the only issues I saw were people who had jobs acting like spoiled kids while millions of Americans, some of whom have been out of work for 2+ years now are trying to figure out how to keep the lights on
what i've seen are contracts not being followed. In illinois for instance, contracts with the teachers unions were set up in a certain way, funding for their pensions were set up through a certain fund. after funding for judges pensions ran dry, the state grouped their pensions in with the existing fund for teachers, and attempting to bring huge cuts to teachers pension funding through legislation rather than through renegotiation.
what i've seen are people not operating in good faith. both corporations and the unions have gotten their hands dirty in this, but the demands of many unions are not that astounding or unacceptable and there are many instances of unions being flexible about things. Most of them realize that certain things are not sustainable, and that they have to accept changes or else the companies they work for will go under or move elsewhere.
There are unions that take things too far, or are completely inflexible, but I've also seen corporation trying to force massive cuts in wages and benefits in the name of saving the company but then giving huge increases in wages and bonuses to its executives.
Other times employers are simply dishonest, making any kind of rational negotiation impossible.
Take for instance the example of a certain midwestern Jesuit University. They force changes in the health insurance offered to its maintenance workers and in the universities contribution to it, with the workers required to pay 200 dollars extra every month. they offer no raises to possibly help offset some of these costs. for many families an extra 200 bucks a month is extremly hard to come by.
At the same time the president of this university puts out his anual letter to the students, declaring that the 11-12 school year will have a 10% in tuition and a 5% increase in housing. The reason cited for this increase in cost? Specifically, increased costs for maintence workers. (despite, once again, decreasing the universities contribution to health insurance costs)
All of this done despite the universities endowmant increasing by over $200,000,000 over the course of 3 years. And this is a Non-profit organization, whose motto is "being women and men for others." Do you really think for-profit organizations are really being all that more forthcoming or reasonable in their dealings with their workers?
Are the workers in these situations "acting like spoiled children" when they consider possibly going on strike? (they ended up not by the way, they ended up just eating the extra-cost for the sake of keeping their jobs)
Are any of these things really theirs by right? no.
should they just be thankful to have a job and any insurance? probably, but life is relative.
No matter how lucky these workers truly are in their own situations it doesn't change the matter that some of the employers' actions are certifiable d*ck moves.