
But... you know that those events happen after Pa Kent's death... right?Meaning that Pa Kent died so Clark wouldn't save pople exposing his identity. And after he died Clark... well, went on saving people showing his face anyways.
Yes, I do realize that, but the way you phrased it sounded like you meant the scene happened before it in the movie. That is what I was correcting.
I guess I blame Goyer as well. And I get Cavill was just doing what he was told, but seriosly, didn't he think at one point... 'so ok, I'm Superman, I'm super-powered, I hold life as sacred... and yet for no reason I won't do anything to save my father' life.'
I think the point I am trying to make is the values you attribute to Superman did not exist in Clark at that time. He did value life, which is obviously shown by him saving the kids and Pete when he was younger, but he also valued his father's advice. He believed what Jon told him when he said the world was not ready, and he did not act because of that, even though he really wanted to. I would also argue at that time he wasn't even emotionally ready for that sort of responsibility. The scene inside the car before the tornado is proof of this. He sounds and is acting like an immature man-child.
Once again, the fact that "Superman" existed or not is irrelevant. All Clark knew was that his father was about to die and that he could save him. You don't need a superhero training or the correct emotional state to understand that. And in fact, it's not that "he couldn't do anything with hi powers." He could. So much so that Clark had in fact saved people before (the school bus incident).
I see what you are saying, but up until that point every time he did save someone and put himself at risk of being exposed, he was always admonished by Jonathon NOT to do that. Clark, in fact, wanted to save him, but Jon didn't want him to because he would have exposed himself which was what he had been warning Clark against his whole life. Jonathon firmly believed one day the world would be ready (unfortunately it wasn't that day), but as he told Clark when he was younger, the secret was bigger then just
him. It had global implications, and Clark respected and understood that.
I understand you feel the execution of this was poorly done, and it didn't "sell" it enough for you to buy it, but it was all there in the movie.
So it's not even that he was "not ready," no matter how much the movie repeat that. The only problem the movie actually shows is that he wasn't able to use his super powers without exposing his identity.
As for Pa Kent's relevance, the movie shows that Clark forgot about what his father wanted to achieve pretty quick. After Pa Kent's death, Clark went on to save people, showing his face and all. What happened in between? How did Clark put his father's death aside? Snyder and Goyer just didn't tell us.
Again, exposing his powers would have led to him being exposed as an alien. That's no small matter. Try to look at the consequences that would have occurred if he
did reveal himself. Jonathon would have been alive, but likely he and Martha would have been interned, and Clark would have been hunted by the U.S. government and the world police. If Clark would have revealed himself then they all would have lost their lives in a way, so that is why Jon made the sacrifice he did. It was to protect Clark...which is what he had been doing since he found him in the corn field.
Also, I don't think Clark put Jon's words or actions aside. He just continued to do what he had always did, which was try to help without getting caught, even though doing so put him at great risk and prevented him from forming meaningful relationships. He still tried to help, but he also still respected and believed in his father's words, which is basically what he was telling Lois at the graveyard.