How do you

[tzarinna]

I worked with senior citizens and AIDS paitents for many years,it took it's toll on my spirit. It is why I changed careers

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

******io sounds like something died.

Alas, poor Yorrick. I knew him, ******io.

 

[Erzengel]

please enlighten me. Unless a girl has extremely bloody gums how exactly is she going to give a guy HIV during ******io?

 

[blind_fury]

http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/publicat/epiu-aepi/epi_update_may_04/13_e.html

jag

haha! this basically proves my point.

It says the chances of acquiring HIV through oral sex is low.

Translation: Bareback blowjobs forever!

 

[blind_fury]

This answers some but not all of my questions.

 

[tzarinna]

close thread

There are some really hot guys on my job,super sexy

But I am committed

 

[jaguarr]

haha! this basically proves my point.

It says the chances of acquiring HIV through oral sex is low.

Translation: Bareback blowjobs forever!

Perhaps you didn't fully read or comprehend the words in the link.

jag

 

[Sensi]

Just ask. And don't put out until they get tested. If they're clean, they'll get tested soon, and if they aren't, you know you won't sleep with them anyway.

great advice .just follow it

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Ask to play "Sex 21 Questions". It's fun and it gets everything out on the table. And yes, I'm serious.

 

[Warhammer]

You should bring it up calmly like it is nothing serious.
Say "Baby, have you ever had sex with anyone before me?" or "When was your first time?"

...Or go commando, be raunchy, and ask "So has there been anyone who you had sex with who was better than me?......be honest."

 

[Colossal Spoons]

^That sounds way too "confrontational". The 21 Questions thing works and it's fun as hell. I even play it with people I'm not interested in.

 

[Warhammer]

^That sounds way too "confrontational". The 21 Questions thing works and it's fun as hell. I even play it with people I'm not interested in.

21 questions?

Thats not a bad idea.

 

[enterthemadness]

ask someone you're dating about their sexual history


It's one of the things I myself I'm not afraid to bring up when dating someone. I want to know everything and if I can get you to get tested,score

But ,I've come across a lot of men that just don't want to talk about STDs and AIDS,as if they're immune

I just look the woman in the eye...and say these words ''Have you ever had any STD's. Do you have HIV? AIDS? straight forward is the way to go...

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Definately try it. If the lady you fancy is up for it, play the game with a group of other coupes.

 

[Warhammer]

I just look the woman in the eye...and say these words ''Have you ever had any STD's. Do you have HIV? AIDS? straight forward is the way to go...

Before you have sex with anybody, you should go get tested.
Thats the safest way, and better safe than sorry.

 

[Super Mark]

But I'm celibate. So I won't be asking any time soon

Oh, thank God, girl, you had me nervous there for a second. I thought there was a comic book geek out there actually getting laid. Pheww!

I think it's ok today, when you reach a certain level of intimacy (kissing, touching) to, at some point ask if they've been tested. You can even make a little joke out of it: "...not that I'm promising anything!"

If they don't want to talk about it, they're not mature enough to have sex. Throw them back and find a real man.

Besides, even if they say they've been tested, you need to have safe sex to start out with. If you're in a long-term, monogomous relationship, you can start "going bareback", and getting a little freakier! Isn't love grand?

Love,
Dr. Ruth. I mean, Super Mark.

 

[Super Mark]

By the way,

no, you probably won't get HIV from getting a B.J.

You may, however, give it to the girl.

Be considerate and safe, please.

 

[enterthemadness]

Before you have sex with anybody, you should go get tested.
Thats the safest way, and better safe than sorry.

I'm a virgin...

 

[Warhammer]

...Abstinance is always the best way not to have STD's, HIV/AIDS, or a baby.
But when you do, get tested. If your girl isn't alright with it, push her to do it or leave it alone.

 

[enterthemadness]

...Abstinance is always the best way not to have STD's, HIV/AIDS, or a baby.
But when you do, get tested. If your girl isn't alright with it, push her to do it or leave it alone.

....whatever.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

^ Why the "whatever"? That was some sound advise.

 

[Warhammer]

...yeah, what was with the whatever?
I hope you want to have sex without having Herpes to remember it with.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

As cool of a story it would be to lose your virginity in a freaknasty orgy in Amsterdam; it'd destroy the ol' "cash and prizes".

 

[enterthemadness]

I'm not going to check for any STD's after everytime I have sex. I rather stick with my hand...and I need to stop that...that's a cause of carpal tunnel.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Pros and Cons to both your hand and the ladies. Don't favor one over the other