well if some are saying that people can recover from rape, then why not child abuse as well, surely that should be under the same category.
again to reiterate, a woman that murders her her husband while sexually trying to assault her to some is seen as worse than actually letting him go through the act of rape since she can recover from it.
driving under the influence is relative depending on how many drinks you've had and how many people you are on the road with and also on the person's level of control while either on drugs or on something else. personally i feel driving while tired in many cases is worse than driving under the influence but meh.
now fraud and drug possession is put low on the list but commiting fraud against the elderly or perhaps the handicapped i find quite revolting because you are clearly taking advantage of others. possession of drugs is fine but where you get those drugs from and the money that is passed around end up going to places and allows people to give up trying to live profitably lives for their communities and end up par taking in unlawful acts which make the poor and rich divide widen. It fuels something much bigger and underground crime and the violence associated with it isn't big on my list so it's important to reach the source of the crimes.
the destruction of priate property via arson is not too bad although it does lead to a draining of useful resources such as the fire brigade that could be needed in dealing with a more serious and life threatening event and when they're strecthed, potential lives could be at risk so there's always that to think about.
kidnapping depends on what kinda position the person being kidnapped is and how important that person is to the family friends employees of the missing person. it also depends on how the captives hold their hostage and whether they are trying to extract information from them or whether they are simply being held for a randsom. it could quite easily be the best and worst of those scenarios.
again assault depends on the victim and situation.
bulgary of an old lady whose husband is in an urn (taken to be melted and sold or just pawned) could lead to unrest for the rest of her days and there's nothing you can do to get it back since the content has already been taken and removed. Plus the taking of sentimental valuables may cause scars that cant be viewed on the surface but may mean quite a large deal to others, especially after a death has occured.
child abuse is very open to intepretation and is considered different things by different people. neglect may be fine for some children but may not be for others while people viewing this from an outside perspective can look at a situation and draw their on conclusions as to what abuse is. something like smacking which some parents think is just may be considered as abuse, especially when looking at cultural differences seen in the upbringing of children in different parts of the world. i think when people say child abuse, they automatically think of kids being raped and babies being shaken and kicked. I mean my friend nearly got put on the sex offender's list because he gave someone a wedgie, he would have served time for child abuse, peh.
as for rape, at least in the statutary (sp?) means, having sex with a young girl when the age difference between you is minimal can cause problems and you can get a record and all but you still carry the stigmata of a rapist even though there was consent from both sides (although technically she's not allowed to). here's a strange statistic, apparently in canada, if there are three parties involved and you all give consent and one of you is over 18, then sex is permitted, how odd.
all these crimes fit on scales, i think to judge them based on their titles alone is being highly presumptious. Especially since you could find yourself in one of these cases (either as the culprit or victim) and your opinion on them could change.
which is why i originally said taking advantage of those in a vunlerable position since it should cover all of those 'crimes' in their most malicious manner. That's the most underlying wrong part in my eyes.