all this.
per the reasons you've listed, i can see why someone in the
america, like my friend might get a bit miffed by a person of the dominant majority adopting a chinese dress.
but as BN said, the social media world we live in exaggerates the hate that people like that teenager going to prom gets.
i commented on this earlier because a qipao is specific to my own heritage and was brought up in conjunction on the topic of cultural appropriation.
but i don't think one can really draw a comparison between wearing bantu knots and wearing a chinese dress. lol.
two vastly different contexts and cultural histories.
you can't go "if its ok to wear this item from X people, why can't we wear this from Y people?"
you just can't.
also, i've always wanted to try haggis. it looks gooood.
apparently, scottish imported haggis is banned in the states because we are not allowed to consume livestock lungs here.
but we can order it from amazon - but they are made without sheep lung.
so it's not authentic then!