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Weird end to a friendship

Everyone but me. Melissa was pretty hot and I liked her blonde and blue (or purple or green or scarlett) hair.

Hey....wait a minute....."I'VE" posted pictures of my food before. What'ryou trying to say anyway? I'm not sure we can be friends anymore, but maybe we can start a thread.


Oh dear Cali, if Trump wins a second term, you've got to get the hell out of there, you're not lasting 7 days. I'll start organizing an underground railroad consisting of hybrid uber cars, impractical and expensive above-ground LRT systems and scenic bicycle trips through the Pacific Northwest.
 
Despite your best efforts, Nazi scientists still invented the idea of putting sauerkraut on hot dogs. :eek:

Dammit soldier, you had one job! One job! :argh:
I was distracted.

Distracted by........Helga.

Helga......and her braided blonde hair.....that seductively laid across her ample Bavarian breasts.
 
I was distracted.

Distracted by........Helga.

Helga......and her braided blonde hair.....that seductively laid across her ample Bavarian breasts.


That's disgusting, why would a woman place her hair over high-quality cuts of chicken? During wartime, no less. What a terrible rationing system.
 
That's disgusting, why would a woman play her hair over high-quality cuts of chicken? During wartime, no less. What a terrible rationing system.

Hey man....I'm a vet....don't presume to judge me. :cmad:
 
Why did your friend walk home?
Has your friend not heard of Taxis, Uber or buses?

There are plenty of places that don't have any of those things and/or he couldn't afford it.

In either case, RockSP is completely in the wrong here and it blows my mind how he can be so careless and deny any amount of responsibility for what happened, never mind the fact that he considers it a "weird" and even "funny"...says a lot about his maturity and level of self awareness. But it's obviously for the best; he saved that guy from having to deal with any more of his crap. Unbelievable. If you are driving, you have a responsibility to get people to and from the destination safely. Ditching someone who put their trust in you (in the middle of the night no less) is about one of the worst and most irresponsible things you can do as a driver; it doesn't matter the reason.
 
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If the walk was long then you were the one who did wrong. I would be pissed too if my friend left me like that.
 
Why did your friend walk home?
Has your friend not heard of Taxis, Uber or buses?

It's just my assumption that he walked. Until you mentioned Uber I never even thought about that being a thing where we live, heh. But it is. I would've just walked if it had been me (but if it was me I would've left with my ride) rather than try to get a cab or bus. It was less than 2 miles to his house.

So you are calling your friend childish for imposing him a ridiculous ultimatum and acting like your decision is completely right and reasonable??

What ultimatum? If saying "let's go" is an ultimatum, then is continuing to sit when your ride is telling you he's leaving also an ultimatum? And when your ride tells you again multiple times that he's leaving and you say "fair enough" and continue to sit there, is that also an ultimatum?

I am wondering how he has endured your personality for 20 years... Maybe you two didn't go see any MCU movies? He would've had to walk home like 13 times lol

Lol...you don't know either of our personalities. And if it was a mcu movie we would've watched the after credits scene...since they actually exist.
 
I had a best friend when I was a kid. Let's call him "Rodney".

Rodney was the class clown, charismatic as hell, blew into a room like a force of nature. Liked to cut through the woods on his way home from school and like the follower I was, I let him drag me along.

One day, there was this sort of silver disc, about the size of a small house, sort of "skipping" across the sky like a rock on a pond. Fools that we were, we followed it deep into the woods.

After fifteen minutes or so, we came into a sort of clearing, looked like something straight out of a painting, too perfect for Nature, like it'd been placed there by a painter's brush stroke. And there, captured perfectly in a beam of sunlight, was the flying saucer.

Just sitting there, purring like a kitten. Rodney's eyes were big as saucers. He pulled me toward the saucer, but something about that ship just made me not able to breathe. Like the closer we got, some dead weight was pressing down on my chest. I stayed at the edge of the trees, hunkered down low, like a soldier hiding from enemy fire.

