ChildLess, ChildFree, and Being Fruitful

[Logan's Runt]

I will NEVER understand why so many people are completely against adopting. The world is so overpopulated....even people who can't have kids still keep trying without using adoption as an option :

I'm adopted!

 

[guitarsingerguy]

I'm adopted!

Yeah, but look how you turned out.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Yeah, but look how you turned out.

Lol. Aye, its easier to f*** up adopted kids. t:

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

even people who can't have kids still keep trying without using adoption as an option :

Yeah! 'Cause it's all about vanity.
The kid has to LOOK like the couple.
It's warped and incestuous.
The wife wants a little powerless midget that looks like:
1) HER
and
2) The man who she was physically attracted to and wanted to ****.

and this little amalgamation will be completely helpless and NEED her, giving her an artificial sense of importance and worth, while ALSO giving her a sense of power.


I was at this restaurant, watching this lady with her 3 or 4 year old.

They were sitting there, and the entire time, it was like this:


"NO! put that down."
"Honey. HONEY! Sit up straight now."
"Gimmee.......gimmee that, here. Let me...*wipes face* Hold STILL!"
"Hold still."
"Come 'ere. Give me tha....STOP IT!"
"Eat some fries."
"There gonna get cold. Eat some of tyour fries now."


I mean this was non-freaking-stop. Literally so squirmy, I was getting exhausted!

And I'm thinking, "WHY.The.F***. would you WANT this, for your life?!"

She's a closet dominatrix, frustrated and impotent in her own life, so she creates these little minions who must submit to her control.
Finally she has control, AND strokes her vanity.
She is THE CREATOR!
She has created LIFE, AND must CONTROL it!



So warped.

 

[Zen]

If I want to spend money on High Class Hookers and Blow instead of diapers and baby clothes...that is my business

i agree and id love the tax breaks to, but the goverment is simply trying to encourage people to have children. its not a penalty... its an incentive to F%&K and make babies... you have more money for hookers and blow then parents do man, unless they are stuffing they're babies with drugs and running across the border, you are pretty much free to go and do lines of the most perfectly sculpted high priced call girls lady lumps... go nuts! the goverment isn't trying to fund that, many in goverment are certainly doing that... but they aren't trying to fund that... im only trying to explain why, and its not like i dont think you deserve your fair share... i just think you already getit by not having children. even with the incentives alot of families can't afford to dust a hottie and then nostril hoover her naked body until one beleives he has ascended to god-hood momentarily...

 

[BlackLantern]

i agree and id love the tax breaks to, but the goverment is simply trying to encourage people to have children. its not a penalty... its an incentive to F%&K and make babies... you have more money for hookers and blow then parents do man, unless they are stuffing they're babies with drugs and running across the border, you are pretty much free to go and do lines of the most perfectly sculpted high priced call girls lady lumps... go nuts! the goverment isn't trying to fund that, many in goverment are certainly doing that... but they aren't trying to fund that... im only trying to explain why, and its not like i dont think you deserve your fair share... i just think you already getit by not having children. even with the incentives alot of families can't afford to dust a hottie and then nostril hoover her naked body until one beleives he has ascended to god-hood momentarily...

At least we understand one another. If a man can't suction the finest Bolivian export off the posterior of Ms. $800 an hour companion....then what are we doin' here?

 

[guitarsingerguy]

Lol. Aye, its easier to f*** up adopted kids. t:

It just seems like you'd feel less dirty watching them undress too. Perks all around.

 

[guitarsingerguy]

At least we understand one another. If a man can't suction the finest Bolivian export off the posterior of Ms. $800 an hour companion....then what are we doin' here?

For $800 an hour, she better have a snow blower in her ass.

 

[blind_fury]

If you can't clone yourself, the next best thing is to procreate.

Yes Mini-me Jr. I love you more than any other child because we have a special connection and you shall continue my important "legacy" of self-absorbed vanity and mindless breeding while millions of orphans go hungry.

