POWdER-man
Ancient but wise
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....doing something every man and woman should do at least once in their lifetime.....preferably more than once....
and no....I am not talking about sex......I think we get enough of those types of treads around here.....
I have started my Final Will and Testament (reluctantly)......I have been delaying this for awhile now and have recently decided to get it over with....It's not the most enjoyable thing to do, but it's something someone like myself REALLY needs to do incase anything were to happen to me, dun dun dun.....so I pushed my procastinating habits aside and started working on it.....
So as I am looking at this I start thinking of all my possessions, my assets, my family, and friends and most of all my life.......and really....starting your Will significantly puts your life in perspective......you start thinking what you have accomplished, what you have done, how far you have gone, etc......and then it hits you......your life is 1/2, 1/3, 1/4, 1/5 over (if you are that lucky)....and you think of all the things you sacrificed in your life, the things you haven't done yet, the things you don't have, the things you passed up in life, things you regret...and then.....how will people remember when you are gone......will they remember....I mean sure your family and friends will....and the odd other person here and there....but as the years go by....less and less will probably think of you...miss you....less and less will remember little things about you...
So as I ponder this I think about what type of legacy I would leave once I am gone and I realize I wouldn't leave much behind.....I suppose it's my own quiet and reserve personality to blame.....I don't do any charities....I don't volunteer....I don't give words of advice....I don't coach...or teach anyone anything.......I do make small donations here and there, I have a small presence in the community and business market.....but I guess I am having an Ebenezer Scrooge moment, and just feel I should do more....so forgive me if I sound like I should begin a telethon......
So I guess to make this hype related...hmmm.....how would you like to be remembered, or how would you think you would be remembered (if at all) if you were to leave the Hype (or real life) tomorrow.....
I suppose I would be mostly remembered in the other forums.....for my presence in the SM3 forum, and my picture thread......for the avatars I have made for people.....and hmmm....that's probably about it....
So how would people remember you (truthfully)....
and no....I am not talking about sex......I think we get enough of those types of treads around here.....
I have started my Final Will and Testament (reluctantly)......I have been delaying this for awhile now and have recently decided to get it over with....It's not the most enjoyable thing to do, but it's something someone like myself REALLY needs to do incase anything were to happen to me, dun dun dun.....so I pushed my procastinating habits aside and started working on it.....
So as I am looking at this I start thinking of all my possessions, my assets, my family, and friends and most of all my life.......and really....starting your Will significantly puts your life in perspective......you start thinking what you have accomplished, what you have done, how far you have gone, etc......and then it hits you......your life is 1/2, 1/3, 1/4, 1/5 over (if you are that lucky)....and you think of all the things you sacrificed in your life, the things you haven't done yet, the things you don't have, the things you passed up in life, things you regret...and then.....how will people remember when you are gone......will they remember....I mean sure your family and friends will....and the odd other person here and there....but as the years go by....less and less will probably think of you...miss you....less and less will remember little things about you...
So as I ponder this I think about what type of legacy I would leave once I am gone and I realize I wouldn't leave much behind.....I suppose it's my own quiet and reserve personality to blame.....I don't do any charities....I don't volunteer....I don't give words of advice....I don't coach...or teach anyone anything.......I do make small donations here and there, I have a small presence in the community and business market.....but I guess I am having an Ebenezer Scrooge moment, and just feel I should do more....so forgive me if I sound like I should begin a telethon......
So I guess to make this hype related...hmmm.....how would you like to be remembered, or how would you think you would be remembered (if at all) if you were to leave the Hype (or real life) tomorrow.....
I suppose I would be mostly remembered in the other forums.....for my presence in the SM3 forum, and my picture thread......for the avatars I have made for people.....and hmmm....that's probably about it....
So how would people remember you (truthfully)....