I think that might be the whole point to it. The mere fact that it happened just for the sake of happening and for no particular reason is why Goblin serves as such an intrusion to Spider-Man's life. For Spidey everything has to have reason, an explanation. For the Goblin there is no explanation.
Times like this that I don't understand why people could think anyone other than the Green Goblin could be Spidey's archnemesis.
Exactly. I mean, let's look at the facts here.
First Villian to ever know who Spider-Man really was - Green Goblin.
The Villian that killed the one person Peter was actually going to marry - Green Goblin
and the legacy didn't stop. The Goblin legacy whent on for years. If I remember correctly, in the comics, Peter was taking a shower and Harry sneakily found the Spider-Man costume inside a drawer (Amazing Spider-Man issue #135), which just added fuel to the fire. I just love the fact that once the father whent, the son took over. It's kind of like saying the Goblin's spirit never dies. Then we had Harry's phsyciatrist, Bart Hamilton as the Goblin, wh actually whent up agaisnt Harry in the comics. Then came Roderick Kingsley and turning the costume into the Hobgoblin, etc.
One of my favorite Harry as the Goblin stories would have to be the stories done in The Spectacular Spider-Man (Issues 180, 181, 183, 184, 189, 200, etc.) Harry was quite scary as the Goblin, but I found it to be a bit sad. Such as in The Specactualy Spider-Man issue # 189 When Harry, Liz, Normy Jr., and SPidey are sitting at the table, Harry tells them to eat nicely, then just screams it. He starts foaming at the mouth and such. It just shows the 2 sides of the character. Harry's death was just so sad, but a fitting end. He saved Spidey from being blown up. Sal Buscemas art was obviously amazing as well, and his Goblin remains one of my favorites. Though, Harry has been brought back.
I can go on and on because the Goblin's legacy was even longer than that. I'm just saying that the Green Goblin is over looked too much by Villians like Venom, who is awesome, but his story isn't as drawn out and powerful. Doc Ock's is more drawn out and powerful than Venom's in terms of story and charatcer. I still love Venom though. He may very well be my favorite Villian, but he's certainly not the greatest. The Green Goblin actually has a legacy that's lasted so long. Sure there was very odd things done with Nomran in sins past with that situation with Gwen, which was a VERY stupid idea. However, that's in the past.
The fact that Harry's death was a bit more heroic and Norman's death is pretty much more cold, and though accidental, he didn't redeem himself. Norman treated Harry pretty poorly all of his life. He didn't make that much time for him, so the fact that their deaths were different jsut fit togeather perfectly. I find those two qualities just brilliant. That's why people not seeing the Green Goblin for the evil he is baffles me. He truly is THE Villian.
Btw, Norman will always be the best Green Goblin. Hell, I consider him THE Green Goblin, over all the others, even though I loved harry's story. When I see the Goblin, I see Norman.