relationships". So, that kinda makes me wonder how she'd feel if I told her that I DID agree with it?
Have you ever got drunk at a party where your best friend's girlfriend is and you do stuff together and then every single outing with your friend and his girlfriend are really weird and intense? That is akward.
 
I don't see how it can just be a maby when you ask if she may have some racial bias going on, If somebody isn't ok with interracial dating then they are pretty much racist unless they are in their 80's and still think its the 1930's, how can people still be living with these stupid views? People like that are everything thats wrong with the world today....
 
She’s a racist *****, that’s about the sum of it.
 

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