Rodney, though, whether through dumb bravado or some alien tractor beam, he seemed pulled toward that ship like a magnet.

About ten yards out, and this sort of porthole opened in its side, though there'd been no outline of a door beforehand. A little green man came floating out, just floating on air, like a balloon. Now, I'd like to tell you he was something other than a little green man who looked like an extra from Mars Attacks, because seriously, how cliched, but by God, that's what he looked like.

Anyway, Rodney said "bruh, that's a *****ing costume", and the little green man said (well as I can figure) "barada nahk chu zolo!" and fired his ray gun (yea I know, I'd like to say it was something different, but it wasn't), and Rodney just evaporated like the morning mist.

I must have passed out or something, because I woke up in that clearing a few hours later, no Rodney, no little green man, and no flying saucer.

I walked home in a daze, not sure what I'd seen. By the time I stumbled blankly in the door looking like a freshly-turned zombie who hadn't started decaying yet, I'd just about convinced myself I'd imagined the whole thing somehow.

Rodney didn't show up to school the next day, nor any day after. His big dumb face graced every milk carton in the area for years afterward. Everybody thought he'd just up and ran off one day, just got it in his head on one of his fool treks through those woods.

In my weaker moments, I almost believed it too.

Years passed. I became a man and went to college. Rodney slipped my mind.

One day, I was going for a morning jog around campus, and I tripped over this lump of dirty laundry bundled at the bottom of some steps. The bundle emitted a loud grunt and I realized it was a homeless man. A face, though scarcely recognizable beneath the congealed snot and hair that made the GEICO caveman look like the spokesman for Gillette razors, emerged. Our eyes met and recognition hit me like a rock. Thrown really hard. Into my temple.

"Rodney?!" I gasped.

His hair blew dramatically in the cool morning wind. Eyes regarded me dully. "Who the hell is Rodney?" he intoned blankly.

For a second I tried to high-five him for the badass Winter Soldier reference, but then I realized, this was no joke. Rodney had no idea who he was. Who I was.

"Rod-Man, what happened," I asked, settling beside him on the step. Then quickly standing, because it was cold and Rodney kinda smelled. "Where'd you go, all those years ago?"

Now, I wish I could tell you I learned something about the universe that day. I wish I could tell we're not all alone out here in the stars. That Rodney had seen things and been places none of us, not even Doctor Who fans, could possibly imagine.

But life is no fairy tale.

Rodney just said "I don't know you, man" and then started screaming for me to get away from him, and then campus security came and made him leave because he was causing a public disturbance.

I searched for a long time for Rodney after that day. Almost twenty minutes. But then, well, I had class and.....it got boring and my feet were tired from jogging.

But that was the weirdest end to a friendship I'd ever experienced.
 
Stranding a friend at 1am and leaving him to walk home at that hour because I don't want to wait is much worse than forcing the ride to stay just a little bit longer, in my opinion. I'd never do something like that to a friend.
 
There are plenty of places that don't have any of those things and/or he couldn't afford it.

In either case, RockSP is completely in the wrong here and it blows my mind how he can be so careless and deny any amount of responsibility for what happened, never mind the fact that he considers it a "weird" and even "funny"...says a lot about his maturity and level of self awareness. But it's obviously for the best; he saved that guy from having to deal with any more of his crap. Unbelievable. If you are driving, you have a responsibility to get people to and from the destination safely. Ditching someone who put their trust in you (in the middle of the night no less) is about one of the worst and most irresponsible things you can do as a driver; it doesn't matter the reason.

This. Completely this. The rationalizations are just that, rationalizations. At the end of the day, he stranded his friend at 1am, and his reasonings are ones of complete closed minded narcissism.
 
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There are plenty of places that don't have any of those things and/or he couldn't afford it.

