Should I ask out my ex?

DorkyFresh said:
take this how you will....but i always say...



...there's a reason she's your ex and not your girl.


but seriously, if whatever problem(s) that prevented you 2 from being a happy couple is still a problem...then you don't need to be getting back up with her.
wow man....that's deep
 
ang_hulk said:
do it! DO IT! mabey she was a secret dominatrix and would have ratherd you be on your knees before touching her.Alot can happen in a year and im sure shes wanked a stream to you so go for it,quite girls eventully explode and if your there you better have condoms and gatorade or somthing to keep up.Same goes if shes a dom because leather makes you sweat.

This should be framed, or something to that effect. :dew:
 
kainedamo said:
No. There was no sex at all.
Wait...

This was the relationship you were talking about earlier this year?

I distincly remember you saying you consumated that relationship.

This is like GAH, the truth comes out.
 
Erzengel said:
Wait...

This was the relationship you were talking about earlier this year?

I distincly remember you saying you consumated that relationship.

This is like GAH, the truth comes out.

???

You are mistaken, sir. I'm not sure which relationship to which you are referring. I have only had sex once, and that was when I was 18.
 
yes.
sex with an ex is always good because you both already know what eachother likes.:o
 
kainedamo said:
???

You are mistaken, sir. I'm not sure which relationship to which you are referring. I have only had sex once, and that was when I was 18.

I'll update my files accordingly.
 
heypapajinx said:
yes.
sex with an ex is always good because you both already know what eachother likes.:o
not if they have never had sex...
 
True. But Some people just aren't ready or willing.
 
Sounds like you only want to get back with her because she's very pretty, has a great ass, and you never got to tap it the first time. :down:
 
Wilhelm-Scream said:
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LOL.
 
AndThePickles said:
Sounds like you only want to get back with her because she's very pretty, has a great ass, and you never got to tap it the first time. :down:
does sound like that, doesn't it?
if those are your motives, i can't really approve
 
Great ass. Mmhh. Thats hard to resist, but a Jedi must resist the tempta...what the hell? Sorry, I went Obi Wan. :woot:
 
BlackHardKnight said:
You're single...admitted:o



Im not single,its been a year and 5 months on the 14th.I lover.Keep in mind shes still gets scared somtimes but my being a chef and a competitive eater keeps my tounge in good shape for when she needs to blow off/out some steam.I speak from experince in all that I say and I have power bars around at all times.


Seriously though,Take my advice,whats the worst that can happen? She walks out,you do the skag bit and she ends up coming back feeling bad and shell be yours for the taking just make sure you act like it and dont comfort her or somthin,your supposed to be the one who was hurt not her.And if it goes right reverse what I just said or mabey mix it up a bit.
 
Syn (Mercenary) said:
Great ass. Mmhh. Thats hard to resist, but a Jedi must resist the tempta...what the hell? Sorry, I went Obi Wan. :woot:

It totally doesn't matter that she has a great ass though, because he's already said their problem in the past was that she wouldn't let him touch it.
 
AndThePickles said:
It totally doesn't matter that she has a great ass though, because he's already said their problem in the past was that she wouldn't let him touch it.
No, I know. I was talking about it pages ago. But like I said, relationships are like a chair. You can't make just 1 leg and expect it to stand.
 
kainedamo said:
So when I worked in the cinema... two years ago or so, I met a girl called Rachel who started working there. She had a great ass, a good sense of humour, it was really easy to talk to her. She wore her hair in pigtails while at work, which was hot. I discovered that we had a fair bit in common.

About a month after she joined, she was gonna be leaving the job. So I casually asked if she wanted to hang out after she left and she agreed. We went to watch The Punisher and had a great time. The next day we met for lunch and kissed. We then dated for about 8 months or so. So it ended around... May last year.

It didn't end dramatically in a big ugly fight. It just sort of... waned off. You know when you first start dating someone, there is all of that excitment. And if you like the person, you think about them alot, you can't wait to see them again. So it was great for the first month. But more and more gradually, I became less and less interested. We were doing the same things all the time. We went to the cinema ALL the time and it was beginning to bore me. Little things about her started to bug me. She's very sort of... innocent. Seriously, this girl has never done anything to be ashamed of in her entire life. Nothing! No skeletons in the closet at all. While that's nice and all, she has this super happy and positive view on everything. There is no excitement or danger. Just the same thing all the time... holding hands, kissing. Plus she's a Christian.

I never felt comfortable bringing up the topic of sex. She made me feel guilty about sex, really. Eight months of dating, and the few times when my hands would wander she'd tell me off and clam up. In month two, I thought... fair enough. She's not ready for that stuff. I'm an ******* for doing it. But eight months in?? I'm not talking about full blown sex. Just groping. It made her feel uncomfortable, and it made me feel crap about myself. I began to think I shouldn't be made to feel that way. So after awhile, the lack of any sexual contact or even discussion about sex, plus her girly/overly positive attitude made me feel... like I was dating my younger sister that I never had. If you know what I mean.

I could tell, later in the relationship, she wasn't as enthusiastic anymore about the relationship either. We still had fun together. We'd go out, have dinner, talk for a long time and have a laugh. But it was more like a good friendship than a good boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. And I wasn't in love with her. Early in the relationship, I was silly enough to think maybe I was but that faded. Vicki came along. And I began thinking, yeah, if I'm having feelings like this for another girl I shouldn't be in this relationship.

So I broke it off. I met up with Rachel and said to her "this isn't easy to say, but I don't think this relationship is going anywhere. We have a great time, but it's more like I'm dating a best friend, I don't think we're suited as boyfriend and girlfriend". She said she felt the same way, and would have broke it off herself sooner or later for the exact same reasons.

