Sexism
is rampant in the movies and while I don't want to retread along any lines already drawn I probably will.
What I want to point out it's not always
depicted the same. Sexism against women is obvious and easy to see (****, ass, emotionally and physically weak) but it also works against men in different ways (strong, muscularly fit, emotionally distant or full of aggressive feelings). It isn't appropriate to compare sexism equally to men and women when the forms aren't the same. Both are held up to unreasonable, unrealistic standards. One just happens to be more blatant.
And just to gloss over that briefly with an example:
It's hardly fair. No one is immune to objectification or definitions of acceptablity.
Men might not be seen as sex objects in the physical sense the same as women often are but there are still symptoms of it in their depiction as sex objects or just objects to idealize.
I'm not trying to derail the talk or discussion of women being depicted but I'd like to think that men can be seen as also reduced to a stereotype.
How many men are seen as sensitive or emotional that are not gay? How many men can cry in a movie that isn't seen as emasculating? Only in very specific settings and conditions is it okay for a man to be anything less than stoic, emotionless or almost automaton. The exception is if it's a comedic, or moronic movie. Either you're played serious or for laughs. To cry is only reserved for very special, very rare occasions. To have any feelings that aren't seen as desirable makes you weak.
A man who pines for a woman is often a loser, desperate or deranged and stalkerish. Only if he desires a woman and he has the right attitude is it okay to want her. She should want him. That's the standard men are expected to express.
This is true in most genres. Just as women are often shown as either incapable of being a strong individual, men are often seen as incapable of being anything else. A man cannot rely on another man unless it's in a war or a similar setting.
Equality should not be about focusing solely on one gender. It shouldn't be used as an excuse or a reason to dismiss or downplay another character, regardless of gender or anything else. Too often though I do see any attempt to say that men are also depicted poorly as a way to divert from the larger problem that sexism isn't for women alone.
So please don't see this as trying to avert the attention to women, just a request to see that everyone, male, female and androgenous (probably the most marginalized of all) are reduced to simplistic, stereotypical tropes frequently.
I like strong, independent, weak, needy, fragile, unbreakable, complicated characters. Doesn't matter the gender, doesn't matter the circumstance, if someone is properly shown as a real human being I don't really care what's between the legs or on the chest.