In either case, RockSP is completely in the wrong here and it blows my mind how he can be so careless and deny any amount of responsibility for what happened, never mind the fact that he considers it a "weird" and even "funny"...says a lot about his maturity and level of self awareness. But it's obviously for the best; he saved that guy from having to deal with any more of his crap. Unbelievable. If you are driving, you have a responsibility to get people to and from the destination safely. Ditching someone who put their trust in you (in the middle of the night no less) is about one of the worst and most irresponsible things you can do as a driver; it doesn't matter the reason.

I'm responsible for leaving when I said I was. I didn't sneak out. I didn't make him not come along, which is the common sense thing to do if your ride is leaving.
 
Rock, people aren't giving you a hard time over your logic, they're giving you a hard time over the fact that you don't seem to care that you stranded a "friend" at 1am. It's an emotional/morality thing, not a logic thing.

Anyone remember the legendary poster "braincrusher"? This thread is really taking me back to those historic threads. http://forums.superherohype.com/showthread.php?t=389403&highlight=
 
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If numerous people were chiming in on a six-page thread telling me what I did was a selfish and immature, I'd seriously reconsider my actions. But then again I'm blessed with a modicum of self-awareness.
 
I had a best friend when I was a kid. Let's call him "Rodney".

Rodney was the class clown, charismatic as hell, blew into a room like a force of nature. Liked to cut through the woods on his way home from school and like the follower I was, I let him drag me along.

One day, there was this sort of silver disc, about the size of a small house, sort of "skipping" across the sky like a rock on a pond. Fools that we were, we followed it deep into the woods.

After fifteen minutes or so, we came into a sort of clearing, looked like something straight out of a painting, too perfect for Nature, like it'd been placed there by a painter's brush stroke. And there, captured perfectly in a beam of sunlight, was the flying saucer.

Just sitting there, purring like a kitten. Rodney's eyes were big as saucers. He pulled me toward the saucer, but something about that ship just made me not able to breathe. Like the closer we got, some dead weight was pressing down on my chest. I stayed at the edge of the trees, hunkered down low, like a soldier hiding from enemy fire.

Rodney, though, whether through dumb bravado or some alien tractor beam, he seemed pulled toward that ship like a magnet.

About ten yards out, and this sort of porthole opened in its side, though there'd been no outline of a door beforehand. A little green man came floating out, just floating on air, like a balloon. Now, I'd like to tell you he was something other than a little green man who looked like an extra from Mars Attacks, because seriously, how cliched, but by God, that's what he looked like.

Anyway, Rodney said "bruh, that's a *****ing costume", and the little green man said (well as I can figure) "barada nahk chu zolo!" and fired his ray gun (yea I know, I'd like to say it was something different, but it wasn't), and Rodney just evaporated like the morning mist.

I must have passed out or something, because I woke up in that clearing a few hours later, no Rodney, no little green man, and no flying saucer.

I walked home in a daze, not sure what I'd seen. By the time I stumbled blankly in the door looking like a freshly-turned zombie who hadn't started decaying yet, I'd just about convinced myself I'd imagined the whole thing somehow.

Rodney didn't show up to school the next day, nor any day after. His big dumb face graced every milk carton in the area for years afterward. Everybody thought he'd just up and ran off one day, just got it in his head on one of his fool treks through those woods.

In my weaker moments, I almost believed it too.

Years passed. I became a man and went to college. Rodney slipped my mind.

One day, I was going for a morning jog around campus, and I tripped over this lump of dirty laundry bundled at the bottom of some steps. The bundle emitted a loud grunt and I realized it was a homeless man. A face, though scarcely recognizable beneath the congealed snot and hair that made the GEICO caveman look like the spokesman for Gillette razors, emerged. Our eyes met and recognition hit me like a rock. Thrown really hard. Into my temple.

"Rodney?!" I gasped.

His hair blew dramatically in the cool morning wind. Eyes regarded me dully. "Who the hell is Rodney?" he intoned blankly.

For a second I tried to high-five him for the badass Winter Soldier reference, but then I realized, this was no joke. Rodney had no idea who he was. Who I was.

