How do you read a girl?

[lordofthenerds]

Alright, I have a situation here?

There's this girl. She got me to admit I liked her and all that and she said that I definitley have a shot with her. The only problem was is that she had a boyfriend. After some talking she told me that she doesn't like him and he's too clingy.

She said she wants to break up with him. Did my revelation prompt this? I have no idea. Well, she sends me a text saying that she broke up with him (with a smiley face on it.) Well, I misplaced my cell for two days. I find it and I reply that "I don't know what to say." She then tells me that "it's been one of the worst days ever!" I ask if there is anything she can do, but she says no.
So that was on Wednsday, so today I send her a text asking if she feels better. She said "yes" because "Jimmy (**** it his name is Jimmy) finally talked to me today after being mad at me." So know I have no idea what the **** is going on.

She's playing some weird chess game with me. I need to know how I can try to get the real scoop without making it seem obvious that I care. I want to come off like (you know) not really concerned.

Any suggestions?

"In chess the pawns go first"...that's all I got.

 

[Crooklyn]

Seriously, there's a good chance that she really does like him. Despite that, she IS still playing dumb games and I'm willing to bet a lot of it is to make her boyfriend jealous. Tangled Web just needs to make her understand that he's not gonna wait around while she tries to decide who she wants. It's not cool to play with people's feelings.

Then play the nonchalant attitude. It's the best way to cover your bases. I just think it's extremely stupid to just flat out tell her something like that on the chance that he's wrong.

 

[AndThePickles]

Then play the nonchalant attitude. It's the best way to cover your bases. I just think it's extremely stupid to just flat out tell her something like that on the chance that he's wrong.

I wish they weren't texting back and forth, this would be a much better thing to actually discuss by talking. I'm only trying to give the kid suggestions, it's up to him to do what he feels is best.

If anything, at least this will show her that what she's doing is making him feel played in case she doesn't realize what she's doing.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

That's a good idea. I shouldn't have to wait around. I'll just take it as it is. I really like her, but I can't put her on a pedastool.

hoooooo-kay, I'm going to say it just once because I've already said too many god-damned times.
everyone listening?

Good.

there is no such thing as a ****ing "pedastool" it's Pedestal.
the way you yahoos write it is not even phonetically correct

 

[Kritish]

hoooooo-kay, I'm going to say it just once because I've already said too many god-damned times.
everyone listening?

Good.

there is no such thing as a ****ing "pedastool" it's Pedestal.
the way you yahoos write it is not even phonetically correct

What can you expect from a twelve year old that lies about his age and life?

 

[terry78]

I keep reminding people that this joint is chock full of minors.

 

[Tangled Web]

Damn it I sent it to her and now she denies having feelings for me even though she made it pretty clear the other night.

 

[Master Chief]

lol, this is awesome stuff.

 

[Kritish]

Damn it I sent it to her and now she denies having feelings for me even though she made it pretty clear the other night.

Seriously, even if this is a true story why the hell are you looking for date advice on a message board with atleast a seventy percent virgin rate?

 

[AndThePickles]

Damn it I sent it to her and now she denies having feelings for me even though she made it pretty clear the other night.

Oy. Well, you've presented your side clearly from what you've told us. Now everything really IS up to her. I'd leave her alone. You've been honest and up front, so it's all on her now.

 

[Crooklyn]

Damn it I sent it to her and now she denies having feelings for me even though she made it pretty clear the other night.

What were her exact words? I need a good laugh.

 

[AndThePickles]

Seriously, even if this is a true story why the hell are you looking for date advice on a message board with atleast a seventy percent virgin rate?

Haha I'm trying to help the poor kid, having been a high school girl myself before. Dating in high school = the worst. I never had patience for high school boys and all these crazy games.

 

[Badger]

from left to right? I have nothing to offer, but good luck.

 

[Crooklyn]

Seriously, even if this is a true story why the hell are you looking for date advice on a message board with atleast a seventy percent virgin rate?

Last I checked this wasn't about having sex.

 

[Badger]

hoooooo-kay, I'm going to say it just once because I've already said too many god-damned times.
everyone listening?

Good.

there is no such thing as a ****ing "pedastool" it's Pedestal.
the way you yahoos write it is not even phonetically correct

t:

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

get over it man!

 

[Tangled Web]

get over it man!

...

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Feeling: Caught....and Dropped

 

[AndThePickles]

Seriously Tangled Web, if she really likes you, now that you've laid it all out for her, she'll do something about it. If she doesn't do anything......guess it just wasn't meant to be.

You're young and there are so many other girls out there. I know that's such a cliche, but it's true. I would try not to worry about it anymore. What happens, happens

 

[Tangled Web]

She's just an attention ****e. I'm not going to feed in to her need anymore. I'm not getting anything out of it.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

oh, if only someone would've told you to let it go.
I wish we could go back a day into the poast and someone would've just told to let it go and find another girl from the tons of girls that are out there.
oh well...not you fault I guess.

 

[AndThePickles]

I tried to get him to let it go while simultaneously ending the barrage of texting AND making him feel like he wasn't just giving up a good chance He's at that age where it's hard to just let go cold turkey because it's hard to understand that people to date are plentiful lol.

Haha who's fault is it then? He's gotta live and learn.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

I also told him to let it go, and pretty much told him she was playing a game with him.

YESTERDAY!!!!

damn you Tangled web, at this rate your dry-humping-girs-in-concerts days are over for a while!!!

 

[Tangled Web]

It's my own fault. I have no one to blame but myself, but you know. I'm fine with it. It's resolved. I still think that I'm going to end up with her in the near future though. It's bound to happen.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

It's my own fault. I have no one to blame but myself, but you know. I'm fine with it. It's resolved. I still think that I'm going to end up with her in the near future though. It's bound to happen.

Destiny :heart: