Is this a double standard?

[Jolie_Desastre]

The only thing is, we don't care when girls grab our body parts, whether in public or not. Tit for tat(no pun intended) doesn't really play out as far as the genders go.

he seemed to care. p***y

 

[7Hells]

he seemed to care. p***y

Nah, he seemed to care about touching your boob not about you touching his.

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

Nah, he seemed to care about touching your boob not about you touching his.

half and half. cause nearly every hetero guy loves boobs. except for like 5 people on these boards

 

[JLBats]

half and half. cause nearly every hetero guy loves boobs. except for like 5 people on these boards

Yeah, boobs are pretty cool.

 

[jaguarr]

lol.



I can't. It'll ruin the sexy.

Didn't stop JLBats. You lose this round!

jag

 

[jaguarr]

The only thing is, we don't care when girls grab our body parts, whether in public or not.

Depends on where and how HARD they grab, actually. And if they look like this lady, then yeah....I'm gonna kinda mind:

jag

 

[Lackey]

alright so it started at lunch. I was talking to a friend i had in my class last year and we were talking about the stupidest stuff he and some other guys did. like they took this black paper clip and cliped on to their lips, ears, and then i mentioned when he but it on his pec. Doing this i nudged his pec. so later that day he meets me at my locker and before i leave he nudges my boob and goes, "yeah now we are even." or something like that. and i was like hey dude you can't do that. ( i wasn't totally pissed, i would if he was a total stranger). so did i just double standard the guy?

Truth is, you were right for getting mad... you couldn't just let him get away with that. You touched his pec., you turned him on by doing that...and from that point on he was scheming on how he could get away with "returning the favor"
It was his chance to touch your boob and he wasn't going to let the opportunity pass by.
Also, there's no such thing as "just friends" ...this guy likes you, or at least wants to get into your pants.

 

[Imagination_13]

Didn't stop JLBats. You lose this round!

jag

I lose every round.

 

[JLBats]

Didn't stop JLBats. You lose this round!

jag

Hell, I'll put on helmets. I'll put on a tutu if it'll make you happy

Hot!

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

Truth is, you were right for getting mad... you couldn't just let him get away with that. You touched his pec., you turned him on by doing that...and from that point on he was scheming on how he could get away with "returning the favor"
It was his chance to touch your boob and he wasn't going to let the opportunity pass by.
Also, there's no such thing as "just friends" ...this guy likes you, or at least wants to get into your pants.

then that means all my guy friends want to....

i have no friends

 

[Lackey]

then that means all my guy friends want to....

i have no friends

you don't have any female friends?

 

[Mr Sparkle]

Yeah, boobs are pretty cool.

just

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

you don't have any female friends?

i do but they feel me up too.

 

[Lackey]

Depends on where and how HARD they grab, actually. And if they look like this lady, then yeah....I'm gonna kinda mind:

jag

I'd hit it.

 

[JLBats]

i do but they feel me up too.

...good start to the story.

Go on.

 

[jaguarr]

I'd hit it.

She'd hit YOU.

jag

 

[Erzengel]

Show me on the doll where he touched you Jolie.

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

Show me on the doll where he touched you Jolie.

{points to the chest} there

angel: oh come on i've got a fricken halo!

 

[Spider-Bite]

alright so it started at lunch. I was talking to a friend i had in my class last year and we were talking about the stupidest stuff he and some other guys did. like they took this black paper clip and cliped on to their lips, ears, and then i mentioned when he but it on his pec. Doing this i nudged his pec. so later that day he meets me at my locker and before i leave he nudges my boob and goes, "yeah now we are even." or something like that. and i was like hey dude you can't do that. ( i wasn't totally pissed, i would if he was a total stranger). so did i just double standard the guy?

chances are this guy thought about it in class and was like "hey I can get a feel if I do this and if I say that, I can make it look like I'm just kidding around and she can't get mad about it, because she did it to me" when you did it to him, it wasn't for sexual gratification, when he did it, it was for sexual gratification. no you did not double standard him.

basically the guy was being a perv. but he's just a kid. It doesn't mean he's gonna grow up to be some rapist or anything. just go slightly out of your way to make sure he knows your still his friend, and that you don't think he's some kind of freak. but don't let him know your doing it on purpose.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

i'm yours

God damnit, I was wearing nice jeans today

 

[JLBats]

God damnit, I was wearing nice jeans today

Wow, ShadowBoxing just got creepy

 

[Spider-Bite]

then that means all my guy friends want to....

i have no friends

guys think about sex once every ten seconds. don't let lackey get you all worked up. it doesn't mean you can't be friends with him or other guys. any guy is pretty much willing to bang any girl that looks halfway descent at any given point in time. that doesn't mean that's the reason he's your friend. It doesn't mean specifically that this guy has a crush on you. You really shouldn't sweat this at all.

 

[jaguarr]

Wow, ShadowBoxing just got creepy

Yeah. JAL creepy.

jag

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Yeah. JAL creepy.

jag

Yeah but not as creepy as this thing

 

[Lackey]

guys think about sex once every ten seconds. don't let lackey get you all worked up. it doesn't mean you can't be friends with him or other guys. any guy is pretty much willing to bang any girl that looks halfway descent at any given point in time. that doesn't mean that's the reason he's your friend. It doesn't mean specifically that this guy has a crush on you. You really shouldn't sweat this at all.

yeah, it doesn't mean you can't be his friend, just realize that he probably wants to bang you and that's the basis for him being your friend... it doesn't mean that he actually thinks he's going to get that chance or is going to come on to you, but if you were fat and ugly, he wouldn't be your friend.