"Rod-Man, what happened," I asked, settling beside him on the step. Then quickly standing, because it was cold and Rodney kinda smelled. "Where'd you go, all those years ago?"

Now, I wish I could tell you I learned something about the universe that day. I wish I could tell we're not all alone out here in the stars. That Rodney had seen things and been places none of us, not even Doctor Who fans, could possibly imagine.

But life is no fairy tale.

Rodney just said "I don't know you, man" and then started screaming for me to get away from him, and then campus security came and made him leave because he was causing a public disturbance.

I searched for a long time for Rodney after that day. Almost twenty minutes. But then, well, I had class and.....it got boring and my feet were tired from jogging.

But that was the weirdest end to a friendship I'd ever experienced.

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I had a friend fall out with me and turn loads of people against me once because I threw a pencil at her in class.

Man... she made it out like i'd nearly killed her.

So last night a friend wanted to go see the movie Get Out. I'm not a big horror guy but I was like screw it, why not. The movie started at 10:30 pm (EST) and we got home at almost 1:00 am. Or I did, anyway. Dude wanted to sit through the credits for a possible stinger, but I'm the one who drove and I told him I'm not doing it...this ain't a marvel movie. He proceeds to swing his legs out of the way for me to get past him. I ask him if he's going to walk home, because again...I'm not staying.

Him: Fair enough.

Me: Ooookaaaay...

Hope that pointless couple of miles walk home in the cold was worth it...

He must've thought I was joking because a few minutes after I get home I get a text saying "Hey where are you?" LOL! Maybe someone gave him a ride. This morning I see he's unfriended me on facebook. Maybe he's temporarily pissed or maybe he's willing to throw 20 something years of friendship away over some movie credits.

Okay, your turn. Weird friendship ending stories...go!

It was selfish of you to leave.

You've been friends for 20 years, you knew he'd potentially be walking home in the cold for miles, and it was all for the sake of you arriving home 5 mins earlier?

Seems to me more like a stubbornness stand off than anything else. Which is really petty. You just wanted your way, and when he wouldn't do as he said, you stormed off in a huff.

He clearly did not think you were serious about leaving when you walked out of the cinema, or he would not have messaged you. And I can't blame him... it was cheeky of him to refuse to leave, but I don't think anyone would expect their friend to actually abandon them there over the sake of 5 mins wait.

But hey... it doesn't seem like you give a damn about the guy, so can't have been much of a friendship to begin with. No major loss for both of you.
 
If numerous people were chiming in on a six-page thread telling me what I did was a selfish and immature, I'd seriously reconsider my actions. But then again I'm blessed with a modicum of self-awareness.

Not sure what the amount of people chiming in or the length of the thread is supposed to mean. Hell one "chimer" tried to make some comparison between that guy being mad at me because he chose to walk with me being mad at that guy if he murdered my family. :huh: :hehe:

Everyone here is obviously free to express their opinion. I don't have to agree.

It was selfish of you to leave.

You've been friends for 20 years, you knew he'd potentially be walking home in the cold for miles, and it was all for the sake of you arriving home 5 mins earlier?

This arriving home 5 minutes earlier is a fantasy creation of the other people in this thread. And everything you're saying I knew...HE knew. If I know I might be walking, I'd do the sensible thing and leave with my ride.

Seems to me more like a stubbornness stand off than anything else. Which is really petty. You just wanted your way, and when he wouldn't do as he said, you stormed off in a huff.

Hmm, I see. Interesting. Now in this imaginary storm/huff, was I banging my fist into my open hand, grinding my teeth and muttering under my breath as I left? LOL. He just wanted his way. He's actually pulled that "force you to stay" silliness once before, a couple years ago. Can't remember what movie it was but just like Get Out it was a movie that no one would really expect there to be an after credits scene for. Let's just say it was Flight. I stayed that time (he also lived much further away at that time. His walk this time was less than 2 miles. That time it would've been 10 or 12).