 

[tzarinna]

Chick I was friends with keeps having babies for her husband. she already had two grown ass kids when she meet him, but he wanted her to squeeze out like 3 more just for him. My aunt thinks it's to gain an inheritance, I guess he's in competition with his brother or something. She was pregnant with her first kid back when we were in high school, she'll never have a life of her own, it'll always be devoted to her kids and now to a husband too. **** that.

 

[guitarsingerguy]

Well, my limit is two. After that I've got a date with a surgeon.

 

[BlackLantern]

It's always sad. I go out to the mall, grocery store, or whatever. You can pick out the parents by the deadness in their eyes. They know that their life is no longer theirs, any dreams, hopes, they had are now gone.

 

[tzarinna]

I was talking to guy from my class today and he sounded kind of sad when I was talking about traveling and stuff and he was like ya got to do that stuff before you get trapped and can't do it.
I told him I'm never going to get trapped........he seemed like he wanted to end the conversation pretty quick after that. I can't help that you have kids and a woman and can't experience the things you want and I can.

 

[jaguarr]

The people who should have kids rarely do and the people who should never have kids always do, usually multiple times. This is the phenomenon of all of this.

jag

 

[SoulManX]

It's always sad. I go out to the mall, grocery store, or whatever. You can pick out the parents by the deadness in their eyes. They know that their life is no longer theirs, any dreams, hopes, they had are now gone.

Wow.Just.Wow

 

[BlackLantern]

I was talking to guy from my class today and he sounded kind of sad when I was talking about traveling and stuff and he was like ya got to do that stuff before you get trapped and can't do it.
I told him I'm never going to get trapped........he seemed like he wanted to end the conversation pretty quick after that. I can't help that you have kids and a woman and can't experience the things you want and I can.

I got that too from a former friend. He just had his second child, and considering him and his wife were scraping by as it is, he feels that God wants him to have a big family. Anyway I had told him I was going to Comic Con this year, which was something we had always talked about going to together. He responded "Must be nice to be able to waste money like that" we soon had a big falling out...basically because he is resentful that I can do whatever whenever and he wanted to be the family man

 

[Abaddon]

I guess for a lot of people the "grown up" thing to do is get married and make babies, but it's not for everyone.

 

[tzarinna]

I got that too from a former friend. He just had his second child, and considering him and his wife were scraping by as it is, he feels that God wants him to have a big family. Anyway I had told him I was going to Comic Con this year, which was something we had always talked about going to together. He responded "Must be nice to be able to waste money like that" we soon had a big falling out...basically because he is resentful that I can do whatever whenever and he wanted to be the family man

What is up with that?
I'm planning like three trips in my head right now. t:

 

[blind_fury]

I guess for a lot of people the "grown up" thing to do is get married and make babies, but it's not for everyone.

That's not a coincidence. The system encourages mindless breeding.

Like in the the movie "They Live".

Put on the glasses!!!

 

[guitarsingerguy]

Damn...ya'll are all making me feel bad for wanting children.

 

[BlackLantern]

I come from a big family. My grandparents had 8 kids. I am the oldest of 3 and have a lot of cousins. I'm all for family, but I'm not sure I could handle raising a human. I'm happy when I find my socks in the morning. It's a victory

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

I like kids, but I don't want them.

I don't want to go through childbirth. I'm selfish that way.

I want to adopt.

 

[Abaddon]

Damn...ya'll are all making me feel bad for wanting children.

I totally want to have kids for selfish reasons. I don't give a ****.

 

[Abaddon]

That's not a coincidence. The system encourages mindless breeding.

Like in the the movie "They Live".

Put on the glasses!!!

it's all for the $$$$$$$$$$

 

[Kritish]

How is not having children selfish? I’ve always considered it more selfish to be a slave to your “biological clock” when there’s millions of children out there to be adopted. Genes aren’t everything people. I don’t mean to sound sexist but women are a bigger part of the problem than men. Women are conditioned from childhood to want something to feed and cloth.