Should I keep my mouth shut..

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I just got off the phone from a friend, Dan. He wanted to stay at mine tonight. My recently semi returned girlfriend (I do not call her partner anymore) was not happy about this and she and I have had problems over the last two years, so, we kind of avoid making waves with each other for the sake of our son.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, my friends wife has asked him for some space because she has discovered he has run up debts through gambling and perhaps had an affair. I know he has actually had an affair. My gf is friends with the wife and is annoying me by continually asking if he has had an affair. She is convinced I would know. I have had enough and have decided to sleep in the spare room where I am typing to anonymous people on the internet. I think I should not confirm the suspicions that my gf and Dans wife have. Who agrees or disagrees.
 
Whether or not he cheated on his wife, my advice to you is never give access to your house to somebody with gambling debts.
 
Yes, you should keep your mouth shut. And by that, I mean on here. No one cares about your friends stupid problems that he brought on himself, or cares what you do about it.
 
I would keep my damn mouth shut. I'd be like, "Yo, this is about him, not about me. You get nothing outta me." But, I'm not in your situation. If your girl is gonna take some hedge trimmers to your balls while you sleep, you might be in a different situation than I...
 
Yes, you should keep your mouth shut. And by that, I mean on here. No one cares about your friends stupid problems that he brought on himself, or cares what you do about it.

I sense much anger in you. Relax...
 
How much of a friend is this friend? Is this a give and take type friendship where you give and he constantly takes without reciprocating? If so...wisen up man and tell the dude to go crash with his mistress. And tell your recently semi returned gf that you don't know ****.
 
Who cheated who? I'm little confused...
 
Whether or not he cheated on his wife, my advice to you is never give access to your house to somebody with gambling debts.

Good point, but, he is a mate...... I will not be putting him up, it will cause to much friction.
 
Whether or not he cheated on his wife, my advice to you is never give access to your house to somebody with gambling debts.

Agreed.

I haven't gone through this sort of experience, but if a friend makes a [stupid] mistake, it's best to make them go through it alone instead of holding their hand through it.
 
How much of a friend is this friend? Is this a give and take type friendship where you give and he constantly takes without reciprocating? If so...wisen up man and tell the dude to go crash with his mistress. And tell your recently semi returned gf that you don't know ****.

He's a good mate. His mistress is also married.... and yes to someone else I know.



Who cheated who? I'm little confused...

Dan cheated on his wife
 
Yes, you should keep your mouth shut. And by that, I mean on here. No one cares about your friends stupid problems that he brought on himself, or cares what you do about it.


Last I checked posters could share there problems/recent events in the community forum, so next time your thinking.....stop yourself there.
 
I just got off the phone from a friend, Dan. He wanted to stay at mine tonight. My recently semi returned girlfriend (I do not call her partner anymore) was not happy about this and she and I have had problems over the last two years, so, we kind of avoid making waves with each other for the sake of our son.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, my friends wife has asked him for some space because she has discovered he has run up debts through gambling and perhaps had an affair. I know he has actually had an affair. My gf is friends with the wife and is annoying me by continually asking if he has had an affair. She is convinced I would know. I have had enough and have decided to sleep in the spare room where I am typing to anonymous people on the internet. I think I should not confirm the suspicions that my gf and Dans wife have. Who agrees or disagrees.

no, don't reveal the affair . . . one age-old adage as food for thought: bros before hoes, son!
 
no, don't reveal the affair . . . one age-old adage as food for thought: bros before hoes, son!

My thoughts exactly. However the Hoe is the mother of my son. No matter what I think of her.
 
You should run away with your friend's wife. Totally F things up as much as possible. And make sure you snort some coke off her bare ass, and videotape it. That's pure gold.
 
It's none of your business, nor is it your girls business, any problems your friend and his wifey have is between them two, and the man and or woman he bangs on the side.

Also, you should totally sleep with his wife.
 
You should run away with your friend's wife. Totally F things up as much as possible. And make sure you snort some coke off her bare ass, and videotape it. That's pure gold.

Good plan, except I can't stand Dan's wife.... She is very annoying and not hot.
 

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