Ladies: If you were a man, how would you approach a girl.

[Colossal Spoons]

Jplaya, how do you manage to keep coming up with these fiya threads? 5 pages and counting.

 

[Whirlysplat]

Have any of the ladies said "from behind"?

- Whirly

 

[jaguarr]

Have any of the ladies said "from behind"?

Or "right around chin level"?

jag

 

[Whirlysplat]

Or "right around chin level"?

jag

- Whirly

 

[nightbringer]

I always wonder what kind of people write these things. Did they have two parents growing up? Would they have liked two parents if they didn't?

It just seems like the cynicism present in such things is over-wrought and stupid. Placing sex above all else in every relationship seems, I don't know, pretty lame

Oh, sorry, I mean supa awesome, ghetto nikka.

I agree that placing too much emphasis on sex in a relationship or even just in life is a bad thing, but having said that let's not forget that people have needs. Face it as you mature into an adult sex becomes a necessity. It makes you feel good, relieves stress, and is a bonding experience if you're with someone you care about. Men obviously have much higher sex drives than women, so our need/desire for the act is much higher than most women. Sadly many (not all) women don't understand that sex is a very real need for most of us guys, or they won't ackknowledge it. So what inevitably happens in most relationships is that after that sweet nice honeymoon period guys don't get their physical needs met as often as they need and sometimes not at all. Society trys to make it out to be a bad thing that guys place a higher emphasis on sex. This idea we have in America that sex is bad or dirty or sinful is ridiculous and it breeds the attitude that when a guy gets frustrated/hurt/upset that his physical needs aren't getting met that he needs to get over it or he's some sex obsessed ahole who isn't sensitive to women. That's BS, physical needs are just as valid and real as emotional and mental needs.

Now if you're a jerk to your lady it's understandable that she isn't interested in the lovins, but that's not always the case. All I'm saying is that if you're a good guy and treating your lady right, then she needs to be treating you right. If you're meeting her needs and desires, then she needs to be fulfilling yours. Basically this is what I equate it to, when women holds out on the action with her guy it's equal to the guy holding out on any emotional support for his lady. What's the point of a relationship if you're not doing it anyways? Sex is one of a very few things that separate a relationship and a friendship, at least in my mind. Lack of a sex life is divorce material in my mind, but maybe that's just me.

 

[Jplaya2023]

Jplaya, how do you manage to keep coming up with these fiya threads? 5 pages and counting.

you know how i get on my grind playa.