Lots of good points being made.
My brain is overworked and sorta fried this week too, but I'll just interject one (maybe two) points.
Firstly, I object to the notion that Clark is simply "pining" for Lana. I think that terminology is demeaning to Clark and the sincerity of his feelings. Whether you like her or not, to accept the canon as presented on SV means to accept that Lana is, thus far, the love of Clark's life. I know that rubs the hell out of the mythology die-hards, but again.. a gentle reminder.. this is SMALLVILLE, and they are telling their own tale. He doesn't simply "pine" for her, he loves her to the point of being willing to give her up rather than take
any chance of her being harmed. As he explained to Jonathan and Martha - he's loved her since he was 5. They were blissfully
happy for a few short episodes, they chose to be each others "firsts," and even with his memory wiped, his innate feelings for her were *still* there. I know some people had problems with that scene, but I thought it made perfect sense in context of THIS show and what is a basic premise - Clark loves Lana and vice-versa.
I have used that term in regards to Chloe and her feelings for Clark. Not to deny or minimalize the sincerity of her feelings for him, but to me,
pining has an unrequited connotation to it - which perfectly describes the Chloe/Clark situation. She's always wanted him, and he's never had the same level of feelings for her.
Clark and Lana did have a deep mutual love and relationship, for a brief period of time at least. He didn't break up with her because he wanted to, but because he felt he had to (misguided, IMO, but still a very laudable and mature choice to make). So..
pining doesn't work for me. I'm trying to think of a more appropriate adjective - perhaps
mournful.. or
tragic.. certainly bittersweet applies to the whole relationship in general.
One more point - while this is a Superhero foum and there is a concentration of people here who watch the show just for the leaps and bounds Super stuff - the real heart of this show has little to do with his superbreath or how fast Clark runs - it's all about the kind of man he is, and the things that made him that way. So, I get reeeeaaallly tired of people *****ing and moaning about the "soap opera" aspect of this show. **** and deal with it.
I know lots of people who care more about that aspect than any of the Superstuff, believe it or not.
Not me, I like it all.