Is it normal?

[enterthemadness]

Yeah probually so. Its a good topic, to be honest I would feel scared discussing this outside of my few friends or the HYPSTERS. Cause there bound to be someone like this as well out there. I am not alone.

I mean I have a few beautiful ladies that are great friends to me, adn we have been great friends for over a few years each. Nothing would happen between us, it would be weird if it did. Plus they know my mental history and it wouldnt work because of it.

Well, it's better to at least have some attractive female friends than none at all.

I have none, but am working on it.

 

[enterthemadness]

Frankly, it's not too normal. I think teenage romances are important because they teach you how to really communicate and get imtimate with the opposite sex. It prepares you for the long life of romantic exploits ahead. The way I see it, if you're 20 and havent been kissed or dated, you're behind and missing out on one of the greatest aspects of life.

Get in the game, bro.

Trying to, but it's not that easy, bro.

 

[teh Puffy]

The guy before you. Man just being around teenagers your own age is good enough to be in a social life. You dont need to go explore a persons body to communicate with them. I am just fine communicating with people. ITs just as I said above man. I dont think it would be fair to put a burden on a woman cause I have problems.

Madness go to a concert. Any it doesnt matter pop shows like PARAMORE, or HArd Rock shows. Go stand in the middle of the floor for when the pits pick up, throw yourself around and coup a feel every once inawhile. Or talk to them and say sorry, you didnt mean that. You just kept getting thrown around. It works as easy as that. I cant tell you how many times I have been flung from one end to another end of a pit, and just trying to stand up in doing so my hands go looking for balance, and bam its on some chicks breast. She feels weird about it, but hey shes just standing there not moving. So apologize and start talking.

 

[Captain_BluTac]

okay ETM you need to thing a **** and a lot of alchohol

 

[The Shape]

Trying to, but it's not that easy, bro.

It's all a matter of how you put yourself out there. I don't know much about you (as in if you're looking to meet new people or start something with someone you've known, or where you are at this point in life), but get out there.

You can't be afraid to get something going or it will never happen for you. And of course, it's going to be harder not having any experience, but you can't let that phase you. Look for a girl you can see yourself getting along with, whether it be a girl you just bet or someone you've know, start up some conversations, get her digits, hang out.

 

[The Shape]

The guy before you. Man just being around teenagers your own age is good enough to be in a social life. You dont need to go explore a persons body to communicate with them. I am just fine communicating with people.

I meant communication and intamicy, as in getting to know a girl. Not necessarily sexual action.

 

[enterthemadness]

The guy before you. Man just being around teenagers your own age is good enough to be in a social life. You dont need to go explore a persons body to communicate with them. I am just fine communicating with people. ITs just as I said above man. I dont think it would be fair to put a burden on a woman cause I have problems.

Madness go to a concert. Any it doesnt matter pop shows like PARAMORE, or HArd Rock shows. Go stand in the middle of the floor for when the pits pick up, throw yourself around and coup a feel every once inawhile. Or talk to them and say sorry, you didnt mean that. You just kept getting thrown around. It works as easy as that. I cant tell you how many times I have been flung from one end to another end of a pit, and just trying to stand up in doing so my hands go looking for balance, and bam its on some chicks breast. She feels weird about it, but hey shes just standing there not moving. So apologize and start talking.

Don't have a car, and not really big on concerts.

okay ETM you need to thing a **** and a lot of alchohol

Thing a **** and a lot of alchohol? Makes no sense.

 

[teh Puffy]

I meant communication and intamicy, as in getting to know a girl. Not necessarily sexual action.

Yeah I know, but you know teh percentage of high school teenagers who are sexually active, so its not all communications.

 

[The Shape]

Yeah I know, but you know teh percentage of high school teenagers who are sexually active, so its not all communications.

True, but although sexual activity among teens is often frowned upon, it's natural and a part of life.

 

[teh Puffy]

Go to warped tour this summer. You and a few friends dress nice and cool. Run around the show all day for 12 hours. Enjoy music video games batting cages, sledge hammer contests. wresting, skating events a freak show. Go hang out, put out the vibe get to know a band and help them out, do that score a little actions. or go to a pit watch some chick go wild and become dehydrated, offer to buy her a drink and walk her to the stands. Your in its simple. Nothing more than that.

 

[teh Puffy]

True, but although sexual activity among teens is often frowned upon, it's natural and a part of life.

true, but its something that should be looked into with at least a tad bit grain of salt. Not just everyone loves to just screw around, and thats how life is. You know how many people frown upon those who dont think life is just about sex. Its disgusting to me.

 

[oakzap425]

Check and check but even I have gone further with girls and I'm gay








sort of

 

[enterthemadness]

Sort of? You are either straight, gay, or bi, not sort of.

 

[Captain_BluTac]

Sort of? You are either straight, gay, or bi, not sort of.

not true and I am complicated

 

[enterthemadness]

not true and I am complicated

< the smile says it all right now.

 

[teh Puffy]

not true and I am complicated

True dat, I think some male celebs are wow. BALE cough cough cough. but I couldnt see myself with a normal dude. Cause I am so passionate and nice to women. I love women. I cant stand ******* guys.

 

[Hudson]

To be 20 years old and never been kissed or in a relationship?

Just curious...and bored.

Not normal per se, but you're not the only one in the group. Could be worse.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

To be 20 years old and never been kissed or in a relationship?

Just curious...and bored.

Normal. Well I guess if you define normal by everyone else, then no, it's not normal. The worst thing you can do though is put that kind of pressure on yourself. If you make it about being normal, then ultimately you aren't going to get any further than where you are now...which isn't anywhere to be honest.

As long as you get out there and do stuff in an environment where people your age are trying to be socially active you'll get somewhere. Complaining about it, or trying to rationalize your current situation is going to get you nowhere fast.

 

[Hudson]

Normal. Well I guess if you define normal by everyone else, then no, it's not normal. The worst thing you can do though is put that kind of pressure on yourself. If you make it about being normal, then ultimately you aren't going to get any further than where you are now...which isn't anywhere to be honest.

As long as you get out there and do stuff in an environment where people your age are trying to be socially active you'll get somewhere. Complaining about it, or trying to rationalize your current situation is going to get you nowhere fast.

Excellent, advice, become pro-active, and it will happen, at least at some point, nothing happens quickly, take chances.

 

[BatMatt]

women are objects, so why be afraid?
you wouldn't be afraid of a desk would you?

 

[terry78]

If it's getting to the point where it's driving you crazy, then no, that would not be normalcy. The things that we're "supposed" to do by a certain age are just some unwritten rules that really aren't set in stone, but that's how people are in society.

 

[Enriquespy]

Same case 21 yrs old.





So it may not be normal, but is a big part of the stadistics here in the hype :S

 

[AndThePickles]

Honestly ETM, it's definitely NOT normal. You've already missed some crucial years of dating time and sexual experiences. It will only become harder as you get older because you'll just get more nervous. Dating, even just casually, is a crucial part of development as a social human being.

 

[Symbiotic]

I'm 18, been in relationships, but no kissing yet.

 

[AndThePickles]

I'm 18, been in relationships, but no kissing yet.

Define relationship