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Should Parents be notifed if teen daughter wants an abortion?

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  • No On parental notificaton

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NOFX

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Ok this is a big issue here in California and the elections are coming up in couple of weeks so it got me thinking... Last year we had the special election in which the same topic was brought up and I voted no parents should not be notified because its not the governments job to be the parent. But now that I think about it, you know the kids are still minors they shouldnt have consent without a minor but than it isnt the governments job to be the parent and informing there kid wants an abortion. Im still undecided what do you guys think?

Here's some more info:

What is Proposition 85?

Prop. 85 would prohibit abortions for California teens until 48 hours after their parents have been notified.
Why should you vote NO on 85?

Prop. 85 would put vulnerable teens in jeopardy. As parents, we rightfully want to be involved in our teens’ lives, especially when they face important decisions. And most of us are. But Prop 85 forces even teens from violent or abusive homes to involve their parents.
Pregnant teens would delay critical medical care and counseling. Faced with the possibility of being kicked out, beaten or worse, these teens would delay the medical care and counseling they desperately need.
Judicial bypass won’t work. While the proposed law would include a bypass provision for teens to seek help from a judge, a girl afraid to tell her parents isn’t going to march up to a judge in a strange courthouse to talk about her pregnancy. Pregnant teens don’t need a judge. They need a counselor and a doctor.
There’s a hidden agenda. Supporters of Prop 85 – including Jim Holman, the Traditional Values Coalition, Evangelicals for Social Action and Right to Life of Central California – are the same people who want to overturn Roe v. Wade. This is part of a clear strategy to eventually outlaw all abortions.
California papers say NO to 85. Los Angeles Times: “Proposition 85 is an unnecessary measure that would do the state more harm than good…” San Francisco Chronicle: “Inserting the state into the parent-child relationship will not lead to greater communication…” La Opinion: “There are special circumstances that require that we maintain the privacy of our daughters…” Click to read more about what the papers are saying. (.pdf)
Also:

Good family communication cannot be imposed by government.
When laws make teenagers choose between talking with parents or having illegal and unsafe abortions, some will delay critical medical care, turn to self-induced or illegal back-alley abortions, or even consider suicide.
Doctors, nurses, and teachers strongly oppose proposition 85.
The real answer to teen pregnancy is prevention and strong, caring families – not new laws that endanger vulnerable young women.

Vote Yes on Prop 85:
-For real protection of a young girl, it's common sense to notify a parent
before a major medical procedure.

-In California, a young girl - even a 12 year old – can be taken by anyone – a school employee, a boyfriend, a sexual predator – to receive a secret taxpayer funded abortion, without a parent knowing and being able to protect her from further sexual exploitation. This is wrong.

-No young girl should undergo any invasive medical procedure performed secretly by an unknown person at an unknown location.

-Any other surgical procedure performed on a minor child requires not only the notification but the consent of a parent or guardian.

-Proposition 85 will protect young girls from physical harm and sexual exploitation.

- If Mom or Dad don’t know, they can’t get prompt care for dangerous or even fatal complications which their young daughter may be secretly suffering.

-Protect our young daughters. Vote YES on Proposition 85.
 
Minors should first and foremost be the responsibility of all parents. Everything they do requires some form of parental consent, particularly medical procedures. That is true in everything else, I don't see why there should be an exception here.
 
If a school has to notify a parent if they give the kid an "asprin", surely a dangerous procedure like an abortion must be told!

I think anything that involves my child "bleeding" should be told to me.
 
Yeah.
Teen girls shouldn't be f***ing anybody that young.
If you don't have the money to take care of another life, you shouldn't be giving any. If you do anyway, at least use a condom and be careful.
 
Holly Goodhead said:
I like how all the men are voting "yes". :whatever:
I voted no last year but Im undecided now.
 
NOFX said:
I voted no last year but Im undecided now.

I mean if it's a freaking 12 year old or something then yes the parents should know about it.
16 and up I think it should be the girls decision, and hers alone.
 
Danger Mouse said:
I voted 'yes' in my capacity as a parent to a daughter.

Your daughter is like 3. If you don't have ovaries than you shouldnt be allowed to vote on something like this. :meow:

That goes for all you 55 year old white government pedophile closet homosexuals.
 
Holly Goodhead said:
I mean if it's a freaking 12 year old or something then yes the parents should know about it.
16 and up I think it should be the girls decision, and hers alone.
As long as she still hasn't reached the age of majority stipulated by the local law, the decision should most certainly not be hers alone. Until such age, she remains the responsibility of the parents.
 
Last year this bill did not pass:

"The Proposition 73 abortion amendment, which also was overwhelmingly defeated, would have made California the 35th state requiring either parental notification or consent for girls 17 and under requesting the procedure. Backers hoped it would reduce California's teen abortion rate the nation's fourth-highest.

Abortion opponents in the state have tried for more than two decades to make it harder for girls to terminate pregnancies without their parents' knowledge, but this was the first year a measure qualified for the ballot.

The measure also contained a provision that would have defined abortion as an act that causes "the death of the unborn child, a child conceived but not yet born," deviating from more neutral language used in similar statutes elsewhere.

http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/wireStory?id=1295904
 
No. Some teens simply cannot tell their parents. It's not unrealistic at all for a knocked up teen to be disowned or worse. Parental notification would only take away their safest option and lead to unsafe and illegal quick fixes.
 
Danger Mouse said:
As long as she still hasn't reached the age of majority stipulated by the local law, the decision should most certainly not be hers alone. Until such age, she remains the responsibility of the parents.

That's ******ed. Just because she hasnt been on this Earth for so and so years means she's not "mature" enough to think for herself? Not all parents are peaches and cream. Dads molest their daughters. Do you still think it's his decision to know?
**** the law. :meow:
 
Holly Goodhead said:
Your daughter is like 3. If you don't have ovaries than you shouldnt be allowed to vote on something like this. :meow:

That goes for all you 55 year old white government pedophile closet homosexuals.
I realise that. And I voted upon realising too that she won't remain a child her whole life. My statement remains as long as she is under my care.
 
Danger Mouse said:
I realise that. And I voted upon realising too that she won't remain a child her whole life. My statement remains as long as she is under my care.

You cant even spell realize. :csad:
 
Holly Goodhead said:
That's ******ed. Just because she hasnt been on this Earth for so and so years means she's not "mature" enough to think for herself?
Precisely.
Holly Goodhead said:
Not all parents are peaches and cream. Dads molest their daughters. Do you still think it's his decision to know?
I understand that. And such criminal parents ought to be relieved of such rights. But what about rights of the good parents who I'd like to believe are the majority?
Holly Goodhead said:
**** the law. :meow:
Go cry to your state rep.
 
Danger Mouse said:
Precisely.

I understand that. And such criminal parents ought to be relieved of such rights. But what about rights of the good parents who I'd like to believe are the majority?

Go cry to your state rep.

You know, when parents are too overbearing like you are, their children tend to do the opposite of what they say, or turn into vegetables. Live and learn
 
Holly Goodhead said:
You cant even spell realize. :csad:
It is spelt correctly. I simply do not prefer the American spelling. Too bad you don't even know the world beyond yours.
 
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