Is it too much to ask...

[Ahura Mazda]

Well lets see I like comic books and Star Trek. I do get dates from very good looking women so I must have some charm eventhough I will not dare to judge my own looks. I like skiing, tennis and golf and am not totally useless when it comes to my professional life.

But I live across the ocean and therefore I doubt it would be a viable option

 

[SpideyInATree]

I mean there's got to be guys like that out there going "man, if I could only find a nice girl who likes superheroes and star trek."

Oh, that's me, that's me...raises hand. It'll be a really extra bonus if you didn't have any mental problems...I have a habit of attracting women with mental problems.

 

[Halcohol]

You know, I've been thinking about this lately. It's probably got a good deal to do with the social stigma associated with both superheroes and Star Trek. It's not something you can really talk about with anyone, in fact I hide the fact that I enjoy watching it.

I've spent all weekend watching season 2 of Enterprise, and it's given me a new appreciation for these shows. I still keep the volume turned down so that nobody outside of my apartment can hear it.

I remember discovering one of my close friends was a Trekkie a few years ago, when Nemesis came out. That was kinda liberating, discovering someone you know watches it and is just as big a fan as you are.

It ties into one of the main themes of Star Trek: that we as humans pride ourselves on our individuality, yet we crave community.

Onto season 3...

 

[Ahura Mazda]

More seriously, I almost feel like my like of comics and star trek is a skeleton in the closet and when I have GF over my comics and such are hidden

It is kind of sad that the only community I have found to talk about such things are with absolute strangers with which the likelyhood I will ever meet is quite remote.

 

[Darren Daring]

Even More seriously,let's ged an Erz breeding program started, so that my daughter may copulate with a man that is Half Erz

 

[huskerwebhead]

Wolf 359 or something like that. The two part episode when Picard is assimilated. It ruled.

Just in case nobody has said it yet, that was Actually "Best of Both Worlds, Parts I & II."

Great eps of course...one of my favs was The Defector. The Romulan who tries to defect to the Federation. The Klingon cruisers decloaking at the end was great.

 

[Kaboom]

all my comics are in boxes in my closet. my posters came down long ago. some people just dont understand.

 

[Ahura Mazda]

Just in case nobody has said it yet, that was Actually "Best of Both Worlds, Parts I & II."

That was a great season ending and beginning.

One of my favorite episodes was when you had that Universe travelling alien who took the Enterprise into the depths of the Universe. He was freinds with Westley.

I also enjoyed some of the Q episodes.

 

[Erzengel]

Even More seriously,let's ged an Erz breeding program started, so that my daughter may copulate with a man that is Half Erz

I'm going as fast as I can.

 

[Hades]

Is it really so much to ask for a girl as psychotic as me?

 

[Erzengel]

Is it really so much to ask for a girl as psychotic as me?

Here ya go.

Click here.

 

[guitarsingerguy]

I'm going as fast as I can.

Well, it's pretty apparent YOU don't need my webdating help. Jeez, I'm jealous.

 

[Hades]

Here ya go.

Click here.

Oh erz
XoXoXoXo

I found a girl like me once, but she kind of freaked me out.

Plus she kept lying to me

She's been insitutionalized around 4 times.

 

[Erzengel]

Great thing about that site is they tell you when they are getting out but not why they are in there so it's like a Cracker Jack Prize.

 

[Fried Gold]

...to meet a nice, smart, good looking guy who has a thing for winter sports, mountain biking, music and is secure in his love of superheroes and star trek?

I mean there's got to be guys like that out there going "man, if I could only find a nice girl who likes superheroes and star trek."

I think I just want to find someone I can be dorky with and I'm worried that it won't happen just the way I want it to.

Is it too much to find a girl who isn't obsessed with trivial likes and dislikes and instead takes a liking to a member of the opposite sex based on what they are like as human beings?

 

[Cmill216]

Here ya go.

Click here.

Esther is a cutie.

 

[Erzengel]

It's not trivial though.

Finding someone not only who you like as a person but share a few interests makes a relationship easier.

 

[Erzengel]

Esther is a cutie.

She gets out next month. Start writing now.

 

[Hades]

To be honest, I don't think I'll ever find anybody who could love me.

I mean who could

I'm a horrible, horrible, deranged, walking talking piece of crap.
I leave trails of feces everywhere, and I can't talk without vomiting.

 

[Cmill216]

She gets out next month. Start writing now.

Do you want mail from both sexes: yes
Education: G.E.D.
Occupation before prison: Exotic Dancer

That's wifey material.

 

[kainedamo]

...to meet a nice, smart, good looking guy who has a thing for winter sports, mountain biking, music and is secure in his love of superheroes and star trek?

I mean there's got to be guys like that out there going "man, if I could only find a nice girl who likes superheroes and star trek."

I think I just want to find someone I can be dorky with and I'm worried that it won't happen just the way I want it to.

I think there are lots. I'm one. I'm constantly frustrated by the fact that it's pretty much impossible to find a girl with my interests in this country.

And when I finally found a girl with similar interests, she was terribly insecure and shy. Not just shy... but she snapped at me for no reason at all. On our first date! She was very strange.

So yeah... I wanna know where the NICE girls are that like superheroes, star trek, and good movies and all that stuff. She has to be nice and have at least SOME confidence in social activity.

 

[Fried Gold]

It's not trivial though.

Yes, it is. She's using specifics as criteria for her 'perfect man' which, no matter how you look at it, is always going to end in disappointment.

 

[kainedamo]

Historically it's either been this or that kind of. I'll meet a guy who seems fantastic, loves being outside, kids etc... but then can't really relate to me on that dork level. At all. Or the exact opposite.

Isn't there a happy medium out there?

That's the problem I described above. I finally met a girl with all my dorky interests... but she clearly never gets outside and has very little social interaction.

 

[Erzengel]

Yes, it is. She's using specifics as criteria for her 'perfect man' which, no matter how you look at it, is always going to end in disappointment.

I'm not saying 2 people with litterally nothing in common can't make it work. I'm just saying it's a lot easier when you share some of the same interests.

 

[kainedamo]

She made it clear pages ago she wants a guy that isn't repulsed by her interest in Star Trek. That's not too much to ask.

It definately, definately helps to have similar interests. I couldn't date a girl that doesn't appreciate good films, books, music, etc. I'm not saying she has to be a female Quinten Tarrinteno or something. I just ask that she has good taste.

I know how Babs feels. But I think it's far, far easier for girls to get guys than it is for guys to get girls. All a girl has to do is go to a club dressed nice, and she'll be asked out by like 5 guys before the night is over. Or she could go to the comic book store. Though i've heard from girls before that guys act weird towards them in comic book stores, and give them a "are you sure you're in the right place" kind of attitude.