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Hazmat81 said:Hi im having a very hard time now. I'm a christian who told a girl in my youth group that i liked her this summer and asked her out. I got the "Let's stay friends" thing and was heart broken. I've tried hanging out with her since just to make things normal like they were before. She became a christian this summer and last week i guess she went to a party got drunk and lost her virginity and she is devistated. Ive talked to her and tried to go get coffee but she is to devistated i guess because she hasnt shown up. Im really heart broken over this and im trying to get some advice for this. Please be Kind! I dont really feel like getting mad at anyone today.
My advice is this: work slowly. It's great that you want to be there for her, and if she'll accept it, do try and console her, make her understand that everyone makes a mistake every now and then, just be nice and understanding. It may not get her romantically interested in you, but it's the right thing to do, and in time, she may hold that as something positive about you. Also remember that she may not be willing to discuss it in depth, so if the only way to do it is to pry, then don't. With personal issues, a lot of people aren't going to want to open for some time.