How Would You Feel If...

[Cmill216]

YOU AREN'T TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HER. So get over that "feeling". It's ill-placed.

 

[Erzengel]

Lmao... I'm not prejudice.



It's not like I'm saying, "I can never date her! She's crippled! That's gross!"



I'm just saying that I'd have this nagging feeling as if I'd be taking advantage of her, like I was saying. Not that I seriously feel this way, but the notion of that thought sticking in the back of my mind is what draws question for me.

Lmao!!!



Prejudice doesn't just mean you treat someone different or think a certain way because of a handicap, religion or ethnicity.

Prejudice also means an opinion formed beforehand without knowledge or facts.

You think that just because a girl is handicapped she's "weaker" or disadvantaged in some way. When the only difference is that she doesn't have full use of her legs.

 

[Noir]

She can't feel down there! Talk about sad!

"Are you in?"
"I've been in."
"Oh"
"well, are you done yet?"

 

[Machx72]

YOU AREN'T TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HER. So get over that "feeling". It's ill-placed.

Dude, all I was asking is if other people had the same notions, and if it was normal for me to have them.

Half the guys here are the ones blowing it out of proportion, which is leading me to try to explain it further. It's not like I'm prejudiced against the girl, I just asked if it was normal for me to have that "guilty conscience".

 

[Tangled Web]

Why would you need to feel guilty? She's not mentally handicaped.

 

[Cmill216]

Dude, all I was asking is if other people had the same notions, and if it was normal for me to have them.

Half the guys here are the ones blowing it out of proportion, which is leading me to try to explain it further. It's not like I'm prejudiced against the girl, I just asked if it was normal for me to have that "guilty conscience".

No. It's not normal. The fact that you think you'd be "taking advantage" of this girl simply because she happens to be in a wheelchair is a tad bit off the average train of thought.

Obviously, the relationship (or specifically the sexual relationship) may not be completely normal, but if she's a fully functional woman in every other regard (mentally and emotionally), then there's nothing really to "take advantage of".

 

[Duende Verde]

No. It's not normal. The fact that you think you'd be "taking advantage" of this girl simply because she happens to be in a wheelchair is a tad bit off the average train of thought.

Obviously, the relationship (or specifically the sexual relationship) may not be completely normal, but if she's a fully functional woman in every other regard (mentally and emotionally), then there's nothing really to "take advantage of".

And if things work out, he can get her a pair of these:

 

[Machx72]

Lmao!!!



Prejudice doesn't just mean you treat someone different or think a certain way because of a handicap, religion or ethnicity.

Prejudice also means an opinion formed beforehand without knowledge or facts.

You think that just because a girl is handicapped she's "weaker" or disadvantaged in some way. When the only difference is that she doesn't have full use of her legs.

Quit blowing **** out of proportion, I not once stated that I fully believe she's weaker than me. I'm not prejudiced against her, and I don't think less of her simply because she can't use her legs- it's got nothing to do with HER.

We just recently discussed this in my college class, that as humans, we naturally make models of something in our minds, and we refuse to let it go.

Naturally, as children, we're more likely to percieve physically disabled- ranging from something as temporary as a fracture to something lifelong, like congenital conditions- as weaker. I know fully well that this isn't true, as there's a wrestler I knew who in high school who was one of the top wrestlers in the state, and he had no legs. The kid was as strong as a horse.

I'm simply speaking about a guilty conscience that sits in the back of my mind, it's not like I'm trying to say, "She's weak, that's wrong of me to like her."

Get your facts straight.

 

[Machx72]

No. It's not normal. The fact that you think you'd be "taking advantage" of this girl simply because she happens to be in a wheelchair is a tad bit off the average train of thought.

Obviously, the relationship (or specifically the sexual relationship) may not be completely normal, but if she's a fully functional woman in every other regard (mentally and emotionally), then there's nothing really to "take advantage of".

I completely understand what you're saying... Honestly, I am a little worried that I would have that odd feeling, and I know [like I stated before] that she's apparently fully capable in every other aspect of herself. I'm more than sure I could get over this should something between her and I happen, it's just a thought that kind of came to me while discussing the matter with someone.

 

[Cmill216]

And if things work out, he can get her a pair of these...

Well, those things are probably expensive, so Mach would probably need a nice raise at his j.o.b. to nab something like that for his girl.

But it brings up the question: what if Mach's boss was in a wheelchair? Would he feel like he was taking advantage of him by taking the raise?

 

[Erzengel]

Quit blowing **** out of proportion, I not once stated that I fully believe she's weaker than me. I'm not prejudiced against her, and I don't think less of her simply because she can't use her legs- it's got nothing to do with HER.

We just recently discussed this in my college class, that as humans, we naturally make models of something in our minds, and we refuse to let it go.

Naturally, as children, we're more likely to percieve physically disabled- ranging from something as temporary as a fracture to something lifelong, like congenital conditions- as weaker. I know fully well that this isn't true, as there's a wrestler I knew who in high school who was one of the top wrestlers in the state, and he had no legs. The kid was as strong as a horse.

I'm simply speaking about a guilty conscience that sits in the back of my mind, it's not like I'm trying to say, "She's weak, that's wrong of me to like her."

Get your facts straight.

Hey I'm not the one who has to create a thread to justify my feelings.

 

[Cmill216]

I completely understand what you're saying... Honestly, I am a little worried that I would have that odd feeling, and I know [like I stated before] that she's apparently fully capable in every other aspect of herself. I'm more than sure I could get over this should something between her and I happen, it's just a thought that kind of came to me while discussing the matter with someone.

If you feel like you can't get rid of whatever this feeling is, and that it might hinder any possible relationship with this girl, then you should honestly consider not even pursing that relationship in the first place. Might save you a lot of pain in the long run.

 

[Cmill216]

EDIT: WTF is wrong with the Hype today?

 

[Machx72]

Erzengel: Learn how to ****in' read.

Cmill: Yeah, I think I can get over it, honestly. My main worry is that I won't be able to, but it's something I definitely think I can do.

Thanks for the help on those who offered with it.

 

[Erzengel]

You are adorable when you get all frazzled.

 

[Cmill216]

Cmill: Yeah, I think I can get over it, honestly. My main worry is that I won't be able to, but it's something I definitely think I can do.

Is she hot?

 

[Machx72]

Is she hot?

Lmao, very.

 

[Fran]

Pics plz.

 

[Machx72]

Lmao. If something sparks, I'll be sure to post some.

 

[Cmill216]

Lmao, very.

Damn. I just got a mental image of Dina Meyer circa Birds of Prey.

 

[Machx72]

Lmao... Pray for me. If it works out, I'll post pics up a.s.a.p.

 

[Master Chief]

This is a very stupid question. I'd obviously feel like dating the girl.

Dunno how I'd feel about it. Probably just. It'd be awkward at first probably but whatever. If I like the person, wicked. Plus I'd get to use the wheelchair once in a while, right? Start up some extreme wheelchair off a flight of stairs sports.

 

[Duende Verde]

This is a very stupid question. I'd obviously feel like dating the girl.

Dunno how I'd feel about it. Probably just. It'd be awkward at first probably but whatever. If I like the person, wicked. Plus I'd get to use the wheelchair once in a while, right? Start up some extreme wheelchair off a flight of stairs sports.

Plus, great parking spaces and you get to go to front of the line at amusement parks.

 

[Noir]

ever seen Freddy got Fingered? There is your answer!

 

[BAH HUMBBUG!]

If I really liked the girl I would be down for her if she was in a wheel chair, plus I mean come on, she has to be into some kinky ****