No it being girly isn't my only criticism. My other criticism is that they were too TRY HARD. They tried too hard to be hip and happening and it came off forced. The one liners literally made me cringe.
The fight scenes looked worse than Power Ranger fight scenes. The relationships between most of the characters were unbelievable and cheesy in most cases.
See for me the only redeeming factor for Buffy was Anthony Head. But seeing as he is awesome in everything that isn't that hard to do. And maybe Spike. And i mean maybe.
And i did give Angel a chance. But David Borenaz or whatever his name is has about as much charisma as a dish cloth. And again, it tried too hard to be hip and happening.
Ok, one thing about the fight scenes, if you watched them on BBC2 like I did originally, they were all cut to shreds because it was shown at 6pm. I'm not exagerating here, when I saw them on dvd it was a breath of fresh air, the martial arts were great in the show. Angel was even worse when being cut for Ch4's 6pm slot, one major fight between Angel and Spike was cut down to one kick and a wee bit of 'scuffling' as it resolved.
and as for Angel, as chickflick said, the 1st series is not as strong as the later series(same goes for Buffy's), it still has some great episodes in there, but it really takes off in the second series as the major arcs kick in.
Hey there are a few eps here and there that I can't stand as well, but for the most part I thought they were the first time we had got live action shows that were as good as ongoing comicbooks.
edit: as for the cringe factor sometimes, believe me, I used to get that when i first got into the show, but i went with it, and as I got to know the characters better I chilled out and realised I was being too hard on it, it is an emotional show, so it's easy to cringe sometimes as the emotions are out in full unguarded glory, and of course them being teenagers can play into that too.
But, Whedon had plenty of great one liners, he can write very funny dialoge that feels real.
and the fight scenes in the eps that he actually directed were always of a higher quality, the final battle between Angel and Buffy at the end of s2 being a good example.