He clearly did not think you were serious about leaving when you walked out of the cinema, or he would not have messaged you. And I can't blame him... it was cheeky of him to refuse to leave, but I don't think anyone would expect their friend to actually abandon them there over the sake of 5 mins wait.

As I said earlier as long as he's known me, he should know I mean what I say. He happens to be a big liar and bulls****er, but I'm not. If I'm bothering to get up and walk out, it's because I'm leaving...just like I told him. Multiple times.

But hey... it doesn't seem like you give a damn about the guy, so can't have been much of a friendship to begin with. No major loss for both of you.

Opinion duly noted. By the way...you were wrong for throwing that pencil at your friend. You nearly killed her!!
 
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I think I should change the title of the thread to - Weird end to a minor aquaintenance that I really didn't give a **** about in the long run anyway
 
This arriving home 5 minutes earlier is a fantasy creation of the other people in this thread. And everything you're saying I knew...HE knew. If I know I might be walking, I'd do the sensible thing and leave with my ride.

I don't disagree with that. Like I said, it sounds like a stubbornness stand off. All parties are being an ass in a stubbornness stand off... if the only possible good outcome is if one side backs down and neither will, it's obviously not going to end well.

But we can only look at your side of the street here... and i'm just saying it would have done more good than harm to just be the bigger man here... and maybe don't drive him to the movies again..

Hmm, I see. Interesting. Now in this imaginary storm/huff, was I banging my fist into my open hand, grinding my teeth and muttering under my breath as I left? LOL. He just wanted his way. He's actually pulled that "force you to stay" silliness once before, a couple years ago. Can't remember what movie it was but just like Get Out it was a movie that no one would really expect there to be an after credits scene for. Let's just say it was Flight. I stayed that time (he also lived much further away at that time. His walk this time was less than 2 miles. That time it would've been 10 or 12).

I can understand it being frustrating if it's a pattern of behaviour. No one likes to feel like someone is pushing their weight around by being obstinate about petty things for no good reason. It can sometimes be a weird power trip. Did you try talking to him about it?

Can I ask, do you think he was using you for a ride in the first place?

As I said earlier as long as he's known me, he should know I mean what I say. He happens to be a big liar and bulls****er, but I'm not. If I'm bothering to get up and walk out, it's because I'm leaving...just like I told him. Multiple times.

I feel like we are getting a very negative view of this friendship... what is it that you actually like about this guy? Why do you consider him a friend?

Opinion duly noted. By the way...you were wrong for throwing that pencil at your friend. You nearly killed her!!

:oldrazz: I know, I know, it was pretty awful of me. But I made it up to her a few months later by saving her butt when she fell over in a mosh pit and got half trampled on.

Kind of put things in perspective.
 
I think I should change the title of the thread to - Weird end to a minor aquaintenance that I really didn't give a **** about in the long run anyway

I dares you... In fact I double dares ya to do it... :woot:
 
I think at least a few of these anti-RockSP sentiments are actually film-ophiles or typesetters who secretly are disgusted with anyone who doesn't watch all the credits. Or they dream of being a 'director of photography' or know the 'gaff' or are cousins with the 'key grip'.

Hype-folk, don't be prejudiced. RockSP sounds like a typical 20-something dude interacting with a dude. He ain't going to play nice guy.
 
Don't be prejudiced…? Expecting people to grow the **** up is a prejudice now? Color me surprised.
 
I think at least a few of these anti-RockSP sentiments are actually film-ophiles or typesetters who secretly are disgusted with anyone who doesn't watch all the credits. Or they dream of being a 'director of photography' or know the 'gaff' or are cousins with the 'key grip'.

Hype-folk, don't be prejudiced. RockSP sounds like a typical 20-something dude interacting with a dude. He ain't going to play nice guy.

Or.......they're not.....and just think he treated someone that he "claimed" was a friend like an ugly blind date with terrible body order and a swastika tattooed on their forehead and dumped them the first chance he got.
 

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