If you buy a girl a drink, aren't you supposed to at least get a dance out of it?

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Like, seriously. And no, I'm not talking about a lap dance. I'm talking about out on the dance floor, shaking your booty to Juvenile.

What the freaking hell?

 

[Halcohol]

Depends. If "Can I buy you a drink?" was the high point of your game, then no, she didn't have to dance with you.

 

[Red Cherry Lips]

Like, seriously. And no, I'm not talking about a lap dance. I'm talking about out on the dance floor, shaking your booty to Juvenile.

What the freaking hell?

Sorry Nell. If someone is going to offer it's without any expectations in return.

Make sure there's a solid connection before the drink buying to ensure a dance or anything else that may occur.

 

[Neto Magnus]

Like, seriously. And no, I'm not talking about a lap dance. I'm talking about out on the dance floor, shaking your booty to Juvenile.

What the freaking hell?

Did you at least ask the girl to dance or did u think a dance was implied?

 

[Johann Krauss]

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Did you at least ask the girl to dance or did u think a dance was implied?

It's a girl I somewhat know from work. I saw her, she gave me a big hug, told me it was her birthday, and I offered to buy her a drink. She grabbed me and led me to the bar, ordered the drinks, we drank, and when I later asked her if she wanted to dance, she said no and walked away.

Wasn't even (really) trying to hit on her. Just saw someone I knew and was looking to have some fun.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Trust me, if you think this is funny, I got LOTS more where that came from.

 

[Neto Magnus]

It's a girl I somewhat know from work. I saw her, she gave me a big hug, told me it was her birthday, and I offered to buy her a drink. She grabbed me and led me to the bar, ordered the drinks, we drank, and when I later asked her if she wanted to dance, she said no and walked away.

Wasn't even (really) trying to hit on her. Just saw someone I knew and was looking to have some fun.

then i have one word for you: Rohypnol

btw after she said no did u later see her dance with someone else?

 

[Ahura Mazda]

Let me say if buying a drink guaranteed a dance, I would be a professional dancer by now. It gurantees nothing and is not meant to. What guarantees a dance is your charm and at the end of the day your ability to seduce her.

 

[Johann Krauss]

then i have one word for you: Rohypnol

btw after she said no did u later see her dance with someone else?

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

then i have one word for you: Rohypnol

btw after she said no did u later see her dance with someone else?

teehee.

And yes.



I aer teh suxx0rz

 

[Majic Walrus]

Like, seriously. And no, I'm not talking about a lap dance. I'm talking about out on the dance floor, shaking your booty to Juvenile.

What the freaking hell?

:facepalm

Absolutely not. If it were that easy we would all be in night clubs every evening instead of on the Hype!. You're supposed to use your rugged good looks, your endearing charm and your stunning wit. Unless you're not Hugh Grant in a movie. In which case I always advise the upfront approach.

"Lookit, let's dance." works or if you're really going for the gold medal, "Lookit, let's bone until we pass out."

Good luck!

 

[Matt]

No. Especially on her birthday. You don't give someone a birthday drink/gift with the expectation of them grinding their ass on you.

 

[Ace of Knaves]

You should of asked her first

"So if I buy you this drink, on your birthday, will you come to the dance floor and grind your arse on me while I stand there and grind into you? If not, then **** OFF YOU CHEEKY COW!"

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

I usually would only accept a drink from a man if I was sitting right there at the bar watching the bartender make it. And yes, if the guy is hot enough I would dance with him, but I'm not a very good dancer.

 

[Tyrinus]

Should have said.

"Your birthday party is in my pants, how about you come blow out the candle?"

 

[November Rain]

Nope, definitely not on her birthday

a birthday drink is a birthday drink.

surely it's the other way though, you meet someone on the dancefloor and you offer them a drink and then walk off to 'talk'.

meh it's all about getting drinks bought for ya.

 

[Ace of Knaves]

What you need to do is make it look like you are actually interested in the girl, not buy her a drink JUST to get a dance. Girls can see it a mile off. But saying that, some girls, where i'm from anyway, just love a bit of bumping and grinding with any old stranger. I remember when i was dancing with my girlfriend once and some girl was dancing behind me purposely rubbing her arse and...errr...other lady areas on my arse!

 

[AndThePickles]

No. Especially on her birthday. You don't give someone a birthday drink/gift with the expectation of them grinding their ass on you.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Don't buy women drinks at bars UNTIL you're pretty sure you're "in it to win it" if you know what I mean. The drink can't be the ice-breaker b/c most of the time, she will take your drink and run off.

 

[AndThePickles]

Don't buy women drinks at bars UNTIL you're pretty sure you're "in it to win it" if you know what I mean. The drink can't be the ice-breaker b/c most of the time, she will take your drink and run off.

Exactly. We women are so used to sleazy men at bars that now a lot of girls have started just enjoying being able to get some free drinks. And unless the guy specifically says anything other than "can I buy you a drink?", it's presumptuous to assume more on his part.

 

[Ahura Mazda]

I often just buy a bottle and get a table and then somehow you see women come to you. Of course, I do not go there by myself. Getting someone a drink is not a gift or anything meaningful, it is little more then a courtesy.

 

[November Rain]

Do you drink Ahura?

 

[Immortalfire]

I wonder if buying her a drink can get you a high five...?

 

[Ahura Mazda]

Red Wine mostly but I do like certain alcohols like Cognac. I however do not drink to excess nor everyday. I hate being drunk.

In Nightclubs, I would always have a bottle of vodka or whisky and sometimes occassionally champagne at the table which comes with juices, soft drinks and ice.