I like how your username is flickchick , seems appropriate for right now. I usually hear the term chick flick as a way to admonish it. I didn't mean it the way it was taken though.
Ha, yeah, even when people misread my nickname for "chickflick" my kneejerk reaction is to feel insulted. That's the baggage that comes with that term. I don't feel
Bridesmaids deserves that baggage at all. And while you might suggest it could just be considered a "
good chick flick," I'd still disagree, because I see a "good chick flick" as something like
Easy A or
Mean Girls, as those are about things that really only girls can relate to, yet they have charms that either gender could still appreciate.
Bridesmaids is different from
Easy A or
Mean Girls, in that it's about things/situations that most PEOPLE can relate to - bachelorette/bachelor parties, wedding anxiety, feeling old and like you've failed at life, struggling financially, growing apart from your friends, casual sex (not to mention food poisoning, mixing alcohol with anti-anxiety pills, etc). It just happens to be about women dealing with those things in the ways that women do (which is where the dress fittings and bridal showers come in). If it were about men, the only things that would change would really be settings of the events they attend before the wedding, and they'd deal with them the way men would instead.
I don't consider this the "female version of Hangover" like some people are labeling it. If you put guys in this situation you'd get fairly different results. Where if you took a bunch of women and put them in a Hangover film, it would mostly be the same.
I agree that it's not a female version of the
Hangover...but I feel like it's a female version of a Judd Apatow movie like
Knocked Up or
The 40-year-old Virgin. Not only because it follows the same adult coming-of-age formula of those movies to a "T" (establish the loser main character and relationships, put in some hilarious situational screw-ups, then an overdose of heartfelt soul-searching/resolution at the end), but those are just as gender specific as
Bridesmaids (they would both play out VERY differently if they were about women, but still be similar plotwise/thematically), yet those get handed the broad label of "comedy." I feel like
Bridesmaids belongs precisely in that same category.
A movie about a group of female friends getting married does appeal more to women.
And a movie about a bunch of chauvinistic stoner man-boys just trying to get laid is gonna appeal more to men, but those don't get pigeon-holed by gender into a category other than "comedy," so why should this?