So here I am. Over a year later. Rachel and I are still friends and hang out fairly often. Sometimes, I think to myself, I can't talk to Rachel as freely as I can with other people because she has this super innocent view of things. Sometimes she says "aww" or something girly and it bugs me. But it's refreshing. She's never depressed, whereas everyone else I know has their bouts of "woe is me". She's very affectionate, which I liked alot when dating her. She's very caring. She's also very pretty and has a great ass. We have a fair bit in common and I enjoy lending her stuff to watch so we can talk about it. When I go out with her, I look at her and think she looks very pretty, and hot, and I sorta miss dating her. But would the old problems just creep up again? Would it just feel like I'm dating a relative again? Am I being selfish because I'm lonely and just want someone, or do I genuinely care for her and want to date her again? Should I bring it up with her?


Here's my adive: Listen to this song. If it honestly makes you think of her in any substantial way, then go for it. However, it just sounds like you want a girlfriend for the sake of not being alone.
 
I prefer Ewan McGregor's version to Elton John but I think it's cause Obi-Wan could kick his ass. :up:
 
Erzengel said:
I prefer Ewan McGregor's version to Elton John but I think it's cause Obi-Wan could kick his ass. :up:

I just chose that one because I was listening to it at the time. I personally think both versions are equally good in their own way, but Ewan's has a certain level of grandois that, in some situations, is more apealing.


Also, Elton John would kick Obi Wan's ass all the way down to Chinatown. :o
 
kainedamo said:
So when I worked in the cinema... two years ago or so, I met a girl called Rachel who started working there. She had a great ass, a good sense of humour, it was really easy to talk to her. She wore her hair in pigtails while at work, which was hot. I discovered that we had a fair bit in common.

About a month after she joined, she was gonna be leaving the job. So I casually asked if she wanted to hang out after she left and she agreed. We went to watch The Punisher and had a great time. The next day we met for lunch and kissed. We then dated for about 8 months or so. So it ended around... May last year.

It didn't end dramatically in a big ugly fight. It just sort of... waned off. You know when you first start dating someone, there is all of that excitment. And if you like the person, you think about them alot, you can't wait to see them again. So it was great for the first month. But more and more gradually, I became less and less interested. We were doing the same things all the time. We went to the cinema ALL the time and it was beginning to bore me. Little things about her started to bug me. She's very sort of... innocent. Seriously, this girl has never done anything to be ashamed of in her entire life. Nothing! No skeletons in the closet at all. While that's nice and all, she has this super happy and positive view on everything. There is no excitement or danger. Just the same thing all the time... holding hands, kissing. Plus she's a Christian.

I never felt comfortable bringing up the topic of sex. She made me feel guilty about sex, really. Eight months of dating, and the few times when my hands would wander she'd tell me off and clam up. In month two, I thought... fair enough. She's not ready for that stuff. I'm an ******* for doing it. But eight months in?? I'm not talking about full blown sex. Just groping. It made her feel uncomfortable, and it made me feel crap about myself. I began to think I shouldn't be made to feel that way. So after awhile, the lack of any sexual contact or even discussion about sex, plus her girly/overly positive attitude made me feel... like I was dating my younger sister that I never had. If you know what I mean.

I could tell, later in the relationship, she wasn't as enthusiastic anymore about the relationship either. We still had fun together. We'd go out, have dinner, talk for a long time and have a laugh. But it was more like a good friendship than a good boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. And I wasn't in love with her. Early in the relationship, I was silly enough to think maybe I was but that faded. Vicki came along. And I began thinking, yeah, if I'm having feelings like this for another girl I shouldn't be in this relationship.

So I broke it off. I met up with Rachel and said to her "this isn't easy to say, but I don't think this relationship is going anywhere. We have a great time, but it's more like I'm dating a best friend, I don't think we're suited as boyfriend and girlfriend". She said she felt the same way, and would have broke it off herself sooner or later for the exact same reasons.

So here I am. Over a year later. Rachel and I are still friends and hang out fairly often. Sometimes, I think to myself, I can't talk to Rachel as freely as I can with other people because she has this super innocent view of things. Sometimes she says "aww" or something girly and it bugs me. But it's refreshing. She's never depressed, whereas everyone else I know has their bouts of "woe is me". She's very affectionate, which I liked alot when dating her. She's very caring. She's also very pretty and has a great ass. We have a fair bit in common and I enjoy lending her stuff to watch so we can talk about it. When I go out with her, I look at her and think she looks very pretty, and hot, and I sorta miss dating her. But would the old problems just creep up again? Would it just feel like I'm dating a relative again? Am I being selfish because I'm lonely and just want someone, or do I genuinely care for her and want to date her again? Should I bring it up with her?

You're asking the wrong people for advice you me are some of the few people that probably have girlfriends. If you want romance advice go to another board.
 
Please, he'd knock that hair piece off his head.
 
Kritish said:
You're asking the wrong people for advice you me are some of the few people that probably have girlfriends. If you want romance advice go to another board.

Actually if you read his post, he doesn't. He's looking to rekindle a relationship with an ex but only because he's lonely.

Secondly, a lot of people here have so. I think I did a poll about it.
 
Erzengel said:
Actually if you read his post, he doesn't. He's looking to rekindle a relationship with an ex but only because he's lonely.

Secondly, a lot of people here have so. I think I did a poll about it.

50% of the hypes members are virgins.

30% of "the tainted" here paid for it.

20% got theirs fair and square.
 

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